Text: Han Shi's words
Edited by Han Shi's words
Preface
Who is Zhao Benshan most sorry for?
That must be this woman: Ge Shuzhen!
accompanied Zhao Benshan from scratch and gave birth to a boy and a girl.
As a result, the first thing Zhao Benshan did was to abandon his wife!
Many years later, Ge Shuzhen has become a rich woman!
Don't rely on Zhao Benshan to do anything, he started from scratch.
What kind of script is this Shuangwen heroine! It's really relieving!
We can only share joys and sorrows
In 1979, Ge Shuzhen met Zhao Benshan by mistake.
Because it was introduced by the matchmaker, Ge Shuzhen was reluctant to meet at first.
I don't know each other, and it's embarrassing to meet.
But I can't stand the mouth of the matchmaker, and praise this man for being talented, caring for his family, and being a good person.
As she spoke, Ge Shuzhen was tempted.
With a worried heart, I met with Zhao Benshan.
Unexpectedly, Zhao Benshan, like her, was fatherless and motherless, one was brought up by a disabled second uncle, and the other was brought up by his biological brother.
Maybe it's a similar experience, or maybe Ge Shuzhen is really helpless and needs to start a family.
After a long time, the two got married.
No weddings, wedding dresses, bride prices, dowries, nothing.
Two people who are also poor get together, and they are still poor.
Except for a decent bed, everything else in the house was tattered, covered with dust and garbage.
It's like a "pigsty"!
Zhao Benshan thought that Ge Shuzhen would dislike him, but he didn't expect Ge Shuzhen to pick up the rag and start cleaning it.
Seeing Ge Shuzhen's small actions, Zhao Benshan was also very moved.
I feel that the woman in front of me, although she has no special feelings for her, must be a good wife and mother, and she can live together.
The two respected each other like guests, and also gave birth to two big fat children.
However, the eldest son was deaf and mute.
Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen were also sad together for a long time, crying every night, but it didn't help.
The high cost of treatment also overwhelmed the family.
At that time, Zhao Benshan was just an erhu, and he could only think about making more money and supporting his family.
With his natural talent for funny, he slowly became a sketch actor.
also began to appear frequently on TV, and the big guy couldn't laugh from ear to ear.
After having a certain amount of savings, Zhao Benshan began to improve the environment of his family, first bought a small house in Tieling, and the living standard of a family of four skyrocketed.
My son's treatment can also be paid on time, and the family is moving forward towards a bright future.
But Ge Shuzhen was a little panicked!
Her intuition told herself that she was afraid that she would never have a chance to continue with Zhao Benshan!
"When a man is rich, he becomes bad", which is also common to Zhao Benshan.
After becoming famous, Zhao Benshan has seen a lot of the world.
I didn't have a feeling for my bad wife, and it was normal to meet so many excellent and knowledgeable beauties.
Sure enough, soon, Zhao Benshan filed for divorce like Ge Shuzhen.
Because he met Ma Lijuan!
成名后抛弃原配
Ge Shuzhen, who heard the news, was not so surprised, although she was a country woman, she still understood the characteristics of men who like the new and hate the old.
But she still has a pair of children, and she can't let the children suffer!
At this time, Zhao Benshan was falling in love with Ma Lijuan.
Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan met because they danced together on a stage play, and their eyes met on stage, sparking a spark of love.
Ma Lijuan is a woman that Ge Shuzhen can never compare!
She is knowledgeable, educated, and can dance, and also admires Zhao Benshan, and has the same three views as Zhao Benshan.
When she learned that Zhao Benshan was still dragging her family, Ma Lijuan asked him to divorce quickly, and she also had a lot of resources in her hands, which could make Zhao Benshan's career go to the next level.
Zhao Benshan is also desperate! As if he was carried away, no matter what Ge Shuzhen asks, as long as he can get a divorce, he can do anything!
So, Zhao Benshan left the house, the house, the car, and even the two children were all given to Ge Shuzhen.
I went to marry Ma Lijuan with joy.
After getting married, Zhao Benshan did rely on his talent to go farther and farther on the road of comedy.
participated in the Spring Festival Gala and received endorsements. Life, career, and marriage are both happy.
On the other hand, Ge Shuzhen, a divorced woman with two babies and a disabled son!
She simply can't afford to live with the money she has.
I can only do odd jobs every day to maintain my son's sky-high medical expenses.
Her daughter also has to go to school, and Ge Shuzhen once felt that she couldn't live anymore.
watched her ex-husband's family live happily and gave birth to two more children, and then looked at her own children, food and clothing were a problem.
Ge Shuzhen was not convinced, no matter how tired and bitter she was, she had to pull the child up.
Let them see that although they are not educated, they are no worse than anyone else!
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However, accidents always come first, and my son died of a heart attack when he was 12 years old.
This pain is more intense than divorce, and Ge Shuzhen can't get out of the grief of her son's death for a long time.
I can only pin my hope on my daughter.
Nirvana reborn
Although the son is gone, he still has to pull his daughter to grow up.
Ge Shuzhen set up a shop by herself, thinking about starting a small business by herself, but she didn't know what to do.
Relying on the experience accumulated from odd jobs, she decided to open a small restaurant.
As soon as it opened, many people came to eat, and the business was good.
But doing business is ups and downs, and when no one comes to the restaurant, Ge Shuzhen is also worried about losing her hair.
In this way, Ge Shuzhen didn't want to use her ex-husband Zhao Benshan's fame to promote her small shop.
She wants to rely on herself and no longer have anything to do with her ex-husband.
In the end, with his superb cooking skills, the large amount of affordable meals was "killed" in the Tieling catering industry.
The "Wei Zhenxiang" restaurant has gradually become bigger and stronger, and Ge Shuzhen has also become a female boss, with a house, money and a career.
He also sent his daughter to university for further study.
Ge Shuzhen used her actions to prove to everyone that divorced women with babies can also live a wonderful life.
Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan met again at the wedding of their eldest daughter.
At this time, Ge Shuzhen no longer had any timidity, and stood calmly next to Zhao Benshan as a "strong woman". And Zhao Benshan has already been extremely vicissitudes.
He has a clear conscience, and Zhao Benshan "separates from each other, and each life is happy".
But only she understands the difficulties.
Zhao Benshan looked at the woman in front of him who had not seen him for more than ten years, and also had a heartfelt respect.
She is a good mother and a good ex-wife, but she did it wrong back then.
But there is no regret medicine in the world, I believe that if Zhao Benshan had never done it once, he would still choose Ma Lijuan instead of Ge Shuzhen.
Sometimes, fate is just so wonderful.
When Zhao Benshan established "Benshan Media", he made a rule that his disciples could not abandon their original wives.
But "the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked", how can you ask others if you can't do it yourself.
"Late affection is cheaper than grass", no matter how much Zhao Benshan remedies, it is useless. It's just a personal setting for yourself!
Now Zhao Benshan is 66 years old, and from time to time there will be news of hospitalization.
There are also many disciples who have defected and criticized Zhao Benshan, which is really unseemly!
One report after another, don't be afraid of retribution for the lack of virtue you have done!
epilogue
Marriage is a university question, and everyone's way of marriage is different.
I hope everyone can learn like Ge Shuzhen, be self-reliant, and have their own careers.
Be a sober and motivated person!
No one relies on it, just rely on yourself!