Tags: #男生心理 #社交媒体 #朋友圈隐私 #情感体验 #自我保护
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## Stop being addicted to the virtual world and enjoy real life
Have you ever wondered why more and more boys are no longer keen on posting on social media?
For some guys, a negative emotional experience is enough to make them abandon the virtual world of social media altogether. They begin to enjoy real life and devote their energy to face-to-face interactions with friends and family, rather than seeking likes and followers in their circle of friends.
## Privacy leakage, lifelong autism
With the popularity of social media, more and more personal information is being displayed publicly, and for private-minded boys, this is a huge threat.
One day, they may suddenly realize that the photos and texts that they thought were only shared on their social media have been circulating on social media. Their privacy is violated and they feel uncomfortable. This experience made them feel deeply autistic and decided not to expose themselves to virtual social spaces anymore.
## Feel the pressure of falsehood and pursue the true heart
Boys may have the same social pressures as girls, if not more. On social media, people tend to show only the best of themselves and hide their true emotions.
This hypocritical environment can make boys feel stressed and feel that they can't find their true selves in the virtual world. They begin to pursue inner truth and choose not to deliberately present a false image in their circle of friends.
## Seek self-protection from negative energy
In the circle of friends, negative energy and critical voices are often present. Boys may be subjected to unnecessary accusations and attacks for things that are inconsequential.
This negative energy makes boys feel tired and powerless, and they begin to seek self-protection and choose to stay away from potentially hurtful remarks in their circle of friends. They focus more on self-growth and positive emotional experiences rather than being bothered by negative energy.
## Concentrate and pursue something more meaningful
Giving up on social media doesn't mean that guys don't care about socializing and communicating. Instead, they may focus their energies on more meaningful things, such as deep communication, learning, and personal growth.
By giving up posting on social media, they are better able to build deep connections with themselves and those around them, and pursue more meaningful relationships.
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I finally know why boys don't like to post on Moments, and one emo in exchange for lifelong autism. In the world of virtual social media, boys may have found the beauty of real life. They choose to protect their privacy, pursue inner truth, stay away from negative energy, and focus their energy on more meaningful things.