Today, let's talk about how to play a good role as a beacon that illuminates the way forward on the road of children's growth - Master Zeng Shiqiang once said: "Education is not indoctrination, but igniting a flame." "A child's consciousness is like a spark that needs to be guided patiently and wisely.
First of all, we need to understand that each child is a small individual who has their own rhythm and pace. Just like the growth of a big tree, it is not in a hurry, but waits for the nourishment of the soil and the shining of the sun. Master Zeng taught us: "The growth of children is like planting flowers, watering and fertilizing should be just right, and we should not rush for quick success." "So, patience is our first lesson as parents.
When children are still in the stage of ignorance, our guidance is particularly important. I remember the old saying, "Three years old is big, seven years old is old", and the accumulation of bits and pieces at this time is the cornerstone of their future life. We can use stories and small things in life to make them feel the power of morality, such as the story of "Meng's Mother Three Migrations", which teaches us to create an environment suitable for children's growth.
Of course, guiding children is not about blindly giving tough orders, but about learning to listen. Mr. Tsang emphasized, "True education is dialogue and heart-to-heart communication. "We need to respect their ideas, encourage them to ask questions, and let them find answers in their exploration, so that they will feel more fulfilled and more willing to take responsibility.
When children begin to become self-aware, we need to let go at the right time so that they can learn to be independent. Just like the mother eagle will let her child experience the pain of flying, because only after experiencing setbacks can she spread her wings and fly high. What we have to do is to stand aside and be their backing, not to hold their hands and walk the whole way.
Finally, we must remember that a child's self-realization does not happen overnight, it is a long process that requires our accompaniment, understanding and acceptance. As Zeng Shiqiang said, "The essence of education is to make every life the best version of themselves." "Together, with love and patience, let's accompany them through this journey until they are able to confidently take a self-conscious step.
Dear parents, the growth of children is like an unfinished painting, we are the invisible brush, every stroke is the expectation of the future. Let us use understanding and guidance to pave the warm sunshine for children's self-conscious path, and look forward to their lives in the coming days, like bright stars.
May every parent be a beacon on the road of their children's growth, like, forward, comment, let's share the joy and wisdom of parenting!