Preface
"If you were to say a word to Xu Zhi'an ten years from now, what would you say?"
When Xu Zhi'an was asked about this "soul question", he must have too many "regrets" about his past.
He is the apprentice of "superstar" Anita Mui, the husband of "Hong Kong talented girl" Sammi Cheng, obviously he once held a "good card", but because of his greed, he played this good hand "sparsely". Push yourself from the "top stream" to the bottom with your own hands.
And now ten years later, looking at Xu Zhi'an's situation, I found that he had already paid the "price" for his former self......
"The Scars of I"
Ten years ago, the news that Zheng Xiuwen and Xu Zhian officially announced their reunion and marriage was very shocking, after all, the two of them have been separated and together for decades, and I thought that Zheng Xiuwen had already seen through Xu Zhian's personality and would not choose to be with him.
Unexpectedly, the two of them came together in the end, although most people at that time still had some opinions about Xu Zhian, and this marriage was not very recognized, but Zheng Xiuwen still thought that Xu Zhian would change after getting married.
But within a few years, Xu Zhi'an's "old problem" was committed again, not only derailing but also cheating Huang Xinying, who also had a partner. His behavior disappointed netizens again and again, and at the same time, he also understood that he had done such a thing and could no longer be trusted by the public.
In June 2019, he held a press conference, admitting what he had done and knowing that he had no way to make a career in a "dignified" manner, saying that he would temporarily retire from the entertainment industry.
After such a thing happened, many netizens were thinking that Zheng Xiuwen was not worth it, thinking that Zheng Xiuwen should divorce Xu Zhian. But Zheng Xiuwen may have really loved too much, and finally chose to forgive.
Later, Xu Zhian did "disappear" for 5 years as he promised, and reappeared in front of the audience in April this year because of a program "Zhishan Dating You".
In the past 5 years, Xu Zhi'an's appearance looks a lot older, and he is not as energetic as he used to be. When talking about the incident in 2019, Xu Zhian only said that it was "a scar of a lifetime".
Xu Zhian said that he would "temporarily retire" from the entertainment industry, but in fact, he thought about making a comeback over the years, but because of his temporary "greed" and betrayal of his wife, no one wanted to cooperate with him at all.
In the past 5 years, he has constantly regretted the bad things he has done, but there is no "regret medicine" in the world, although he has a good attitude now, but what he has done cannot be like it never happened.
So in the interview, I only asked Xu Zhi'an at the end, "If you were to say a word to Xu Zhi'an ten years from now, what would you say?"
Because he couldn't go back a few years ago, he could only look backwards, and Xu Zhian just said, "Actually, you are very happy", grasping the moment is the most important thing he should do, since it is possible that he will not be "forgiven" by the audience and cannot stand in front of the screen, then just live his life well.
The youngest but the most sensible
The only pity is that Xu Zhi'an was really a good child recognized by everyone in the past, although his family was not good when he was young, there were many brothers and sisters in the family, and his parents were busy with life and could not take care of every child, but Xu Zhian never had any bad thoughts in such an environment.
He has eight older brothers and sisters, and he is the eldest in the family, and a large family is crammed into a small house in the village. In order to live, his parents went out early and returned late every day, Xu Zhian followed his brothers and sisters to play at home, and he knew how to do housework at a very young age.
At that time, the environment of their house was not very good, the place was very remote, and there were people with bad hearts, Xu Zhian looked at this environment at that time and thought to himself, he should be a policeman when he grows up and has the ability, so that he can protect this place and his family.
was obviously a well-behaved and sensible child when he was a child, but no one expected him to change his mind when he grew up. When Xu Zhi'an was 19 years old, he heard that their local TV station was holding a singing competition, so he thought about asking his two older brothers to participate.
In this way, they participated in the competition in a daze, Xu Zhian fought all the way to the tiebreaker in this game, and finally won the runner-up with his excellent singing skills, and there was another old acquaintance of the audience in this game, that is, Liming, who sang under Xu Zhian and won the third place.
And it was precisely because of this game that Xu Zhian gave up his dream of being a policeman and turned to the entertainment industry. He signed with the company and began to study the creation of music, but Xu Zhian had no works at that time, and the company did not pay enough attention to him, and the jobs assigned to him were all ordinary jobs that could not earn popularity.
But Xu Zhi'an's luck in those years was really good, although the company didn't arrange a good job for him, that is, this kind of work actually met Anita Mui, the "senior" in the circle, and Anita Mui also thought that Xu Zhian had unlimited potential at that time, and decided to take him to sing, and wanted to take Xu Zhian as an apprentice.
That is, because Anita Mui was willing to take him once, Xu Zhian's career path was completely opened, and he was popular, and of course the company would no longer "perfunctory" him, and all good resources would be provided to him.
This completely brought Xu Zhian to the right path, of course, Xu Zhian himself is also very powerful, and he released a record in less than two years, and named it after himself.
The hard-earned "turnover"
It seems that he also knows that his journey has not been easy, and he also cherishes his "feathers" very much, so he has not released consecutive records since he released his first record.
He has become the "Prince of Love Songs" in Hong Kong, and it has only been a few years since his debut, but he has frequently won awards, which also proves that he does have talent in music creation.
In addition to popularity, there is also love, he met Zheng Xiuwen, who was five years younger than him, in a competition, because the two both love music, they hit it off at first sight, and they had a good impression of each other.
It didn't take long for the two of them to officially announce their relationship, at that time, Zheng Xiuwen was also a newcomer singer who had just debuted, and he and Xu Zhian looked even more "talented and beautiful", and the call for blessings after the official announcement was very high.
didn't expect that the story of the two of them was not so simple, and the direction of the final ending was even more unexpected, at the beginning, the relationship between the two was maintained for ten years after the official announcement, and the two of them did not get married, but chose to "break up peacefully".
And at that time, both of them began to develop in the film and television industry, music, film and television, Xu Zhian had a new relationship after the breakup, and most of them thought that the fate of the two of them was over, so they didn't persuade the two to reconcile.
As a result, Xu Zhian broke up again the next year and turned his head to get back together with Sammi Cheng. Within two years, the two of them officially announced their breakup because of some contradictions, which can be regarded as making netizens understand that the two of them are like lotus roots, "cutting and messing up".
has been divided and combined for more than 20 years, or the two of them have entered the palace of marriage, netizens feel that this time should not be tossed, both of them have already had their own status in the entertainment industry, just keep their own state and live a good life.
Unexpectedly, in the 5th year of marriage, the news of Xu Zhi'an's derailment made people's jaws drop, and Zheng Xiuwen's attitude of forgiveness made the audience even more incomprehensible, but Xu Zhian said that he wanted to temporarily retire from the entertainment industry, and use this way to "punish" himself and make himself reflect, so he didn't comment on him more.
epilogue
Now it has been ten years since the two of them got married, and five years have passed since Xu Zhian quit the entertainment industry, and he admitted that that incident was "a scar for a lifetime" for him.
The person he is most sorry for is not the audience, but his family, after all, the one who was really hurt by him doing such a thing was his wife Sammi Cheng. Although he thought about making a comeback, he also knew that he was now old and had been out of the circle for many years, and it was a very difficult event to make a comeback.
Now that things have developed to this situation, all Xu Zhian can do is to "live in the moment" and say to himself ten years later, "In fact, you are very happy now". Although I don't know if Xu Zhi'an will have the possibility of a comeback in the future, he only has a clear attitude and believes that no one will resist him forever.
The information in this article is from:
Hong Kong Commercial Daily "Hui Zhi'an first talks about the impact of the "peace of mind incident": the scar of a lifetime"
and other official media news, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly, for reference only!