I didn't know how to begin, but I felt the need to write it down to vent my frustrations. Perhaps, writing it down will allow me to think more calmly and find a solution to the problem.
This story happened one day in April. Maybe it's because of the busyness and fatigue of several days in a row, which makes me more vulnerable and sensitive. My husband and I were at home that day, my daughter was only three months old, and I was on maternity leave. I believe every mother can understand that when she first became a mother, it was really hard.
Every day, I feel a little irritable in the face of those messy housework and the company of crying children. It's not that I don't want to take care of my children, but sometimes it feels like I'm doing everything alone. I understand it's not fair, but I can't control my emotions.
When it was time for the meal, I thought my husband would cook, as he had promised to help me with the housework as much as possible. However, when I walked into the kitchen, I saw my husband sitting in the living room with a bowl of noodles, eating alone. He didn't even ask, and he didn't prepare a copy for me.
This scene made my heart twist. I even felt the urge to get a divorce.
Some people may say that this is just a small matter, so why make a big fuss. But for me, it's not just a matter of face, it's a feeling of being ignored and ignored. I don't expect my husband to be like a hero in a love letter, doing romantic things every day, but I want him to pay attention to me and respect me, especially during this special time.
Perhaps, it is a matter of communication. Maybe I didn't express myself clearly, didn't let him understand my needs. But can't he be a husband who cares more about me? Can't he take the initiative to ask if I'm hungry?
I confess, I am full of resentment. But I also understand that emotional matters cannot be seen only on one side, let alone a small negligence to conclude divorce. After all, we have gone through so many years of time and have had sweetness and happiness.
Now, I need to think calmly even more. I will communicate well with my husband and tell him how I feel. Maybe he didn't know what was going on in my heart, or maybe he had a different idea about the division of chores. It is only through open dialogue that we can find solutions to problems and make our relationships more harmonious.
The story may not be particularly captivating, but it is a true reflection of the daily lives of many mothers. I'm sure many mothers have thought about giving up when they have experienced similar troubles. However, we should all learn to face problems rationally and find solutions.
Finally, I would like to say to all mothers, don't give up easily. When you feel tired and helpless, talk to the people around you and ask for help. There will inevitably be bumps and bumps on the road of marriage, but only by understanding and tolerating each other can we go through difficulties together and create a better future together.