On April 23, some netizens saw three children locked in their homes through the security door of a family.
It is understood that the three children all live with their mother, and the mother goes to work alone and comes back in the middle of the night every day.
The eldest child is only four years old and can't cook, so he can only wait for his mother to come back every day to have something to eat.
Three children in condition
Seeing the video posted by netizens, the youngest child still can't walk, crawling around on the sofa in diapers.
The diapers are not changed for a day, and the child's buttocks are all rotten.
There was also a mess in the living room, and there was even feces and urine on the floor.
There was a child who was so hungry that he cried heartbreakingly: Mommy!
Seeing such news breaking out, the editor's heart also panicked, this eldest daughter is already four years old, and she should be able to go to kindergarten, but now she can only be locked at home by her mother, and she can't eat all day.
Netizens gave the children a little food, and one child was hungry and drank Wangzai's milk.
It's really pitiful, netizens have said that the child is too pitiful, and some netizens are saying, what kind of mother is so ruthless, just give birth and don't care? ?
Later, I learned that the child's mother was with the child's father when she was a teenager, and the two had a total of 5 children after getting married.
Now the relationship between the two has deteriorated and divorced, the father has taken the two children away, and the mother has taken the remaining three children.
Netizens have different opinions
Surprisingly, in the comment area, not too many people blamed the mother's "inaction" behavior, but put herself in her shoes.
It is not easy for a divorced woman who is only 25 years old with three children, and it is helpless to go out to work and lock the children at home.
Some netizens said: This mother is already very good, and she has not given up with three babies alone
Some people also said that please don't cyberbully this mother, when she didn't have a job, she relied on neighbors for relief, and now she finally found a job, she needs this job to earn to raise children.
Everyone thinks that this mother is too pitiful, and she has to raise a child alone!
In the face of this situation, everyone's thoughts are not all the same, and some people think that this is also a young person who is ignorant and cannot afford to have children in disorder.
Others asked where the child's father had gone and why he didn't blame the man for his mistakes.
Some netizens even pointed out that looking at this situation, it has not happened for a day or two, and the neighbors also know that the Women's Federation went there earlier, why did it wait for the incident to break out before it came out to respond?
Thoughts on the matter
In response to this matter, in fact, the most bitter thing is the child.
With the development of society, as long as young men and women are involved in marriage, they cannot escape all kinds of life pressures such as housing and car loans.
If you don't have a house, you can't get married, if you don't have a car, you can't get married, and if you don't have a bride price, you can't get married.
After getting married, having children also causes pressure on life, and raising children is like raising a gold-swallowing beast, and money flows outward.
In this case, in today's families, there are generally only one child, and the couple only has one.
But there are still some families, and the older generation still has the idea of having more children and more blessings, preferring sons over daughters, and giving birth to three or five.
Raising children only wants to have something to eat, and they don't starve to death.
There is also this incident that broke out, why did the mother of three children who was locked in the house have so many children?
People who marry their lovers in their teens and marry early should not have the opportunity to go to college for higher education.
It seems that the woman's family and the man's family are not very wealthy families, and it can only be that they lack contraceptive awareness and have the idea of being born.
When the young couple was in love, you and I were in love, but now the relationship is broken, and the crystallization of the past love has become a burden to life.
In today's society, raising children requires a certain amount of economic strength, and for most people, they dare not have children if they have no money or savings.
Just like the mother of these three children, I heard that she is only 25 years old, her ex-husband took away two children, and she has three children by her side, so that is to say, she is only 25 years old and has five children left.
It can be seen how often you have children, one a year?
epilogue
In the final analysis, it is still in the emotional communication between husband and wife, and the awareness of contraception is not strong.
is like what a netizen said: A woman's greatest self-discipline is not to have children indiscriminately, and in the end, it is the children who are pitiful and suffer.
Another netizen said: Sometimes not giving birth is also a kind of kindness!
Look at the three children who are locked in the house, if they are in other people's homes, how can they treat their children like this, even if they are forced by life and have to do it, it is the biggest harm to the children!
Information sources:
Elephant News April 23: Mother locks up her three children to go out to work?
Qingdou News April 23: The mother locked her three children to go out to work, and the children called their mothers when they were hungry for one meal a day
Editor: Xiao Meng