Nowadays, there are many female college students in the hospital who have abortions, and many college students take abortions seriously. It is considered a very normal thing, and this social phenomenon has attracted a lot of attention!
People say that it's not a good thing for college students to get pregnant, thinking they're "messing around", but in the eyes of those college students, it's not messing around. College love couldn't be more normal, nothing to fuss about. What is the specific reason for this? The reality is indeed unacceptable.
1. Love
We have always been an exam-oriented education, and we are not allowed to do anything other than study. Adolescence belongs to the age of the beginning of love, and many boys and girls are still in a hazy period of love, so they have been suppressing their emotions.
After going to college, they are all adults, so many college students let go of themselves and fall in love. Their concept of love is not very correct, and some do not know how to be in love at all, thinking that having sex is the true meaning of love.
Of course, there are many parents who still hope that their children can study well in college, strive for a good job, and fall in love in society will be better. All this is simply a constraint for many college students, and they will say that their parents are old-fashioned. What age is it now, it doesn't matter so much at all, even if their parents don't agree, they have to fall in love in college.
After all, love in school is relatively simple, and everyone wants to get pure love. In the midst of ignorance, they will feel inner satisfaction and the joy of getting love. Even if the woman is pregnant, it is a big deal to go to the hospital and get the baby out.
2. The woman accepts premarital sex
Premarital sex was very shameful in the past, and people in those days were very simple-minded, and sex could only be accepted if they were married. With the development of society, many young people have broken this traditional concept and think that premarital sex is a normal thing.
And now that the pace of society is accelerating, the concept of love has also been distorted. Especially when men and women are in contact alone, it is easy for two people to develop emotions and even find it difficult to control themselves. Because people have emotions, having sex is also an expression of love. Many college boys and girls will have premarital sex after living together.
Most women will choose to refuse, even vaguely, and don't know if it's right to do it, but under the soft and hard bubbles of boys, many girls break through their inner defenses and eventually agree to have sex. There are many girls who take the initiative to give up their principles, thinking that it is okay to have intimate contact with boys, as long as there is love.
Many parents and school teachers don't want to care so much about this kind of relationship, college life is inherently free, and no one cares about you if you don't come to class every day. But many times, love in college is hard to maintain. After leaving society, many men and women have parted ways, and this kind of fast-food love is indeed dangerous.
The lack of self-love in women's colleges has become a hot issue in society, and hasty love and hasty sexual behavior will have a negative impact on society. In the future, it will also cause a burden on the heart, and many girls have to consider themselves and make a decision after careful consideration in the face of sexual behavior proposed by boys.
Third, the measures are inappropriate or they do not care at all
Many female college students still have a sense of self-protection, and many of the pregnant girls are unexpectedly pregnant, and they will take necessary measures before having sex. Even so, she was pregnant, and it could have been an accident. Sometimes, the guy is too impulsive and forgets to take measures, which eventually leads to the woman's pregnancy.
There are also boys who are deliberate, they pursue momentary excitement and pleasure. Not taking the girl's request into account, this kind of boy is very irresponsible. Girls sometimes don't know they're pregnant. After the test, I found out that I was pregnant, and I panicked and didn't know what to do.
found the boy to discuss, and the boy asked her to have an abortion with a nonchalant face. Many people arrive at the abortion hospital to find that the fetus has been formed in the womb, and the abortion will be very dangerous. It is easy to cause women to be unable to get pregnant for a lifetime, and in desperation, they can only choose to kill the child.
There are also girls who don't love themselves at all and have a lot of boys, which eventually leads to many miscarriages. I can't get pregnant in this life, and I can only say that I don't care for myself. Some college students have not yet graduated, and girls secretly give birth to their children when they are pregnant, and how to raise children has become a problem.
Some girls even threw their babies into the trash, and the children became a burden or even garbage between the two people! This kind of behavior is even more shameless, and even scolded by others.
summary
Schools also need to strengthen education, especially campus love. Once the bottom line is breached, it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble. College students are prone to impulsiveness towards love, which eventually leads to unwanted pregnancies among female students.
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