If you understand the study of Heshen, your whole person will be transparent. Why do you study this big corrupt official?
There is one thing to say, because he is so good at being a man. Whichever father-in-law went to his house, he took care of it too thoroughly.
Please drink and eat, and find a few Qinglou women to come over to help the fun, and before leaving, you will send antiques and silver tickets, who will bear it?
First of all, He Shen knew that his fathers-in-law, as the people around the emperor, could directly or indirectly affect the emperor's decision-making, so he attached great importance to establishing a good relationship with these fathers-in-law. He often takes the initiative to communicate with them, understand their needs and ideas, and provide help and support as much as possible.
Secondly, He Shen is good at observing words and feelings, and can accurately capture the emotional changes of his father-in-law, so as to respond in time. When father-in-law encounters difficulties or problems, he will take the initiative to lend a helping hand and provide solutions to help them tide over the difficulties. This kind of behavior of sending charcoal in the snow made the father-in-law have a deep sense of gratitude to Heshen. In addition, Heshen also pays great attention to etiquette and respect. He always maintained a humble attitude towards his father-in-law, and never arrogantly and rudely to them because of his position. He knows that respect is mutual, and only by respecting others can he earn the respect of others.
Through these efforts, He Shen succeeded in establishing a close relationship with the father-in-law around the emperor. These fathers-in-law not only provided him with a lot of convenience in his daily life, but also gave him advice and helped him at critical moments. The establishment of this relationship played an important role in promoting Heshen's status and influence in the imperial court.
Who is developed if He Shen is not developed, and if He Shen does not become the emperor's henchman, who can become a henchman?
He Shen is well versed in the way of officialdom
Shen is indeed well versed in the way of officialdom, and he has a unique understanding and deep insight into the life of officialdom. He doesn't mind what others say about him, because in his opinion, whether it is loyalty or honesty, in the end, it is just a passing cloud, transient and impermanent. He understands that life is like a play, everyone is playing their part, and officialdom is even more so. Everyone needs to say the words that are appropriate for their role, sing in a tone that is appropriate for their identity, and pose appropriately.
He Shen also knows that the expression of emotions in officialdom is often not out of sincerity, but out of need. Sometimes, even if you are bitter inside, you have to show laughter on the surface, and sometimes, even if you are happy inside, you have to shed tears when you need to. These are all necessary means for the survival of officialdom.
Classic quotes
1: To be honest, I never mind what people say about me.
2: Whether it is loyalty, treachery, honesty, greed, what can it be, in the end it is all a passing cloud.
3: Life is like singing, everyone plays a role on the stage.
4: Say what you should say, sing what you should sing, and pose what you should pose.
When you watch this kind of drama when you are a child, you can study right and wrong, good and evil, and when you watch dramas as adults, whoever fights between black and white and right and wrong is a refusal to grow up.