Preamble:
Parents generally pursue their children's excellent performance in all aspects, in order to allow their children to make breakthroughs in academics, hobbies, etc., they will enroll their children in various study classes and interest classes, hoping to be above other children, which also brings huge learning pressure to children. Recently, a distressing incident has once again attracted widespread attention from the society, an 8-year-old boy was beaten to death by the coach in a martial arts club, and this scene turned out to be a joint participation of multiple coaches, what is even more outrageous is that the child's father did not learn that the child had passed away until the day before the case went to trial, and the scars on the child's body are also heartbreaking, the indictment shows that the child was beaten many times, and when the child was dying, the last words he heard were "Your mother will not come to pick you up" Such a tragic way of dying is sad and unacceptable.
1. How should parents correctly guide their children's growth?
Parents generally have high expectations for their children, hoping that they can perform well in all aspects, however, excessive expectations and learning pressure may make children psychologically distorted, thinking that they cannot meet the requirements of parents, resulting in low self-esteem, Anxiety and other psychological problems, which is very detrimental to the growth of children, and what parents should do is to correctly guide their children's growth, pay attention to their inner world, not just the pursuit of external achievements, only let children have a healthy inner world, in order to better face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, but also to walk more firmly on the road of growth.
1. Pay attention to your child's mental health
Children's mental health is equally important, parents should not only focus on their children's academic performance, but ignore their emotional needs, should communicate with their children, understand their inner world, give them emotional support and encouragement, let them know that no matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks they encounter, parents will be behind them silently support them, so that children can have a good emotional experience, and can have a healthy and happy childhood.
2. Appropriate educational methods
Parents in the process of educating their children, they also need to have a certain way of education, can not spoil their children too much, let alone educate their children through corporal punishment and other methods, which will only make children rebellious, on the contrary, parents should give their children a certain degree of autonomy, so that they can learn to think independently and solve problems, but also give them the courage to fail, let them know that failure is not terrible, the key is to learn lessons from failure, continue to grow and progress.
3. Establish a good family atmosphere
Family is the first school for children to grow up, and it is also an important place for children's emotional development, and parents should set a good example for their children, establish a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, accompany their children more, share the bits and pieces of life with them, let them thrive in a happy atmosphere, and give them trust and respect, so that they have the opportunity to express their views, so that children can grow up healthily in a harmonious family atmosphere.
2. How should coaches treat students correctly?
Coaches play a very important role in the growth of children, they are not only children's teachers, but also children's friends and guides, should give students help and encouragement when they encounter difficulties, give affirmation and praise when they make progress, and when students are injured, coaches should seek medical help as soon as possible, rather than ignoring their injuries, and can not take any form of corporal punishment, however, in reality, there have been some coaches who abuse students, which have brought great harm to students, such behavior can never be forgiven, and how should coaches treat students correctly？
1. Pay attention to the physical and mental health of students
In the process of educating students, coaches should pay full attention to the physical and mental health of students, give them care and support, only let students learn and grow in a good atmosphere, they can thrive, but also give them full understanding and respect, because each student's growth rhythm is different, do not need a unified standard to require them.
2. Actively guide students
Coaches should not only teach students various skills, but also give them positive guidance in their growth, so that they can establish a correct outlook on life and values, know how to face difficulties and setbacks, and also give them the power of role models, so that they know that only by being down-to-earth and working hard can they realize their dreams.
3. Establish a good teacher-student relationship
Coaches and students should establish a good teacher-student relationship, so that students can ask the coach for help without scruples when they encounter problems, and the coach should also give students patient listening and help, and become a guide on the path of students' growth, giving them guidance and encouragement, so that students can thrive in a good teacher-student relationship.
3. How to prevent the occurrence of similar incidents?
Children are the flowers of the motherland and the future of the country, and incidents similar to children being abused by coaches must not happen again, which not only requires the joint efforts of parents and coaches, but also requires extensive attention and supervision from the society, so as to fundamentally prevent the occurrence of similar incidents and protect every minor.
1. Strengthen parental supervision
Parents should strengthen guardianship in their children's learning and life, communicate with their children more, understand their learning and living conditions in schools and training institutions, if they find that their children have abnormalities, they must communicate with their children in a timely manner, give them encouragement and help, and also be vigilant, if they find that their children have scars, they should communicate with the school or relevant departments as soon as possible, and they cannot be deceived by some illegal people.
2. Strengthen social supervision
When training institutions and schools recruit coaches and teachers, they should also strengthen the review of qualifications to ensure that every teacher and coach has a certain professional ethics and educational literacy, and also strengthen the training of coaches, so that they know how to treat students correctly and how to protect the safety and health of students.
3. Students learn to protect themselves
Students should also learn to protect themselves, if they encounter any harm and abuse, they must be brave enough to stand up and tell the truth of the matter, and they cannot choose to remain silent because they are afraid.
Epilogue:
Behind every incident of child abuse, there are hidden social flaws and problems, and each of us should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, pay attention to every child around us, care for their growth, and work together to build a better society, so that every child can thrive in a safe and happy environment, and I also hope that the deceased child can be at peace in heaven, and the murderer in the case can also get the punishment he deserves, so that the tragedy will not happen again.