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Text | Liu yi
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Preface
Speaking of Zhao Benshan's daughter, most people must think that they are talking about Zhao Jiaxuan, that is, Qiuqiu.
Her popularity on the Internet is even higher than that of her father, who is now retired.
Compared with her "swagger", Zhao Yufang, the daughter born to Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife, is very "low-key." ”
The only time she caught the eye was when she insisted on marrying a poor boy despite her parents' objections.
But Zhao Benshan finally gave his daughter 3 million as a dowry.
So how did he compromise? Does Zhao Yufang regret marrying a poor boy today?
Life is as hard as night
Zhao Benshan was born in a very poor family.
At that time, he was always hungry and had a very difficult life.
But he was interested in the arts.
At a young age, he learned to turn in two people, and musical instruments like the erhu are not a problem.
And he didn't learn it systematically, he just practiced it by himself.
As he grew older, he also reached the age when it was time to marry and have children.
At that time, he was poor and white, and he was not very handsome, so no girl could look at him at all.
But in fact, he didn't see it.
Although he had not yet made a name for himself at that time, he felt that he was very artistic.
He felt that his wife should at least be someone who could have something in common with him.
Although he was not in a hurry to find a daughter-in-law, his relatives couldn't sit still.
So under the introduction of relatives, he and Ge Shuzhen came together.
And Ge Shuzhen is a little worse than him.
Her parents died when she was young, and she lived with her brother and sister-in-law.
Although she is her own brother, her brother has always felt that she is a "drag oil bottle". ”
In this way, the two tragically got together to live together.
But the two of them didn't have much affection.
Because Ge Shuzhen is a very honest type, and Zhao Benshan's thinking is more "out-of-the-box." ”
The two of them don't have anything to say when they are together, at most they just ask what they are eating today.
Not long after marriage, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to a girl, that is, Zhao Yufang.
With the birth of the child, the relationship between the two has also become better, and they usually have topics to talk about.
And Zhao Benshan, who is a first-time father, is very excited and happy.
I didn't even dare to make any effort when I hugged my daughter, for fear of hurting her.
Ge Shuzhen also saw all this, and she felt that she had not married the wrong person.
Zhao Yufang can also be regarded as growing up in the palm of her hand.
Although the family is poor, her parents will still try their best to give her the best.
And she is also very sensible, and often helps her mother with household chores.
At that time, the family at least looked like a "home".
But with the birth of his son, that all changed.
Their son also looked very healthy when he was born.
But after doing a series of examinations, a lot of problems were found.
Zhao Benshan named his son "Iron Egg", presumably to make a living, but he didn't expect that Iron Egg was not iron.
In order to treat his son, the already impoverished family was even worse.
But even so, Zhao Benshan did not give up.
At that time, he was spinning like a "spinning top", just to make more money.
And Zhao Yufang, as the eldest sister, also took on the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother.
When her parents were not at home, she took care of her younger brother's daily life.
When my mother had a day off, she would go out and do odd jobs to support the family.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this experience that she has cultivated her calm and introverted character.
But what she didn't expect was that her father was about to become famous, and he was about to "leave behind" the family.
The act of fame, marrying someone else
As the experience of the performance became more and more abundant, Zhao Benshan also came out.
He not only appeared on the stage of the two-person turn, but also made his debut.
also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 1990.
That year, the name "Zhao Benshan" became popular all over the south and north of the Yangtze River.
But if you want to say who he is most happy and proud of, it must be Zhao Shuzhen's mother and daughter.
At that time, both mother and daughter had an idea in their hearts, that is, the good days were not far away.
But after Zhao Benshan returned home, the news he brought was "I want a divorce." ”
Although the two have no love at all, Ge Shuzhen is still unwilling.
After all, they have traveled so many times together.
But Zhao Benshan has already made up his mind, and is even willing to leave the house.
Seeing her husband so resolute, no matter how stupid Ge Shuzhen was, she understood that her retention was useless.
In this way, the afflicted couple parted ways.
After the divorce, he turned around and married Ma Lijuan.
When Ge Shuzhen learned the news, she still secretly swore in her heart, "No matter what, I will never rely on this man again." ”
But not long after, her son was hospitalized as his condition worsened.
Even so, she didn't tell her ex-husband.
It was Ma Lijuan who found her when she went to the hospital to take care of her relatives.
After Ma Lijuan returned home, she told Zhao Benshan that his son was hospitalized.
After Zhao Benshan got the news, he hurriedly rushed to the hospital to take care of his son.
Because he is usually very busy, he has little time to care about his son, and he wanted to take this opportunity to make up for him.
But unexpectedly, Tie Dan died of illness a month later.
He was very saddened by the death of his son.
So he cared more about Zhao Yufang.
Maybe he wants to make up for the fatherly love that is missing in Tie Dan to his daughter.
And Ma Lijuan can also understand her husband's mood very well, so she treats Zhao Yufang as her own.
The relationship between the two families is also becoming more and more relaxed.
But even so, Zhao Yufang still had a pimple in her heart.
She didn't understand why her father had been so decisive in leaving, until she met someone.
Happiness in life, happy family
Back then, Zhao Yufang was admitted to a foreign school with her own efforts.
And everyone also knows that it costs a lot of money to go to school abroad, and Ge Shuzhen naturally can't afford it.
After Zhao Benshan knew the news that his daughter was admitted to the school, he guaranteed that she would pay all the expenses abroad.
She is also very grateful to her father for this.
When she went abroad, she couldn't rest assured more than her mother.
After the divorce, the mother and daughter have been dependent on each other.
Therefore, Zhao Yufang also took the initiative to hint that her mother could find another "wife." ”
In this regard, Ge Shuzhen only smiled.
After a divorce, she felt that marriage was not indispensable.
So after her daughter went abroad, she used her savings for many years to open a restaurant.
Although she is a very wooden person, her cooking can be described as beautiful and delicious.
As a result, her restaurant is doing surprisingly well, not only with rave reviews, but also with many branches.
And Zhao Yufang also lives well in school.
While completing her studies, she also enjoys participating in various school activities.
Therefore, her personality has also become very cheerful, and she is also very free and easy.
After graduating, she returned to her hometown.
In 2007, she brought a man to Zhao Benshan, claiming that it was her boyfriend.
So Zhao Benshan looked him from top to bottom, and then shook his head.
Because this man is just an ordinary small clerk, I am afraid that his monthly salary may not even be able to support himself.
He didn't want his daughter to marry such a poor boy.
But Zhao Yufang doesn't mind, she thinks that the most important thing to look at a person is what the person's quality is.
At that time, she thought that her father disagreed because he was too rigid, but she didn't expect that even her mother didn't want to.
She has always been very assertive, so she said, "If you don't marry him!"
In this regard, Zhao Benshan was very angry, he thought that this man gave his daughter "ecstasy soup".
So he called the man to talk to him alone.
And the man only said that what he valued was not Zhao Yufang's family, but this person.
But for Zhao Benshan, who has seen all kinds of people, a word can't move him.
So he still couldn't agree to the two of them dating.
Zhao Yufang also quarreled with him for this, which also made Zhao Benshan very angry.
Could it be that his years of nurturing grace are not as good as a few sweet words from this stinky boy?
That's why he's always sullen at home. And all this, Ma Lijuan also sees it.
She felt that her husband's ideas were still too paranoid, so she patiently persuaded him.
also woke up Zhao Benshan with a sentence.
She said:
"Although the boy has no money, we have the confidence to give our daughter.
We prepare a generous dowry so that she will never be sad. ”
Zhao Benshan also feels very reasonable about this.
And the daughter's attitude is too resolute, and it is useless to oppose it.
So he nodded and agreed to the marriage.
The following year, Zhao Yufang and her boyfriend walked into the wedding hall.
Their wedding was also organized by their father, which was very luxurious and romantic.
Before she got married, her father gave her 3 million as a dowry.
She wept bitterly about this, she felt that her previous approach was too extreme.
The father said that "that's not a thing", and the father and daughter reconciled as before.
But at that time, she didn't really think in her heart that she would not touch the money when it was not necessary.
Because this money is not only his own confidence, but also a heavy father's love.
After marriage, she and her husband lived an ordinary life, and both of them had a stable job.
Not long after, a boy was born.
For this eldest grandson, Zhao Benshan is also very fond of him.
knew that his grandson liked to act, so he took him to play a small role in the drama he starred in.
The ties between the two families have also become even closer because of Zhao Yufang's son.
It can be said that it is very complete.
epilogue
Until now, Zhao Yufang has been married for 16 years.
At first, everyone thought that her husband was based on her family background, but only she understood her husband's heart.
Although the two of them did not make a big splash after marriage, ordinary is the best for her.
And now the two of them are still sweet endings, which is the best answer to the world.
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