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It is regrettable that this day in October 2011 has been forever engraved into the long river of history and has become a heartbreaking and helpless memory for countless people. It was on this day that the 28-year-old new generation of film and television industry Shang Yubo bid farewell to this world with a resolute and decisive attitude like a warrior. Originally, he was ushering in the golden stage of his career, and he should have relied on his talent and hard work to enjoy a bright future in the limelight, but he chose such a path, which made all the relatives and friends who cared for him unacceptable and grief-stricken.
Surveillance footage recorded the long time when Shang Yubo wandered on the roof of the building in the last moments of his life. In the picture, he looks solemn, with his hands in his pockets, pacing back and forth in the narrow roof space, his brow furrowed, as if he is trying his best to think about some major issue. It is not difficult to imagine that at that time, his heart must have been full of contradictions and struggles, struggling with the choice between life and death. However, in the end, he made up his mind and chose to end the unbearable pain.
When the hearse carrying Shang Yubo's body slowly left, his parents witnessed this scene and were grief-stricken, especially his mother, who fainted several times, and the atmosphere was extremely bleak. Their grief at the death of a beloved child is so intense that it is empathetic. As a popular star, Shang Yubo's sudden death has undoubtedly caused a sensation in all walks of life, and various speculations have come one after another.
After in-depth and meticulous investigation, we finally revealed this shocking fact -- Shang Yubo turned out to be a patient with severe depression! At that time, the understanding of depression as a disease was still quite limited, and some people even scoffed at it, thinking that it was just "moaning without disease". As a result, Shang Yubo was under great pressure on the mental level.
After seeing her son's suicide note, Shang Yubo's mother realized that she had to stand up and vindicate her son and other depressed patients. In the field of public opinion, many people are ignorant of this disease, and there are even many misunderstandings and prejudices, and if these discrimination are allowed to continue to spread, it will only plunge more people into endless suffering. It was because of this deep love for her son and many patients that she decided to take action to fight for justice for them.
When Shang Yubo is mentioned, the first image that comes to people's minds must be his blockbuster moment in the urban drama "Dulara's Promotion". As soon as this TV series that attracted wide attention from the whole society was broadcast, it immediately aroused a warm response from the audience, and Shang Yu Bona's superb acting skills and handsome and extraordinary appearance won the attention and love of the majority of fans in just a few days.
Since then, a number of high-quality scripts have sprung up one after another, and directors are eager for the opportunity to star with their rising star. Seeing Shang Yubo's career reach a new peak, the majority of industry insiders are full of expectations for him, and they all agree that he has swayed his own world in the entertainment industry.
However, before the work that made him famous, "Du Lala's Promotion", Shang Yubo had already made a name for himself in the entertainment industry. His outstanding performance in the TV series "Army Special Combat Team" successfully portrayed the role of Nie Zhiyuan, which can be called his first work on the TV screen.
In order to play this role to the fullest, Shang Yubo always arrived on time with the most positive attitude and became the first actor to arrive. Whenever the director announces the "start", he devotes himself to digging deep into the inner world of the character, carefully studying every tiny detail, and doing his best to present the most perfect performance for the audience.
Immediately after its premiere, the work won high praise from the audience, who were deeply moved by their superb performance skills, with thunderous applause and cheers. People are genuinely proud of the performance of Shang Yubo and his team, and they also have high hopes for their future careers.
From the small stage of the campus drama to the famous work on the TV screen, Shang Yubo has climbed to the top of his life step by step with his unremitting efforts. His past achievements are undoubtedly worth remembering forever, and it is an important milestone in his career development.
Although Shang Yubo has achieved remarkable career achievements in the eyes of everyone, he has endured unimaginable pain in his heart. During the filming of the TV series "The Story of My Mother's Family", his physical and mental condition was on the verge of collapse.
Whenever the director in his memory shouted "Ka!" and ended a thrilling performance, Shang Yubo always felt as if he had been taken out of his body by mistake by the whole soul. He begins to fall into the chaos of dreams and reality, becoming insensitive and slow to react to everything around him.
The perceptive assistant quickly noticed his unusual state and immediately arranged for him to undergo a comprehensive physical examination.
Shockingly, the results of the examination revealed that Shang Yubo was suffering from severe depression! When the assistant learned the news, he couldn't help but be shocked, because before that, there had never been any indication that the talented actor would suffer such a heavy blow.
However, Shang Yubo himself seemed unusually calm about this, as if he had already been mentally prepared.
When Shang Yubo's parents learned of their son's illness, their mood instantly fell to the bottom, and they fell into endless anxiety and worry. They decided to delve into the subtle changes in their son's inner world through frequent phone calls, and soothe his son's emotional ups and downs with meticulous care.
However, Shang Yubo has learned how to hide his true inner feelings. Every time he talked to his parents on the phone, he always pretended to be relaxed and happy, and even threw out some humorous jokes at the right time to make his parents laugh.
However, only he understands what a hot and oppressive fire burns deep inside when he is alone.
In order to get rid of this painful torture, Shang Yubo set a heavy work plan for himself, and participated in the filming of six or seven film and television dramas almost non-stop.
He once naively thought that devoting himself to the cause he loved would bring him to a turning point in his life, but the reality was far from as good as he imagined.
Under the constant pressure brought about by high-intensity work, Shang Yubo's mental condition became increasingly tense and full of crisis. The thoughts of "suicide" that had grown in his heart began to haunt him like a shadow, and he could hardly completely suppress it.
Although there was indeed a trace of hesitation and struggle in his heart, once that thought came to him, it snowballed wildly in his mind, almost devouring him completely.
Perhaps, unintentionally, or in the consciousness hidden in the depths of his heart, he had a premonition that his life was coming to an end, and in the last stage of his life, Shang Yubo invited his beloved mother to spend a meaningful journey with his very sincere heart. When the kind mother looked at her son's sunny smile, the joy in her heart swelled out like a volcanic eruption, and she thought that this trip would change her son's fate forever, and his condition finally took a turn for the better. Unbeknownst to her, however, this journey was actually a prelude to a well-planned parting by Shang Yubo, who has never set foot in this once familiar home since.
The end of the journey home had just come to an end, and in the middle of the night, Shang Yubo silently walked up to the top of the towering building alone and began the last long and lonely wandering journey of his life.
Shang Yubo's love for the performing arts can be traced back to his carefree childhood. This young man who was born in Hubei Province later moved his family to the bustling city of Shenzhen with his parents' job transfer. Although the family conditions are superior, because his parents have been busy with their careers for many years, they cannot give Shang Yubo enough companionship and love, so his childhood life is full of endless loneliness.
In such an environment, Shang Yubo gradually formed a restrained and quiet personality, and rarely communicated with others. In order to fill the hole in his heart, he gradually discovered and cultivated a unique hobby - imitating the characters in the TV series to talk to himself. Whenever he was the only one left in the house, he would always turn on the TV, pay full attention to the actors on the screen, and then learn their accents and tones, and write, direct and act in a sketch drama of his own.
In Shang Yubo's world, he seems to have an in-depth dialogue and communication with his self in another parallel world, expressing his inner joys, sorrows and sorrows with his voice and body. Sometimes laughing, sometimes tearful, and even brazen, these seemingly funny behaviors in the eyes of parents bring countless warm moments of laughter and laughter to the home.
Although Shang Yubo had not yet been able to truly understand what performing arts were at that time, this unique childhood experience quietly planted the seeds of talent and love for acting in his heart. Entering high school, Shang Yubo joined the school's drama club without hesitation, and quickly became a leader in the club with his excellent physical condition and handsome and chic appearance.
In the process of meticulous preparation and rehearsal of the famous Renaissance play "Romeo and Juliet", Shang Yubo successfully won the opportunity to perform in Romeo, a key role in the play, with his excellent acting skills and profound artistic accomplishment. Every time he stands in the center of the stage, it is like a butterfly breaking free from its shackles and flying into the sky, showing the passion and tension of the modern version of the heroic knight.
On that magical stage, he unreservedly unleashed his inner fanaticism, devoted himself to the role, and enjoyed the pleasure of the actor's unique charm, which made him quickly win warm applause and high praise from the audience in just a few months.
From imitating the characters in the TV show for solo performances at the beginning, to later emerging in the school's drama club, Shang Yubo has gradually accumulated rich acting experience step by step, laying a solid foundation for his future acting career. His love for art has long been deeply engraved in his bone marrow and has become his strongest belief on the road of life.
However, this tragedy also made Shang Yubo's mother deeply aware of a painful social reality - the public awareness of depression as a mental illness is still quite poor, and there are even many misunderstandings and prejudices. Many people don't know anything about it, let alone get enough attention and attention to help these special populations.
The mother knew that if such ignorance and prejudice were still prevalent in society, more families and more individuals would suffer from the pain and might even fall into the abyss of despair again. Therefore, she resolutely decided to stand up and correct the name of her son and many people with depression, dispel public misunderstandings, and arouse people's attention to this issue.
So, Shang Yubo's mother picked herself up from the shadow of grief and joined hands with her husband to create a foundation focused on educating people about depression and providing professional assistance. Since its establishment, this great mother has shouldered a heavy mission and responsibility, and has called on the whole society to pay attention to this issue with practical actions.
With her indomitable determination and courage, she has continued her unremitting efforts for more than ten years. During this period, she traveled all over the mountains and rivers of the motherland, worked tirelessly to convey the correct understanding of depression to people, advocated that everyone treat every patient with compassion, and care for this special group with kindness and understanding.
A mother's deep love for her son will surely converge into a powerful and eternal force that will illuminate those short-lived journeys of life.
It cannot be ignored that in recent years, depression has quietly invaded our lives, especially among teenagers, and the incidence rate has shown an alarming upward trend, whether in the glamorous entertainment industry or in daily ordinary life. One by one, aspiring artists have passed away painfully due to depression, such as the names of Leslie Cheung, Cui Xueli, Qiao Renliang and others, every mention of them makes people feel pain! Not only that, but among the general public, people in their youth are also unable to resist the troubles and troubles caused by depression.
In this difficult situation, we must not stand still, but also bravely face the challenges head-on and actively seek solutions. So, what is the root cause of depression? Is it a disease, or is it an inevitable product of life stress? Have we ever inadvertently caused harm to the depressed patients around us? All these thought-provoking questions require us to carry out in-depth reflection and discussion with a rigorous attitude.