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Have you ever encountered a stepmother who is full of malice towards her children, and even can do it? But why is this happening? The reasons behind this may be more complex than you think.
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In her heart, you are not her child at all, even if you have lived together for more than ten years, it can be said that except for her daughter, your family is an outsider.
To be honest, it may not sound good. What about your father? What did he do?
In fact, neither of them owes anyone anything. The stepmother wants her stepdaughter to help with the purchase, and the stepdaughter doesn't need to feel that the stepmother owes her. After all, when she didn't come, this family belonged to someone's stepdaughter.
Hearts for hearts
If you have a stepmother, you will definitely have a stepfather, and the ancients did not deceive me. Experiencing these warmth and coldness early on can help you grow up a little, but it doesn't justify your dad's inaction. Study hard, get a good job, don't rush to find a boyfriend to marry, and know that only you are the most reliable.
I feel that she is following an ancient principle: the heart of harming others must not be dispensed without, and the heart of defending others is indispensable. She can promise that she won't harm you, but she can't guarantee you, so she guards against you. I think you guys are lacking in communication
Because you don't have a position because you didn't give birth to yourself, educating your children will also be talked about. Someone else's child is someone else's child. It is better to maintain a respectful distance.
I guess your mother either has to rely on your stepfather to support you or can't live without anyone to accompany you, I have two classmates who remarried with their mothers, and they are doing well, deducting or something, they don't exist, both of them have gone to graduate school, and one is going to Europe for graduate school
Your analysis is right, your aunt, who married love and didn't want children for love, could have gotten along very well, but was disturbed by her mother-in-law. Such a mother-in-law will not only destroy the first marriage, but also the second marriage, and she will not be able to see her daughter-in-law good. In the end, the pit son pits the grandson
It's not the child's problem, it's the attitude of the adult behind the child that ruins the relationship. The quality of the children's aunts and grandparents is too low. And the child's father did not act and never played a coordinating and communication role
I only saw your father's absence in the whole process! Everything stems from your father's lack of attention, and his own flesh and blood are not valued, how can you expect people who are not related by blood to be good to her?
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