There are times in life when you have to have it, and there is no time in life to ask for it, you will have it, not that you can't ask for it
There is such a sentence in "Zengguang Xianwen": "There are times in life that must be there, and there is no time in life when you don't force it." After reading this sentence, you will understand many truths and understand the true meaning of life.
Living in this prosperous world, we are often surrounded by various desires and driven by various interests. Longing for more wealth, higher status, and better feelings.
The truth is that sometimes, the more we persist in pursuing something, the more we feel powerless, and the more difficult it is to achieve our wishes.
Perhaps, this is what is said in "Zengguang Xianwen", "There are times in life that you must have, and there is no time in life when you don't force it", you will have it, not what you can't ask for.
We can not believe in fate, but we cannot fail to accept the fact that our "ability" is what makes everything.
In short, no matter what our fate is, we have to accept "the happiness and misfortune of gaining but not please, and abandoning but not sorrow". And keep a normal heart, believing that it is yours and will not be lost, and if it is not yours, it is useless to force it. As for the future, just work hard, just do your best, God has its own arrangements.
No matter what we gain, what we lose, or what we experience, I believe that every experience is a grind for our growth.
I believe that as long as we maintain a positive attitude and strive to do what we should do, fate will always give us a satisfactory answer at the right time.
1. Love:
No matter who we meet or who we fall in love with, we must understand that love is not a one-man show, but a joint interpretation of two people.
No matter how much you like someone, how much you love someone, how much you want to spend your life with that person, if the person you like always embarrass you, the person you love always makes you uncomfortable, and the person you think you can share with you suddenly let go of your hand and say goodbye to you, don't dwell on it anymore.
It's not that you're bad, it's not that you're bad to them.
It's that they will find fault with you in every way before they find a reason, and when they find a reason to break up, they will naturally turn around and leave.
It's not that they're ruthless, it's that you don't have a fate.
The ancients said: "There are times when there is a fate, and there is no time to force it in life." It's good to cherish it, just love it with your heart.
As the old saying goes, letting go is love, and blessings are love.
Second, money
Small money depends on earning, and big money depends on life.
Working hard does not mean that you can earn a lot of money, and if you can make a lot of money, you don't have to sweat hard.
It's not that they have special abilities, but they can get what they should have, and they can get it with a little effort, and if they don't have it, no matter how much effort they try, no matter how much they force, it's in vain.
Even if you get it, it will be left hand in and right hand out, and it will not become your wealth, it will not become your squandering savings.
On the way to pursue money, no matter how much money you make, you must take care of your body.
If you hit what you should have, you will naturally have it, and if you don't have a hit, don't force it.
Only in moderation will not be confused by desire, and good health is true happiness.
III. Tomomi
In this world, everyone hopes that in their own life, they can meet a person who understands their own warmth and coldness, and knows their own joys and sorrows, and they can spend their lives together.
Everyone has hope, but not everyone's hope can be fulfilled.
Because it is difficult to meet a bosom friend, it is difficult to find a confidant, if there is no fate, there is no blessing from the previous life, even if it is a lifetime, it is difficult to meet a confidant and lover with a soul.
Or that sentence, fate sometimes must be there, fate is not forced at all times, it has to be lucky, it has to be fate, I want to open and see it, take my own way, do my own thing, live my own life, life is still wonderful, life is still brilliant.
As the Buddha said, "There is only one foot in life, and it is difficult to find one." It's yours and will come sooner or later, if it's not yours, you won't ask for it.
To be a man, just go with the flow, and don't force everything. Only by following fate and following your heart can you face the ups and downs of life with a more calm attitude.