Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love, sometimes like a hazy mist, makes people can't really see each other's hearts.
Some men, who seem to be very affectionate to women, are actually not reliable.
Although he keeps saying all kinds of sweet words on his lips, and his love for you will never change, there is no trace of love and sincerity in his actions.
It seems that he has always been by your side, but his heart is far away from you, always giving you a sense of distance that is difficult to cross.
The more men do the following things, the more unreliable they are, and women should plan for themselves as soon as possible.
02. Be self-centered and make decisions without consulting with women
In "Shining Her", Chen Xuanxuan and Lin Hao have been in love for seven years, and she has always regarded Lin Hao as her life's support.
But Lin Hao doesn't really love her, but he just likes her to be simple and coaxing, and she has a well-connected father who can help him in his career.
Lin Hao lived in the house that Chen Xuanxuan bought, and asked his relatives to come and live without saying hello. didn't discuss with Chen Xuanxuan, so he used the money of two people to save face for himself.
Every time, when Chen Xuanxuan was angry because of Lin Hao's own opinion, Lin Hao would coax her. assured her that none of them really respected Chen Xuanxuan's opinion.
After being promoted through the relationship between Chen Xuanxuan's father, Lin Hao immediately changed his previous gentle and considerate appearance, not only did he not have a good face for Chen Xuanxuan, but he was also with other women, and Chen Xuanxuan, who knew the truth, was devastated.
A man who is selfish and selfish in his heart is unreliable, he only thinks about himself at all times, and never consults women when making decisions.
Sometimes, in order to achieve their own goals, they do not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of women and completely ignore the situation of women.
Women, never love a selfish man. A man who is self-centered is not a reliable companion.
In the days to come, he will not give a woman the respect and protection she deserves, but will repeatedly hurt her for his own benefit.
03. Unwilling to spend money for women, and unwilling to let her manage money
On the radio, I heard such a story:
Fan Luo Lan and her boyfriend are together, and they have always made their own money and spent it by themselves, and her boyfriend rarely spends money for her, and he never reveals his income.
Once, Luo Lan was shopping with her boyfriend, and she took a fancy to a watch, and she was reluctant to take it off when she looked left and right.
Her boyfriend urged her to leave several times, but when she didn't respond, he said directly, if you want to buy it, you can pay for it yourself, don't expect me. Then he strode away.
Luo Lan also saw him clearly from this trivial matter, and he was reluctant to spend a little money, let alone share hardships and wealth in the future.
Tu Lei said: "Money is not the only criterion for testing true love, but it can measure the depth of feelings between each other. ”
If a man is unwilling to spend money for a woman, he probably doesn't love her enough, he doesn't want her to manage money, he doesn't trust her, and he is afraid that he will be financially damaged.
Many of the troubles and problems in life are actually caused by money.
If a man is stingy with money, stingy, and always wary of women, it can only mean that he does not take women to heart.
The more you love your man, the more willing he will be to spend money on you, and he is willing to hand over his money to a woman to manage, giving her enough preference and trust.
04. The relationship with the opposite sex is very blurred, and there is no sense of boundaries
For women, men's betrayal and change of heart are the most hurtful.
When she falls in love with someone, a woman hopes to be cherished, protected, and accompanied by him until she grows old.
However, after some men enter into marriage, they can't control their hearts and will still betray their marriage. Such a man is the most unreliable.
Even if you are with your girlfriend, you will not deliberately keep your distance from the opposite sex around you, and you will not care about the feelings of women.
He gets along with the opposite sex very vaguely, always testing on the edge of ambiguity, and will exude his charm whenever he has the opportunity to attract the opposite sex.
He can push off a date with his girlfriend in order to chat with a lovelorn female colleague, and he will also send a drunk opposite sex home late at night.
For the overtures and closeness of the opposite sex, he does not refuse, but will use this to satisfy the vanity in his heart.
A man who has no sense of boundaries is unreliable, no matter how good he is to you.
It is difficult for him to resist the temptation around him, and he will easily turn his back on each other's feelings, and even make all kinds of high-sounding excuses for his actions.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Women, learn to rely on yourself. If so, believing in men's promises and vows will only make a woman's life passive.
No one will be your eternal dependence.
Women can only strengthen themselves, stay independent, and work hard to manage themselves.
You have to give yourself the confidence to fight against everything, and in any case, you can start your life again.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.