In this way, I spent several long months in pain and self-blame. Until one day, my good friend Wang Hao came to visit me, and when he saw my embarrassed appearance, he couldn't help but persuade me: "Viagra, you can't go on like this, you have to cheer up again! Li Wen is already someone else's wife, are you just like this?"
I shook my head weakly: "But, I love her too much to let go of this relationship." "
Wang Hao patted me on the shoulder and said earnestly: "Viagra, love is indeed beautiful, but if you pin all the meaning of life on love, then you will lose." Life should not only be pursued by love, you should live for yourself, not for others. "
I bowed my head and was silent. Seeing this, Wang Hao continued: "Look at the way you look now, you are simply a living dead! You should reflect on what went wrong, instead of self-torture like this. "
I began to realize that the reason why I suffered such a blow was because I pinned all my hopes and dreams on Li Wen. I regarded her as the whole of my life, and once I lost her, I was helpless and lost the meaning of existence.
I told myself I couldn't go on like this. I had to find myself again, to find a new purpose and a new pursuit in life. So, I started to take care of my life again: I got up early and went for a morning run, I started working out, I relearned new skills, and I studied my work.
Gradually, I began to come out of the mire of pain. I realized that my previous way of life was wrong and that I should learn to be independent and learn to live for myself. I also began to reflect on whether I had put too much pressure on Li Wen in the first place, so that she finally chose to leave.
Yes, I was too unrequited, my love was too repressed and persistent, and I ignored her needs. I began to let go and began to forgive her and forgive myself. I told myself, let the past pass, now is a new beginning.
After a long struggle, I finally found myself again. I started to put more energy into my work and personal development, rather than just trying to earn money and marry a wife. Gradually, I also made great progress in my career and won the appreciation of my leaders.
One day, my boss invited me to drink and said to me at the wine table: "Weizi, I see that you have worked very hard and made great progress during this time, have you ever considered the idea of starting a business? As long as you have a good business plan, the company can invest in and support you." "
I was shocked, I didn't expect my boss to give me such an opportunity. I smiled and said, "Thank you boss for your appreciation, I do have some entrepreneurial ideas, but I still need to think about it again." "
From that day on, I thought about how to start my own business. After months of gestation and preparation, I finally submitted a business plan, and I quickly received support and investment from the company. That's how I started my own company and started a new journey in my life.
In the beginning, everything was a tough start. I often work late into the night by myself, dealing with all kinds of difficult problems. A few times, I even thought about giving up, but I told myself: Weizi, you have already missed life once, and you can't miss it again this time!
Just when I was about to give up, suddenly a big customer came to my door and gave me a decent order. I was so excited that I immediately lifted my spirits and started working day and night. Soon, the company's business was booming, and I finally tasted the sweetness of entrepreneurship.
One day, when I was inspecting the company, I met Wang Hao by chance. Seeing my achievements now, he happily patted me on the shoulder and said, "Weizi, look at you now, are you much stronger than before?" I know that as long as you find your direction again, you will definitely be able to start again!"
I smiled and said, "That's right, if it weren't for what you said at the beginning, I might have been living in a haze and couldn't extricate myself." It was you who made me rediscover the meaning and direction of my life. "
Wang Hao said: "No, we are old friends, and your business is my business." In the future, let's fight side by side and create a beautiful career together!"
I nodded, secretly determined in my heart to make this company bigger and bigger, and make a career.
And just like that, my life started again. I told myself, let the past pass, now is a new beginning. I started to put most of my energy into running the company, rather than pursuing a certain woman. My company is getting better and better, my business is getting bigger and bigger, and I finally taste the joy of having a successful career.
Sometimes, I also inadvertently think of Li Wen. However, the remembrance no longer pains me, on the contrary, I was able to calmly look back on the moments between us and sincerely wish her happiness. Yes, if it weren't for that breakup at the beginning, I might have been living in the haze of the past and couldn't get out.
I began to reflect that maybe the breakup was a relief for me to get rid of my past attachments and find myself again. I began to realize that the meaning of life should not only be love, but also career, friendship, family, and so on. Only by developing yourself holistically can you truly achieve happiness.
Yes, I now live the life I aspire to: a career, friends, and family. I began to learn to let go of the past, learn to forgive myself and others, and embrace a new life. I know that as long as I persist and don't give up, my life will be full of sunshine.
While the company was growing, I gradually began to try to embrace love again. One day, I met a lady named Jiang Mei by chance at a business reception. She is an executive of a large company, with an elegant and generous temperament, giving people a sense of maturity and stability.
We casually struck up and found that we had a lot in common. We've all experienced the pain of falling out of love, but we've all come out of the haze and embraced a new life. Jiang Mei admitted to me that the reason why she was able to come out was because work had become the biggest sustenance in her life.
Gradually, we became very good friends, often working, chatting, and eating together. Once, while we were out talking about business, my car tire suddenly burst. Jiang Mei didn't say a word, and took the initiative to get out of the car to help me put on the spare tire. Looking at the way she rolled up her sleeves and taught me by hand, my heart pounded, and I was attracted by her ability and independence.
Since then, I have deliberately approached Jiang Mei and have also begun to think about whether it is possible for us to develop into another relationship. Jiang Mei seemed to have the same idea, and she began to take the initiative to ask me out for dinner and movies. Once, we were walking in the park together, and Jiang Mei suddenly held my hand with a shy look on her face.
I know that this is a signal that Jiang Mei is conveying to me. I had mixed feelings: Do I still have the courage to embrace love again after the pain of my last broken love? But I told myself, let the past pass, now is a new beginning.
So, I plucked up the courage and invited Jiang Mei to my home on a bright night. I prepared a delicious meal for her, with candles lit on the table, creating a romantic atmosphere.
After the meal, I took a deep breath and plucked up the courage to say, "Sister Mei, I have always admired you, you are a very good woman, you are independent at work, and you are stable enough in life. I feel honored to be able to meet you. "
Jiang Mei seemed a little shy, she lowered her head and whispered, "Viagra, you are also a very good person, we have a lot of common life experiences and values. I'm also glad to meet you. "
I continued: "Sister Mei, I know that we have all experienced the pain of falling out of love, but we have all come out and started a new life. I want to ask you, would you like to spend the rest of your life with me and work together to make our lives better?"
Jiang Mei raised her head, her eyes gloomy. After a long while, she said slowly: "Viagra, I have always admired you, you are a self-motivated and responsible man. I need to think about it again, though, can you give me some time?"
For some time after that, I waited patiently for Jiang Mei's reply. I knew that she needed time to sort out her heart, after all, the last emotional trauma hit her hard. Instead of rushing her, I continued to focus on my work and waited for a suitable moment.
Finally, on a summer evening, Jiang Mei took the initiative to invite me to her house. When I opened the door to her house, I was greeted by a living room with a romantic atmosphere: red rose petals on the floor, candles lit on the table, and a bottle of red wine and two goblets.
Jiang Mei walked out of the room, she was wearing a simple long dress, her hair was combed into an elegant bun, and she had a shy smile on her face. She walked up to me, wrapped her hands around my waist gently, and said, "Viagra, I've been thinking about it for a long time. The pain of the past did make me worry about my relationship, but your presence rekindled my yearning for love. You are a trustworthy person and I am willing to spend the rest of my life hand in hand with you. "
When I heard this, my eyes couldn't help but moisten. I hugged Jiang Mei tightly and whispered in her ear, "Thank you, Sister Mei." I will definitely use all my sincerity to love and care for you well. From now on, let us work together to create a better life!"
And just like that, we embraced love all over again. I know that this time I will definitely grasp this fate and cherish the people in front of me. Yes, there are no ifs in life, but it is destined for countless new beginnings. I will try to create a new future that will be more brilliant than the past.
In this way, Jiang Mei and I entered the palace of marriage and started a new life. After marriage, we love each other, and our work and life are full of sunshine. Before we knew it, we had been married for more than five years.
One day, Jiang Mei suddenly said to me: "Viagra, we have been married for so long, don't you think it's time to have a child? "
Hearing Jiang Mei's words, I was a little at a loss. As a career-oriented man, I have always put my work first and have never seriously considered having children. But looking at Jiang Mei's pleading eyes, I finally nodded.
And just like that, we started the big plan of parenting. However, as soon as we went to the hospital for an examination, the doctor told us a cruel truth: due to congenital disabilities, Jiang Mei could not conceive naturally at all. Upon hearing the news, Jiang Mei and I both fell into unprecedented frustration.
After some careful consideration, Jiang Mei and I decided to get a child through other means. Ultimately, we opted for the surrogacy approach.
In China, surrogacy is illegal. So, we had to go abroad for help. After many inquiries, we found a professional and reliable surrogacy agency and quickly matched with a volunteer.
The whole process is not easy, it requires a lot of capital investment, and there are many times to fly abroad for surgery and prenatal check-ups. However, in order to be able to have a child of our own, we gritted our teeth and persevered.
Jiang Mei looked at our mother and daughter, and her face was also full of happiness. She said, "Viagra, we finally have a child of our own. From now on, let's give all our love to this little angel. "
I nodded and said solemnly, "Yes, Xiaoyun is the lifeblood of our family." I will use my own hands to create a happy and warm home for her, so that she can grow up healthy and happy. "
In this way, Xiaoyun's arrival brought new responsibilities and challenges to my life. I had to find a balance between work and family, and try to be a good man who can fight for his career and fulfill his father's responsibilities.
For a while, I was so busy with work that I would leave early and come home late for months on end. Whenever I returned home, Xiaoyun had already fallen asleep, and I could only stare silently at her little bed for a moment, extremely annoyed in my heart.
Once, when I had just finished a big project and was finally able to take a breath, Xiaoyun suddenly said to me, "Dad, you have been ignoring me lately, don't you want me anymore?"
Hearing these innocent but helpless words, my heart was suddenly stabbed fiercely. I crouched down, hugged Xiaoyun gently, and whispered in her ear, "Baby, I'm sorry, Dad is too busy and neglected you during this time." But you have to believe that you will always be Dad's most precious treasure, and Dad will always love you and love you. "
Xiaoyun nodded understandingly, and then took the initiative to kiss me on the cheek, as if to comfort me. Looking at her big innocent eyes, I made up my mind that I must adjust my work-life balance and leave more time and energy for this family.
Since then, I have consciously controlled the intensity of my work, and I will find time to spend with Xiaoyun every day. Sometimes it's taking her to the park to play, sometimes it's playing games together at home, sometimes it's telling her stories and reciting tongue twisters. I give all my love to this family.
Gradually, I found that my life became more fulfilling and interesting. Although the pressure at work is still very high, when I get home and see the smiling faces of my wife and daughter, I feel a sense of happiness that I have never felt before. Yes, my family is my solid backing and the biggest motivation for my struggle.
I told myself that I would put my family first no matter what, because family members are our greatest treasure in this life. Only when our families are happy can we achieve true happiness ourselves. With the arrival of Xiaoyun, my life has added more color and meaning.