preface
Yao Zhiming and Xin Jialiang, both of whom have an inseparable relationship with Mai Chenghuan. One is the current boyfriend and the other is the ex-boyfriend, both of them love Mai Chenghuan very much, but their performance in love is so different.
First, the attitude towards money, one conceals, the other is generous
Xin Jialiang and Mai Chenghuan have been in love for three years, and they have been hiding their family background and pretending to be a poor worker.
Xin Jialiang did this because he was afraid that Mai Chenghuan was not sincere to her, but just greedy for their family's money.
However, Xin Jialiang did this, which just proved that he did not have the slightest trust and sincerity in Mai Chenghuan, and his so-called love was all on the surface, and it would be easily shaken when there was a stir.
And Yao Zhiming, with his own hard work, has become a domineering president, but he is not worried at all that Mai Chenghuan will covet his money.
Even his grandmother Chen Shuzhen wanted to give away her ancestral family business to Mak Chenghuan, and Yao Zhiming had no complaints.
Not only that, Yao Zhiming also gave up his old western-style house for Mai Chenghuan's family to live in.
When Mai Chenghuan's mother Liu Wanyu learned of the relationship between the two, Yao Zhiming offered to put all his property in Mai Chenghuan's name after marriage.
You see, Xin Jialiang hid it, and Yao Zhiming gave it away generously, if it were you, what would you choose?
Second, the attitude towards Mai Chenghuan, one is to be taken care of, and the other is to take the initiative to take care of it
In front of Xin Jialiang, Mai Chenghuan is not so much a girlfriend as a nanny.
Xin Jialiang is like a child who will never grow up, and Mai Chenghuan is always worried that he is not working well and not eating and sleeping properly......
For Xin Jialiang, Mai Chenghuan has too many things to worry about, just like an old mother treats her children.
However, Xin Jialiang took Mai Chenghuan's contribution for granted, habitually asking for it, and did not know how to reciprocate.
When there is a problem in Mak Chenghuan's work, Xin Jialiang also uses his privilege to solve it.
But what Xin Jialiang didn't know was that his approach did not really solve the problem, but would trigger a series of butterfly effects.
In other words, the more you help, the more you help, the more you help.
In front of Yao Zhiming, Mai Chenghuan can be himself again, and he no longer has to carry a power bank, a video phone, a notepad, and a stain remover pen.
Mai Chenghuan doesn't have to worry that Yao Zhiming can't eat well and can't work well.
On the contrary, Yao Zhiming was worried that Mai Chenghuan would not be able to eat properly, so he would send a love meal at noon to supervise his girlfriend's meal.
Originally, Yao Zhiming and Mak Chenghuan were rivals, but when Mak Chenghuan's work was flawed, Yao Zhiming sincerely reached out to help Mak Chenghuan tide over the difficulties.
Even, Yao Zhiming gave up the acquisition of Xing'anli in order to protect Mai Chenghuan, opened up a new development route, and finally sat in the position of president.
Look, Xin Jialiang is a demand-type boyfriend, Yao Zhiming is a give-oriented boyfriend, in comparison, of course, Yao Zhiming is better.
Third, the attitude towards Mai Chenghuan's mother, one is to look down on it, and the other is to respect it
Before Xin Jialiang revealed his true identity, Mai Chenghuan's mother Liu Wanyu didn't like him, disliked him for being poor, and was not self-motivated.
Xin Jialiang has never responded positively to Liu Wanyu's dislike, his tactic is to escape.
As a result, instead of solving the problem, it has only increased a lot of contradictions.
Therefore, in the three years of love with Mai Chenghuan, Xin Jialiang came over in Liu Wanyu's cynicism.
However, Xin Jialiang also knew Liu Wanyu's personality, so as soon as he had a showdown, Liu Wanyu's face became faster than June's doll.
Seeing Liu Wanyu's true face clearly, Xin Jialiang naturally despised her, but she was Mai Chenghuan's mother, and Xin Jialiang only maintained a polite and peaceful appearance.
However, when the two families were discussing the marriage, when Liu Wanyu wanted to hold a wedding in her hometown, Xin Jialiang couldn't pretend anymore, didn't give any face, and bluntly rejected Liu Wanyu's request.
If it is replaced by Yao Zhiming, I promise to agree without thinking about it.
After all, Yao Zhiming took the initiative to move into the old house and live with Liu Wanyu, and listening to Liu Wanyu's nagging every day, Yao Zhiming not only did not feel annoyed, but felt very cute and enjoyed it.
In dealing with his future mother-in-law, Yao Zhiming's attitude is inclusive and equal, while Xin Jialiang looks down on him and has a class.
No matter what aspect you compare, Yao Zhiming has done better than Xin Jialiang.
I have to say that Yao Zhiming is really good, and he can throw off Xin Jialiang for more than ten streets!
@紫说影视
epilogue
Falling in love is not a game, but it needs to be carefully managed and maintained by both parties.
Love is a two-way street, if one party does not know how to take it in moderation, and the other party gives unconditionally, then sooner or later the scale of love will be out of balance.
Therefore, in a relationship, it is very important to choose someone who can understand, respect, and is willing to give for yourself.
If it were you, would you choose Xin Jialiang or Yao Zhiming?