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In the relationship between the sexes, chat is an important way of communication and an important means of closing the distance.
When men and women interact, appropriate chat topics can not only shorten the distance between each other, but also make women feel more attention and warmth.
In many cases, chatting often carries the important function of emotional communication and spiritual communication, and is the basis for gaining the favor of women.
If a man wants to capture a woman's heart through chatting, in addition to basic respect and sincerity, he also needs to be good at choosing topics, so that the chat content can not only arouse the woman's interest, but also enhance each other's feelings.
In the final analysis, when a man chats with a woman, she will be more emotional when she talks more about the following three topics.
1. Talk about her interests and hobbies and establish a common topic
Hobbies are an important part of everyone's life, and they are also a window to show their personality and characteristics.
When a man and a woman are chatting, it is a good idea to spend more time getting to know her interests and hobbies, not only to enrich the conversation, but also to establish a common topic and get to know each other better.
In general, a woman's hobbies are varied, it may be reading, painting, traveling, sports, and many more.
What a man has to do is to listen patiently to the woman's sharing and show a strong interest and curiosity about her interest.
For example, when a woman talks about how she likes to travel, a man can ask her about her most memorable travel experience or share a similar travel story about himself.
Through such communication, men can not only understand the inner world of women, but also create many interesting topics in the chat.
Common interests and hobbies are the foundation for building deep friendships and relationships.
When men talk more about women's interests and hobbies in chatting, they can not only make women feel understood and cared for, but also find resonance in common topics, which is easy to win the favor of women.
2. Talk about her strengths, give appreciation and praise
Everyone has their own unique shining point, and the advantages of women are even more diverse, such as intelligence, kindness, bravery, independence, and so on.
When a man is chatting, if he can keenly discover and praise the advantages of a woman, it can undoubtedly bring great pleasure and satisfaction to a woman.
Of course, compliments are not empty compliments, but are based on a true understanding and appreciation of a woman.
A man can specifically describe a woman's strengths, such as "You are always so attentive and always take care of everyone's feelings", or "I admire you very much for your independence and strength".
Such compliments are not only sincere, but also make women feel the sincerity and respect of men.
It is important to note that compliments should be in moderation, and compliments that are too frequent may make a woman feel unreal or contrived.
Men should naturally incorporate compliments in the chat, so that women can feel their charm unconsciously.
At the same time, men should also learn to appreciate women's shortcomings and shortcomings, because true love is tolerance and understanding.
The more men appreciate women, the more they will compliment them, and the more they will gain their favor, which will lead to the development of intimate relationships.
3. Talk about the future of two people, so that she has a sense of belonging
After the relationship between a man and a woman gradually deepens, you can talk to her about future plans, which will make them feel more belonging.
Because, this is not only a manifestation of trust in men, but also an expectation and commitment to the relationship between the two.
When chatting, men can timely mention their vision for the future, such as common life goals, career development, family planning, etc.
When talking about the future, men should show a sense of responsibility and responsibility, so that women can feel their reliability and security.
At the same time, men should also respect women's wishes and ideas, and discuss future directions and goals together.
Learning to plan the future for women will definitely make women feel the sincerity and determination of men in the chat, and they can also enhance each other's feelings in planning the future together.
In addition, men should also be careful to avoid overly vague or unrealistic promises when talking about the future.
The future is unknown, but a man can make the future better and more promising through practical actions and efforts.
Men should let women see that they are working towards a common goal, and this kind of chat can make women more emotional.
Ye Feifei YFF emotional message:
To sum up, when a man chats with a woman, the more she talks about these three topics, the more emotional she will be.
Talk about her interests and hobbies, establish common topics, talk about her strengths, give appreciation and praise, and talk about the future of the two people, so that she has a sense of belonging.
It can be seen that chatting with women can often touch their hearts and make the relationship more intimate.
Therefore, when interacting with women, men should learn to listen attentively, observe carefully, praise sincerely, and plan together.
In this way, whether it is friendship or love, it can be sublimated and developed in chatting.
I hope that men in reality can flexibly use these chat skills to win the hearts of women.
The most important thing is that men should maintain a sincere heart and treat women with love and respect, so that they can reap truly beautiful love.
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Author: Ye Feifei YFF, focusing on the creation and sharing of the emotional field, I hope to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. I hope you and I know each other here, please follow me if you like!