On the stage of life, we often long to find the confidant who can dig out our hearts and lungs, and the deep friendship that we share in weal and bene. However, a sentence from the great writer Mo Yan has brought us a new perspective: "The best relationship between people is that there is no relationship." This sentence seems to be contradictory, but it is actually deeply philosophical, and it makes us re-examine the true meaning of human relationships.
First of all, we need to understand that everyone is a book, and everyone's story is unique. Trying to fit everyone into the framework of a confidant is like using a ruler to measure the ever-changing world, and it is inevitable that it will be a little overwhelming. Just like the old saying, "turnip greens, each has his own love", our circle of friends should be the same, there is no need to force consistency, each has its own wonderful.
Mo Yan once said: "A true friend doesn't need too many words, a look, a smile, is enough to understand." Such a relationship seems to be alienated, but in fact it is comfortable. Without too much expectation and pressure, we can freely come and go in each other's world, and they will be there when you need them, which is the most precious tacit understanding.
Sometimes, getting too close can breed conflicts, and an unintentional joke can hurt the harmony. Keep a proper distance and give each other space to breathe in order to keep your friendship fresh for a long time. Just like the saying, "distance produces beauty", appropriate alienation can make us cherish that hard-won fate more.
Of course, this is not to say that we should be indifferent to those around us, but that we should learn to understand and respect. Everyone has their own way of life and choices, and there is no need to impose our perceptions. As the ancients said: "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", true friendship does not lie in the intensity, but in the mutual support and understanding in the plain.
Finally, Mo Yan's sentence also tells us that life is like a journey, and we don't have to be too attached to our companions, what matters is the scenery and inner perception along the way. We are all moving forward on our own life paths, some people accompany you for a while, and some people accompany you for a lifetime, but the best relationship may be for you to find your own freedom and tranquility at every stage.
Therefore, the next time you meet that "no relationship" person, you might as well accept it with a normal heart, because that may be the most suitable way for you to get along. Remember, the best relationship is not sticking together, but each other's wonderful, mutual respect, that unspoken understanding and tacit understanding, is the deepest bond.
Life is diverse, we don't need to turn everyone into a confidant, we just need to meet occasionally and illuminate each other on their own tracks. Such a relationship is simple and beautiful, and it is worth cherishing and sharing. Forward this Weibo to let more people feel the wisdom of life!