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After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

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Text丨Ukiyo Qinghuan

Editor丨Ukiyo Qinghuan

My father's death was like a fuse, which completely shattered my relationship with my eldest sister, and since then I have cut off contact, everything is so reasonable but it doesn't seem real.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

It wasn't until 6 years later that my nephew got married, and my eldest sister's family took the initiative to invite me.

So why did I cut off contact with my eldest sister, and what did my eldest sister's family say when they came to me that day?

Sister and brother affection

I was born in a single-parent family in the countryside, with a three-year-old sister and a two-year-old brother below.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

For so many years, he has refused to tell us, whenever we ask about this, my father deliberately avoids it, and if we ask deeply, my father will get angry and severely criticize us, and gradually we don't care about these things, and completely forget about our mother.

I remember when I was a child, my father, grandparents had to work in the fields, so the eldest sister dropped out of school after finishing elementary school and went home to help take care of me and my younger brother.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

Later, my younger brother went to junior high school, and when he was a little older, the eldest sister went out to work to earn a living, and often came back once every few months, and every time she came back, she had to buy me and my brother a new set of clothes, and the eldest sister was still a very frugal person, and she was reluctant to spend the money she earned, and she was generally handed over to her father for safekeeping.

My brother and I didn't get into high school, so we went home to help my father with farm work, I didn't think farm work was tiring before, at most it was sunburning, until I experienced it firsthand, I realized that under the scorching sun, the feeling of wielding a hoe is really like the body is hollowed out.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

Obviously, I was not a piece of work, so I said goodbye to my father, took a meager fare, and went to the city to make a living, at that time, I learned to repair bicycles, learned to cut hair, and entered the factory, but in the end I failed to persevere, but fortunately, after a friend's introduction, I became a bus driver, and traveled to and from several nearby counties all day long, which was considered to be settled.

The younger brother is more honest and introverted, so he has always followed his father and helped with farm work. Generally, in rural areas, marriage and childbirth are relatively early, at this time, the eldest sister is just in her early twenties, and there are constantly matchmakers coming to talk about matchmaking, and the father's concept is also more traditional, thinking that he should start a family earlier.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

Therefore, every time the eldest sister comes back from working outside, it is inevitable to have one or two blind dates, not to mention, this is because of the blind date, the eldest sister finally found a home in life, and the brother-in-law's family is also rural, more than ten miles away from my home.

After a few years, my brother and I started a family, I found a foreign daughter-in-law, after the marriage we emptied our savings and built a two-story house in the village, and the younger brother and sister-in-law lived in the old house with my father, and later the younger brother saved some money and renovated the house again.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

Sibling disputes

Since then, our three siblings have started a family, and my father no longer has to work as before, just to enjoy his old age, but my father obviously does not have this life, and soon after my brother's marriage, his body began to have various problems, his liver and stomach are not good, and he has always needed to take medicine to stabilize his condition.

After a few more years, my father's condition deteriorated and he underwent two surgeries, but fortunately, the surgery was very successful, but after the second operation, everything changed. At that time, my father's condition was stable and there was no need to worry about his life, but his brain was getting worse and worse, and he suffered from Alzheimer's disease.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

And it's not Alzheimer's disease in general, my father is not only forgetful, but also has some mental problems, often muttering something to himself, and saying some strange things, or something that didn't happen at all, but my father firmly believes that it happened.

For example, there was a period of time when the father yelled at his daughter-in-law all day long, his son hanged himself, etc., no matter how we explained it, maybe the father understood at the time, but after a while, he fell into his own world again, talking nonsense.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

The most terrible thing is that once, it was a big winter, about two o'clock in the middle of the night, my father carefully got out of bed, wearing a single coat, not too cold, walked alone to the crossroads in the village, lying in the middle of the intersection and fell asleep, fortunately, the villagers who had just returned from drinking in the middle of the night saw it, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.

It was also through that incident that made the three of us sisters and brothers afraid, and then the three families sat together to discuss solutions. At first, the three of us proposed to take turns to take care of our father, and we would eat and sleep for ten days alone, during which time we would not leave an inch to prevent such incidents from happening again.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

At this time, the brother-in-law said that it was okay as usual, just buy a lock, the younger brother and sister-in-law were not at home during the day, and lock it when sleeping every night, but this was strongly opposed by the younger brother-in-law, claiming that he had no energy to take care of the old man, and now the old man can't cook by himself, and he still needs someone to cook for him.

In addition, the younger brother and sister-in-law are still busy with farm work in the field, and they have no time and energy to take care of the elderly. I also think that it is not appropriate to let my father live in my brother's house all the time, after all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and we should share the responsibility of taking care of my father, and we must not put all the responsibility on my brother's family.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

During the discussion, I also mentioned sending to a nursing home or hiring a nanny, but with my father's current situation, those are not suitable, and we can only take care of my sister and brother. But what I never expected was that just as I was about to decide, my brother-in-law suddenly slapped the table and said that he would never take the old man back.

After speaking, my brother-in-law pulled the eldest sister away, leaving me and my younger brother who looked at each other, and later I called the eldest sister, but the eldest sister did not have a clear opinion, I knew that her heart must be able to take turns to take care of her, but the brother-in-law disagreed, as the saying goes, the husband sings with the wife, and the eldest sister is difficult to do in the middle.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

But things have to be settled, so the next day I went to my brother-in-law's house alone, hoping to discuss it again, but the result was still unhappy, and my brother-in-law said that he still had his own parents to support, and that it was the sons' business to support the elderly, and it was absolutely impossible for him to take turns to take care of my father.

In the end, I had to take turns with my brother and my two families to take care of each other for a month, which was exhausting for me and my wife. And the eldest sister would come to help take care of it from time to time, but she never offered to take her father away.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

This situation did not last long, only a year, my father drove to the west, the funeral was organized by my brother and me, and when it was finally done, I found that the gift money collected was thrown away from the expenses, and there were more than 20,000 yuan left, at that time I thought that this year, my brother and I were taking care of my father, so I proposed that we both have 10,000 yuan each.

But somehow, my brother-in-law heard about this and came directly to my house, claiming that the 20,000 yuan must be divided equally among the three families, no matter how much, which made me angry.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

My brother-in-law was not scared, and in the end the shovel fell firmly on my brother-in-law's forehead, bleeding non-stop, fortunately, there was no major problem, but my brother-in-law's family and I also completely cut off contact because of this incident, and since then, I have not sent another WeChat, nor have I made another call, and I have not even walked through relatives during the New Year's holidays.

In the blink of an eye, six years have passed, and as time goes by, I regret more and more about what happened back then, because thousands of dollars directly made me and my eldest sister strangers, which is really not cost-effective, and I wanted to apologize several times, but I always couldn't take that step, and I have been dragging it in a self-deceptive way.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

I learned from my brother that my nephew was going to get married at the end of the month, and I really wanted to go, but my brother-in-law's family didn't inform me, I knew that they didn't recognize me as a brother at all, so I could only endure the sadness in my heart, and let my brother talk on the day of my nephew's wedding, wishing my nephew a happy new love.

But what I didn't expect was that just a week before the wedding, several long-lost figures appeared in front of me, it was my brother-in-law, eldest sister and nephew, each of them carried two boxes of gifts, came to my house with a smile, and officially invited me to my nephew's wedding.

After my father died, my eldest sister and I cut off contact, and six years later, my nephew got married and took the initiative to invite me

epilogue

That day, my brother-in-law's family and I had a surprisingly tacit understanding, and we never mentioned the events of the year, we were chatting around my nephew's marriage, and I waited until my brother-in-law's family left, and my excitement completely exploded, and tears had soaked my eyes.

On the night of my nephew's wedding, after all the guests had dispersed, my brother-in-law and my brother sat down to drink and talked about the events of the year, but not to argue about right and wrong, but to say that the old things were gone, and they would be completely forgotten, so that it would be good for them to prevent such things from happening in the future.

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