(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
For us ordinary people, it is a blessing to be able to marry a daughter-in-law who is diligent and cares for the family in this life, and you also know that the ratio of men and women in our country is imbalanced, and many people live a single life, so marrying a daughter-in-law has also become a wish of ours.
At first, I thought the same way, but by chance I met a North Korean girl, after getting married, I also said that my wife would have time to go home to see, but just 3 years after the marriage, we finally had time to go back to my parents' house to visit relatives, but after arriving at my parents' house, the attitude of my father-in-law and mother-in-law made my wife very angry, and also threatened: "I will not step further in this door in the future"!
01
I followed my parents to live in Northeast China since I was a child, but my hometown is from Henan, and my family background is an ordinary family.
When I was a child, I asked my mother: "Why did you and your father come here to develop, is it because our hometown is not good for development"?
At this time, my mother said, "You ask your father, he was doing well in his hometown at that time, and he wanted to come to work here with his friends, but the weather here is cold."
But whether it should be said or not, the Northeast is quite fun, and how many southerners envy the goose feathers and snow here.
During my school days, because our family opened a small restaurant, my parents didn't have much time to take care of me, and almost all of them were free-range.
One of the things they said the most was: "Son, you have to study hard, or you will be called to inherit our small restaurant at that time, and you can usually see how tired we are."
These words were like wind in my ears, and I couldn't listen to them at all, which also caused me to be in the bottom three of every exam during my primary school years, and I never came out.
In a flash, I had already graduated from high school, and my parents were very disappointed in me because of my poor academic performance and not being admitted to university.
So I proposed to my parents: "Otherwise, I will follow you to learn our family's cuisine, the business is so hot every day, I will open another branch when the time comes."
This sentence is like opening up my father's second vein, patting his head and saying: "Why didn't I think of this, son, your head is quite good."
One looked at my father with white eyes, I am not good at studying, and it is not that I have a problem with my brain, and I mean a few things.
I've been working in my father's store for almost half a year, and I've basically learned everything, and the operation of the store is a direct copy of my father's store.
Then I went to start the site selection, and after running for a few days and still didn't have a clue, I thought about getting my high school classmate out for a drink and seeing if he had any good ideas.
In the evening, after three rounds of drinking, I asked him: "Wang Gang, I want to open a restaurant recently, where do you say it is better for me to open, I don't have a clue these days."
Wang Gang was silent for a while, and then said: "Have you been to the vicinity of Northeastern University, I feel that the passenger flow over there is quite large, why don't you go to the scene tomorrow."
These words woke me up, and I just thought about opening a store downstairs in the community, and I didn't even think about it near the school.
The next day, I ran to the gate of Northeastern University, walked around and found a store, although the area is a little worse, but the location is OK, I carefully discussed with the landlord, if the price is right, I will rent.
In the end, it was 20,000 yuan a year, which was really not low at that time, but my parents also agreed with my approach and did what they said.
At that time, when the store was still being renovated, I had already started to hand out leaflets at the entrance of the university, and I instantly regretted not going to college, there are countless beauties in the school, and there are many North Korean girls.
However, I really didn't want to go to school at the time, but if there were beauties in the university to promote their school, it was definitely the best way to publicize.
On the day of the opening, the business was so hot that I couldn't keep myself busy, which was completely unexpected, so I had to put up a job sign in front of the store.
At that time, I also specially asked a friend to help me write a job posting in Chinese and Korean, and I did not expect that there would be North Korean girls to work-study, after all, they all seemed to be very cold, and they only played with people from their own country.
02
About a week later, at four or five o'clock in the afternoon, I was preparing for the evening's work, when I heard a knock on the door outside, I thought it was for dinner, so I didn't pay attention to it, but just said, "It's not open yet, you can go outside and go around and then come over for dinner."
Then I heard a very lame voice, speaking very impure Chinese, and when I came out, it was a girl with very delicate facial features, and I asked, "Are you from North Korea?"
The girl responded: "Yes, boss, I saw that there was a job posting at your door, so I thought about asking if I was still hiring."
I wondered very much, this girl looks very beautiful, quiet and quiet, can she be a waiter, besides, even Chinese is not good.
She seemed to see my concerns, so she replied, "Boss, I can do it, I'm very hardworking."
I was skeptical, so I said, "Then why don't you try it for a while, let's do it first, and give you 3,000 yuan a month, right?"
She was very excited when she heard it, she didn't expect me to give her such a high salary, the main reason is that the hotel plus her is only the two of us, and she will be tired.
I asked, "What's your name, and you haven't told me your contact information yet."
She hesitantly said, "My name is Kim Yeon."
The name sounded weird, but after that, she would come to work on time every day, and my impression of her gradually improved, I didn't expect her to be so diligent.
Later, as I got acquainted with them, I learned that they could only come to China for 3 years, and many of them would come to China to earn 3 years ago, because the average salary in their country was only more than 500 yuan a month.
For us, it's true that the 500 yuan is gone before it is spent.
So at that time, I gave Jin Yan 3,000 a month, and she was already very content.
With the accumulation of time, the two of us also slowly developed an ambiguous feeling, and I would cook for her every day as long as she wanted to eat.
Once I suddenly asked Jin Yan: "Why haven't I seen you go home for so long, don't you miss home?"
Jin Yan replied: "I think, how can I miss home, but I still want to wait until 3 years later when the time is up to go back, and I can save a little."
In my opinion, Kim Yeon is really a good girl who takes care of her family's frugality.
By chance, I proposed to her that I wanted to fall in love with her, and she hesitated for a while, because their thinking was more feudal, and no matter what their parents said, they didn't dare to refute it, and then I said, "It's okay, it's good to be a friend."
But I didn't expect Jin Yan to say: "It's okay for us to give it a try, let's talk about it then."
Since then, I have also been a proprietor, and from time to time my parents will come to the store to help Kim Yan with some work, not wanting her to overwork.
I suddenly asked my mother that day: "Mom, do you want to say that I will marry Jin Yan home when the time comes?"
Then my mother came to me: "You can marry Jin Yan, count your ability, your father and I have no objection, as long as you two are happy."
Without the opposition of our parents, we developed very fast, but the three-year period also came, and I said to Jin Yan: "Otherwise, let's get married, and I will go home with you to discuss."
03
Jin Yan was very moved, I didn't expect that I would really do what I said I would marry her.
On the day we went to Kim Yeon's house, I took a bunch of big and small gifts in my hand, after all, I had to let them know that Kim Yeon would not suffer if she married me.
The moment I arrived at the door, I remember that Jin Yan told her parents that we were coming, but there was no one at the door to greet her, and the moment I walked into the house, my mother-in-law first came over and said, "Come on, sit down."
At first, I just thought they wanted to give me a dismount first, so that I could know that it was not easy to marry their daughter.
But when we mentioned that we were going to get married, Kim Yeon's parents seemed to be a little unhappy and wanted Kim Yeon to marry a local man.
Then Jin Yan said: "Dad, Mom, Wang Yang will not treat me badly, we live very happily in China."
Kim Yeon's parents just said, "Then you see, you decide, it's useless for us to say anything."
The brother-in-law on the side just played with the mobile phone alone and didn't say a word, and her parents said to the brother-in-law after saying this: "Are you hungry, let's cook something for you."
From here, I can see that in fact, Jin Yan's parents don't care much about Jin Yan's feelings, and they pay the most attention to their son.
After saying that, Jin Yan and I returned to China, and after some preparations, we got married directly, and my determination at that time was that I must not let Jin Yan be wronged in China, and it is not easy to marry alone.
In the past three years of marriage, we have not only given birth to two children, but the business of the family restaurant is getting better and better, at least in terms of economy, which can make Jin Yan feel satisfied.
At that time, I was busy for a while, and Jin Yan suddenly said to me: "Wang Yang, I want to go home to have a look, I haven't been back for 3 years, you and I should go to see my parents together."
I gladly agreed to this request and bought a bunch of nutritional supplements on the way.
The moment I visited my father-in-law's house again, that familiar feeling came to my face, and I only treated him coldly, as if Jin Yan was not her biological daughter.
Jin Yan didn't say anything, and I didn't say much, just said: "Dad, Mom, I bought you some nutritional products, which are very good for your health, and they are the best on our side."
At this time, the faces of my father-in-law and mother-in-law eased somewhat, but I could see that there was something wrong with Jin Yan's face, and if she felt that she was not holding something good, she would love it.
At this time, Jin Yan asked: "Dad, Mom, what do you mean, Wang Yang is not good, why do you treat him like this?"
Jin Yan is talking to me, until I came to the two times I felt very uncomfortable, the feeling of a hot face against a cold ass you know.
04
At this time, the father-in-law and mother-in-law said: "What's wrong with us, it would be good to agree to your marriage at that time, what are you yelling at me here, don't you say that you are living a good life? When your brother gets married, can you take out some of the money to buy a house?"
This sentence surprised me, eccentricity is not so eccentric, ignoring his daughter, but he is so attentive to his son.
Then it completely broke Jin Yan's heart: "What are you talking about, can't my brother make money by himself? The money earned by the two of us can only take care of us, and then support my brother, what is this?"
The mother-in-law said: "If you don't take this money, don't enter this house in the future, what use do we want you"!
I couldn't help it, so I said to Jin Yan: "Let's go, there's no need to quarrel anymore."
Jin Yan's tears flowed down, and she said like ashes: "Okay, I won't step further in this door in the future, you can do it yourself!"
After returning to China, I comforted Kim Yeon-ho today, I have never seen her so sad, and I never thought that her parents were like this, and since then, we really haven't been there again, as if we had severed our relationship.
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)