Menopausal back pain attacks, it's been hurting for four days, it's really a sin.
I am 54 years old, the third stage of menopause, the fourth month after menopause, and I have not had a period for four months.
This time there is a high probability that it is menopause, my son will hold a wedding on May 2, and I have been busy with my son's wedding during this time, and I still have a store, self-employed people have some real benefits, you can go at any time without being restricted by anyone, free in time, and do not delay the preparation of the wedding.
It was while all this was going on in an orderly manner that my son's grandmother suddenly suffered a stomach hemorrhage and was admitted to the intensive care unit.
The sudden illness of my son's grandmother disrupted our peaceful life steps, and when we caught up with our son's wedding, we panicked, hurried, and panicked in our hearts.
My son's grandmother is eighty-nine years old, you said that this eighty or ninety-year-old person was suddenly admitted to the intensive care unit, how can you not worry, if there is an accident, can your son's wedding still go on?
On the evening of April 11, my son and grandmother were admitted to the intensive care unit, and all of us brothers and sisters gathered in the waiting room hall outside the intensive care unit, and the other sisters were only worried about the safety of our son and grandmother.
My husband and I are not only worried about the safety of our son's grandmother, but also about what will happen to our son's wedding? Will it still be held as scheduled? If there is a change in the wedding date, how should we explain it to our in-laws?
The brothers and sisters were worried about their mother's safety, and at the same time, they made ideas for their husbands, which was nothing more than to postpone the marriage, or travel to get married, or a few days earlier the wedding.
But these ideas, the more you say, the more chaotic your heart becomes, and you will move the whole body, no matter which method, all aspects of the agreement have to be renegotiated, such as hotels, emcees, wedding cars, wedding rooms, wedding dress shops, etc., all have to be re-coordinated, as long as one party is not well coordinated, there is no way to continue.
But these are all assumptions, my son's grandmother lives in the intensive care unit, and the family is not allowed to see each other, and the rescue can only be handed over to the doctor.
All kinds of assumptions have been rehearsed, all kinds of consequences have been considered, and if there is really an accident, we hope that there is a way to negotiate.
I was so frightened that my face turned pale, and I asked my husband in a panic: "What should I do?" ”
The eldest brother said: "I've never encountered such a thing, and I don't know what to do?" The eldest brother is 66 years old this year, and his husband has five brothers and sisters, and the husband is the youngest, and there are four of them, including the eldest sister, the eldest brother, the second sister and the second brother.
Our big family has always been safe and sound, and their children have all done their work, so why did it happen to us when it was our turn?
I was very sad in those days, why is God so unfair? Why do you put us under so much pressure? I am resentful, but I don't know who to blame and who to hate? I have no place to be angry.
Anyway, there is no danger, and the son's grandmother rescued it again, but I am still worried, my son's grandmother is so old, and if she doesn't take care of it a little bit, there will be an accident, and the doctor said that there is no need to rescue.
When I was sent to the intensive care unit on the evening of the 11th, the doctor said that there was a possibility that both people and money would be empty, but we unanimously agreed to rescue the eldest brother, and the eldest brother was the eldest son, so the eldest brother signed the agreement.
Until the 17th, my son's grandmother was transferred out of the intensive care unit, and at this time, the five sisters began to take turns to serve their son's grandmother, one day and one night, the second sister-in-law cooked and delivered meals to her son's grandmother, so there was no shift, and the four of us took turns to accompany them in the hospital.
My husband volunteered, starting from our family, my son and grandmother just came out of the intensive care unit, which is the most difficult to nurture, and there will be accidents if we don't see well, both of us are in the hospital, we don't dare to blink, and we are constantly changing shifts day and night to take care of them.
We are all in our fifties, and we are all worried for a while, we can't eat or sleep, and I have suffered from back pain after menopausal symptoms at this time, and it was only a slight back pain at that time.
There are a lot of things at home, and I didn't care about it, until we did another round of escort in the hospital, this time the back pain broke out completely, the whole spine was painful, there was no ground in the hospital, there was a bench in the hospital, my husband and I took turns to lie there, but I was lying uncomfortable, I just wanted to have something hard under my body, it would be a little better.
But what are the conditions in the hospital, I can't lie down with back pain, and I even have a headache.
In the hospital, I smelled the smell of various drugs, and I was uncomfortable all over, alas, it was really uncomfortable to be a companion in the hospital.
I caught up with my back pain during menopause, it was really tortured, I couldn't eat well in the hospital, and I didn't have a place to sleep, my husband was lying on the chair at night, I was lying on the side of the bed, and I had to take care of my son and his grandmother from time to time.
Menopausal symptoms are committed like this, it's really torturous to the dead, but I still have to insist on being a companion, and I have to insist on doing everything I have to do.
Alas, people in their fifties are so difficult and suffer like this.