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Love, in fact, is a fate, sometimes love will come inadvertently, even if you are married, you may still meet someone who can make your heart flutter.
At the wrong time, meeting the right person is actually a regret in life, and at the right time, meeting the wrong person may also be a providence.
In this life, the people you meet are actually arranged by God's will, but some people can restrain themselves, can keep the bottom line, and can keep happiness, and some people can't keep the bottom line, they will lose more.
If a man and a woman are emotional, but they have families with each other, then they should remember these two points to be really good for each other.
1. True love is a kind of fulfillment and restraint.
Even if you meet true love after marriage, you must remember that you have a family behind you, you have your own responsibilities, you can't be nonsense, you can't just care about your own happiness, but you have to think about your own family, and you have to be responsible for each other, which is the most mature way.
Men and women are both people with families, and if they are together because of their hearts, or even secretly together, hiding from their respective families, only greedy for their own pleasure, and not considering the consequences, then it will hurt both families.
True love is not pleasure, not possession, but restraint and fulfillment.
Thinking of Shen Shijun and Gu Manzhen in Zhang Ailing's "Half Life", the two of them actually love each other very much, but providence makes people, the two of them miss each other, many years later, both of them have families, and when they meet again, there is actually love in the eyes of the two people, but for the sake of each other's families, they both chose to be fulfilled, and then Gu Manzhen told him that we can't go back.
Then Gu Manzhen watched Shen Shijun leave from afar, watching him live happily with his family and never contact him again.
Therefore, true love is like this, after marriage, if you meet true love, don't be impulsive to be together, but consider the consequences, and it is more decent to be fulfilled than to possess, so that you can be good for yourself and each other.
If you only think about the change of the moment, then two men and women with families come together, and both families will be in crisis.
So, it's better to be sensible.
Second, instead of sneaking together, it is better to hide each other in the deepest part of your heart and never meet.
After marriage, you inadvertently met someone, attracted your attention, and even made yourself crazy, only to find out that you were emotional.
Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, if you fall in love with a person who should not be loved, don't start easily, you have to cut off the flame of love, we are grateful to meet at the same time, because the encounter itself is a very romantic thing, but we already have a family, so we reject each other's kindness, keep their bottom line, and be worthy of themselves and their families, so that we can live with a clear conscience and harvest true happiness and joy.
Many times, when you meet someone outside of marriage, likes you, falls in love with you, and wants to be with you, but he is very good to you, always able to move you and open your heart, you also have to stay sober, maybe this is not a true love, but an illusory bubble, a poke and burst.
Maybe some people are real, but you also have to remember that you are married, keep your distance and proportion, and don't get entangled. You can forget about the other person, or you can hide the other person in your heart and never talk about it again.
If a man and a woman are in love, but they each have families, then this kind of love is wrong, it is not affirmed, and it should not appear.
If you fall in love with a wrong person, you must learn to turn back in time, don't be greedy, don't entangle, and only by decisively refusing to be together can you be responsible for yourself and your family.
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