Zhou Guoping said: "No matter how short life is, we must live with a smile, enjoy ourselves with a smile, and suffer with a smile, so that we can live a life in vain." ”
Life is only 30,000 days, there is no time to be sad and sad, laugh more when encountering things, and have fun in time is the most important thing.
When you are in adversity, you smile calmly, and when you are misunderstood, you smile indifferently.
If you have laughed, you will understand that the world is full of wind and rain, and the mountains and rivers will eventually meet.
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When you are in adversity, smile calmly
Laughing at it, how difficult it is to float.
- Song Lu You, "Book Dream"
Nine times out of ten, life is not as expected.
In the face of adversity, instead of being sad and restless, it is better to accept it calmly and keep smiling.
This smile may not immediately change the situation, but it can give our hearts a moment of peace and comfort.
This is not only a kind of wisdom in life, but also a kind of calm bearing.
The writer Mr. Cai Lan is a wise man.
When he was forty or fifty years old, fate seemed to be unforgiving to him, he was twice unemployed, his life was in trouble, and he even had to rely on unemployment benefits to survive.
If it were someone else, facing the pressure of life, I am afraid that I would already be anxious and gray, and I would be restless.
But he said: "Laugh at life, I believe that Lady Luck will favor me!"
He laughs three times a day in the mirror "hahaha", and he feels very happy, and the troubles of the day are gone.
A good attitude is the medicine that heals everything.
Tell yourself that the sun shines after the storm.
Fate does not favor anyone, but it favors those who move towards the light.
Laugh at mundane things, and time will always give the best answer.
Those tribulations and hardships of the past will become the bright stars of the world, illuminating your way forward.
Look up to the sky and laugh and go out, calmly accept the gift of life, if you always smile and be calm, even if your feet are full of thorns and your eyes are full of sores, you can still walk out of the prosperity and scenery from the barrenness.
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When you are misunderstood, you smile indifferently
asked Yu what he meant to live in Bishan, and smiled without answering.
- Don Li Bai, "Questions and Answers in the Mountains"
I have heard a saying that in addition to life and death, everything else in life is abrasions.
When you are wronged, smile gently, and behind the smile is a stronger self.
There are always good and bad voices in the outside world, but as long as we act with integrity and integrity, we don't need to care too much about what others think.
Three thousand things in the world, smiled indifferently.
If you can smile, there is no need to complain, if you can be tolerant, there is no need to care, if you can be comfortable, there is no need to bother.
There was a Zen master who had been practicing alone in a cave for ten years, and when he returned to the monastery, he still went to the temple every night to meditate and recite sutras.
However, one night, the money in the merit box in front of the Buddha statue mysteriously disappeared.
Since such an incident had never happened before, and the main hall was attended by only the Zen master every night, he naturally became the object of suspicion.
For a time, rumors of Zen masters "stealing money" spread in the monastery.
In the face of these groundless accusations and discussions, the Zen master only smiled lightly, neither justifying himself nor showing any grievance or anger. He still maintains his former calm and calmness, eating and meditating on time every day.
Finally, after seven days, the abbot uncovered the mystery: it turned out that the merit money was not lost at all, but the abbot was testing the Zen master to find out what kind of state he had cultivated during the ten years he had lived in the cave.
When the truth was revealed, everyone in the monastery deeply admired the Zen master's cultivation. The Zen master still kept that indifferent smile, as if none of this had ever happened.
Everything starts from the heart, and a smile relieves a thousand sorrows.
If you are narrow-minded and overly calculating, you will be trapped by trivial matters and eventually unable to extricate yourself.
It's better to enlarge the pattern, when misunderstood, smile indifferently, no matter the chaos of the world, I stand like a mountain, so that the troubles are helpless, and life will be smoother and smoother.
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If you smile, it's spring
Life is always like this, what can stop laughing?
- Song Lu You, "Miscellaneous Feelings"
Sanmao said: "When I laugh, my face is like a spring flower." It must be able to move people, no matter who he is. ”
A smile is a flower that blooms on people's faces, regardless of the four seasons, north and south, always exuding fragrance and tenderness that directly reaches the heart.
A child said to his mother, "Mom, you are so beautiful today." ”
The mother stopped what she was doing and turned around, with a hint of doubt on her face: "Why?"
The child blinked and said seriously, "Because mom didn't get angry today and kept smiling." ”
It turns out that having a beautiful is very simple, just keep smiling.
Know that it's not the sunshine that makes the world bright, it's your smile.
People who love to laugh have the sun in their hearts, illuminating themselves and warming others at the same time.
If you smile, the willow breeze will blow on your face all the time, and if you smile, flowers will bloom everywhere.
May we go all the way, with a smile overflowing, and dispel the haze of life with the curvature of the corners of our mouths.
May we go through the years of precipitation, still have sunshine in our eyes, smile full of openness, do not change our original intentions, and greet every day with a smile.
"The Ballad of Relief Heart" says: "The sun rises in the East Sea and sets in the West Mountain, and there is a day of sorrow and a day of joy." ”
The sun rises over the East China Sea and sets over the West Mountain, and the day passes with both sorrow and joy.
Why not make yourself happy, live your life into a poem, enjoy a tree and flowers, listen to a falling rain, read an idle book, have no worries, free and easy, and enjoy the spring.
Start smiling every day today!
Source: WeChat public account "Poetry World"
Author: Poetry Jun
Editor: Pan Xi
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