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Xue Baochai is a girl with excellent personal popularity.
Up and down Jiafu, there is almost no one who doesn't like her.
Cao Xueqin's description and shaping of Xue Baochai in the book are extremely beautiful, whether it is talent or appearance, receiving people and things, and handling things are all first-class.
Since childhood, Baochai has been "born with smooth muscles and bones, and elegant manners." On that day, his father was in Japan, and he loved this girl so much that he could read and write, which was ten times higher than that of his brother", although the father and daughter were deeply affectionate, but the family affection was no match for death, Baochai experienced the death of his father, and there must have been a painful loss of his loved ones.
But it is useless to grieve blindly, how to keep the family business for the father is something that needs to be considered, although there is someone to take care of, but there is also a need for a reliable person to take care of the housework.
Although the Xue family is among the four major families, it has declined in Baochai's generation. 's father passed away, his mother Aunt Xue was a person who had no idea, and his brother Xue Pan was a dou who couldn't help him, and he was a gentleman who was addicted to eating, drinking and having fun. The sensible Baochai had to stick to her mother's arms early, put away the girl's heart, and take care of the housework for her mother wholeheartedly. The person who can calmly analyze the whole family's situation is Baochai. Even, she has to take on the heavy responsibility of family revival - at the beginning, she came to Beijing to participate in the draft, and then the draft failed, so she began to plan to marry into Jiafu.
Xue Baochai is a person who is very good at observing words and feelings. She treats people up and down in Jiafu very transparently and skillfully, and she is actually an eight-sided and exquisite character.
She is delicate, thoughtful, and generous, easily and not angry, giving people a feeling of "easy to get along with, easy to communicate, and close to". I can't find fault with being a person and doing things.
That time, Xue Pan returned from a business trip and brought back a lot of Jiangnan playthings.
Xue Baochai took things as favors and distributed them to everyone in Jiafu one by one.
Needless to say, the elders will not be left behind, and the maids will also have a share. Even Jia Huan, a concubine who is used to seeing white eyes on weekdays, was given a gift by Xue Baochai.
Aunt Zhao was very moved and said a lot of good things about Xue Baochai.
I can't complain that others say that the baby girl is good, can be a person, and is very generous, and now it looks really good.
How many things his brother could bring, he delivered them door to door, and he didn't miss a single thing, and he didn't show who was thin and who was thick, even if we were unlucky, he thought of it.
And that's just one of the little things.
Xue Baochai's thoughtfulness and empathy are well-known in Jiafu.
On the twenty-second time, Baochai celebrated her 15th birthday, and Jia's mother asked Baochai what kind of drama she likes to listen to and what she likes to eat. Baochai knew that Jia's mother was an old man, liked lively dramas, and loved to eat sweet and rotten food, so she always said it according to Jia's mother's former happiness.
Jin Chu'er jumped into the well and died, Xue Baochai spared no effort to comfort Mrs. Wang and used all kinds of words to ease her heart. Finally, he generously took out his new clothes, not minding that it would be worn on the dead.
Baochai is very generous, she funded Xiangyun to promote a crab feast to relieve her urgent need, and sent the old grandmother to Xiaoxiang Pavilion to send bird's nest to Daiyu on a rainy night......
Counting them one by one, you will find that Xue Baochai is very good at interpersonal relationships, and spends a lot of time in front of everyone every day. Because of this, he was loved and respected by the people of Jiafu.
She can penetrate the unspoken rules of getting along with people, but she also knows how to disguise herself and rarely reveals her true self.
Therefore, everyone before and after them is an impeccable and perfect appearance.
Xue Baochai is the highest configuration template for all "other people's children" in ancient and modern times, and he seems to be surrounded by advantages, without any faults, and there is nothing to worry about. It's like Masako, the queen of Japan, is an existence for people to worship, but it is far away, and no one can stand it.
But because it is too perfect, it will make people feel "fake".
Not like a real flesh-and-blood person.
Baochai's eight-sided exquisiteness is of course successful, and it is not surprising that it has received super high praise from the top and bottom of Jiafu for its excellent performance.
But evaluation is evaluation, is Xue Baochai really so popular?
# 01
Jia's mother's attitude towards Baochai
In fact, Sister Bao's problem is all about "no shortcomings" - no fault itself is a problem. So Jia Mu and many people have never been able to really like her.
In terms of personality, it is not difficult to see the characteristics of Sister Pinfeng, Daiyu, Qingwen, and even the silly eldest sister, and it is not difficult to see the type that Jia's mother likes: funny, sharp, or innocent - in short, there must be personality and true temperament.
Therefore, although Baochai is good, she is never the best candidate for granddaughter-in-law in Jia's mother's heart, otherwise the "golden jade" deliberately concocted by Aunt Xue and Baochai will not become an "elephant in the room", and everyone pretends to be invisible.
In terms of the style of dealing with the world, Jia's mother, Sister Feng, and Daiyu are all witty, and they are all quite able to "be friends" with the personal girl. Mandarin ducks even dared to "manage" Jia's mother:
In the seventy-sixth episode, the Mandarin Duck took a soft towel and a big cloak, and said: "It's late at night, I'm afraid the dew will come down, and the wind will blow my head, so I need to add this." It's time to sit and rest. Jia Mu said: "I'm happy today, you are here to urge again." Am I too drunk to wait until dawn!" I poured wine again. While putting on a scarf and a cloak, everyone drank and joked with them.
Zijuan dares to "manage" Daiyu:
In the thirty-fifth time, Lin Daiyu was still standing under the shade of flowers, but she looked at Yihong Courtyard from a distance...... Suddenly, Zijuan came from behind and said, "Girl, take medicine, the boiling water is cold again." Daiyu said: "What do you want? It's just urging, I don't want to eat or not, what does it matter to you!" Zijuan smiled: "The cough is better, and I don't take medicine anymore." Although it is May and the weather is hot, you should be more careful. I got up early in the morning and stood in this trendy place for half a day, and it was time to go back to rest and rest. ”
Zijuan and Daiyu have nothing to talk about, Ping'er and Sister Feng have nothing to talk about, which is unimaginable in the maids beside Mrs. Wang and Baochai. For the "rules", as long as you don't go through the big folds, you might as well take off a little, according to today's language, in principle, you can take into account some flexibility, this is the old lady's charter.
In the thirty-eighth time, Sister Feng laughed and "made fun" with the old lady, and Mrs. Wang smiled: "The old lady is used to her because she likes her, and she is still saying this, she is becoming more and more rude Ming'er." Jia Mu smiled: "I like her like this, and she is not the child who doesn't know how to be high." There is no one at home, and the girls should be like this. It's okay to have a good horizontal and vertical etiquette, but I don't want her to do something like a god!"
The dialogue between Mrs. Wang and the old lady here is of course a joke, but if you look into it carefully, it also reflects the "opposite" of the "two factions" of the high-level of Jiafu. Mrs. Wang and Baochai are strict in "establishing rules", and they do not pretend to be close to the big girl. For example, Baochai to Ying'er obviously "taught" her "rules" from time to time:
Twentieth time: Baochai saw that Jia Huan was anxious, so he looked at Ying'er and said: "The bigger it is, the more unruly, do you still rely on you?" Ying'er was full of grievances, and when she saw Baochai say, she didn't dare to say anything, so she had to put down the money......
Chapter 60: Here Baoyu called Chunyan: "You go with your mother, go to Miss Bao's room and give Ying'er a few good words, and don't offend her in vain." Chunyan agreed and went out with her mother. Baoyu said through the window again: "Don't say it in front of Miss Bao, carefully ask Ying'er to be taught." ”
- It can be seen that Ying'er is often taught by Miss Bao, and Baochai has big rules, and even Baoyu knows it!
For example, Sister Feng dared to laugh at the old lady, and how dare she dare to laugh at Mrs. Wang?
The thirty-sixth time, at noon on this day, Aunt Xue, mother and daughter and Lin Daiyu were eating in Mrs. Wang's room, and Sister Feng had to go back to Mrs. Wang and said, "......"...... Aunt Xue said with a smile: "Just listening to the mouth of the Feng girl, it's like pouring a walnut cart, just listening to her account is clear, and the reason is fair." Sister Feng smiled and said, "Auntie, am I wrong?" Aunt Xue smiled: "What you said is wrong, but it won't be easy for you to speak slowly." Sister Feng was about to laugh, but she was busy and held back, listening to Mrs. Wang's instructions.
- Let's see, here, "Sister Feng is just about to laugh, busy and holding back, listening to Mrs. Wang's instructions", how expressive!
Jia's mother doesn't like Baochai, and her writing is relatively obscure, which needs to be carefully experienced.
As for the old lady's so-called Aunt Xue, "Counting from the four girls in our family, they are all inferior to Bao Yatou", but she just praised the scene of relatives and children. And even if there is a sincere element in this interview, so what? No matter how good the relative's child is, it is also a relative's child!
Jia's mother's praise of Baochai's scene is not enough to become the foundation of Baochai's climbing branches. Jia's mother never liked it to the point of asking Baochai to be her granddaughter-in-law.
If she stays as a relative for a few days and leaves, Jia's mother will definitely have to do enough face-saving work, and it is not painful to praise Baochai from time to time. But as soon as the Xue family settled down, they didn't leave, especially the Xue family and Mrs. Wang joined forces to create public opinion about the golden and jade relationship, and Jia's mother became more and more disgusted with Baochai.
Mother Jia's heart and soul from beginning to end are only Baoyu and Daiyu, who are "not enemies and don't get together", which is obviously written in the whole book. Whether in blood or emotionally, Baochai is far away.
As Jia's mother gets older, she becomes more and more powerless about Bao Dai's marriage, because of the public opinion spread by Xue Baochai's family and Mrs. Wang, Bao Dai's marriage has variables. In this case, how could Jia Mu like Xue Baochai?
Moreover, Xue Baochai's tactfulness in dealing with people and things even made Jia's mother dislike.
Xue Baochai's most proud work is the crab banquet, which has also won the praise of the people of Jiafu and won the hearts of many people. But this actually violated Jia's mother's bottom line: Xiangyun, the niece and granddaughter of her mother's historian, was a small poetry club host, and she was actually instigated by Baochai to become a crab feast for the daughters of the mansion. Baochai seized the opportunity to tie up the whole family of Jiafu and returned the old lady's twenty taels of silver. The stupid Xiangyun was used, and he happily received the love of his sister. The Shi family is Jia's mother's maiden family, and Baochai exposed the shortcomings of the Shi family and slapped Jia's mother in the face. The crab feast aggravated Jia's mother's disgust with Baochai.
Xue Baochai is Mrs. Wang's niece, and she has not married into Jiafu, but she is a housekeeper in Jiafu, and she also took the opportunity to install a henchman. This was very disgusting to Jia's mother. Jia's mother's gamble on the purge of Daguanyuan is a negation of the troika, why should Baochai participate? Xue Baochai is young and old, too scheming, Baoyu is simply idle, if he marries Baoyu, he will hand over the family business of Rongguo Mansion to Xue Baochai in the future, this family surname is Jia or Xue?
In fact, by the end of the day, Jia's mother was already very disgusted with Xue Baochai, but due to various interests, Jia's mother showed her disgust more obscurely. The Jia family must maintain a good relationship with the Wang family. At present, the actual influence of the Jia family in the government has long been different from what it used to be, and there are no important ministers in the family, so it is necessary to connect the Jia and Wang families. Mrs. Wang is also the biological mother of Yuan Chun and Baoyu, and the mother is more expensive than her daughter (son), and Jia's mother can't play music for Mrs. Wang. Baochai is Wang Ziteng's niece again, and of course Jia's mother can't clearly express her dislike.
If compared with Daiyu, Xue Baochai is a real outsider to Jia's mother, and it is normal for relatives to be different. But the next thing slapped Baochai in the face. Since Xue Baoqin came to Daguan Garden, Jia's mother has shown a unique "love", first telling Baochai to "leave her alone", and then giving Baoqin the wild duck coat that Baoyu was not willing to give, and finally wanted to "tell" Baoqin Baoqin, Baochai was so jealous that she said "I don't know what I am inferior to you". In fact, Jia's mother doesn't necessarily really love Baoqin, and it's not that she doesn't know that Baoqin has been married to the Mei family, not so much that Jia's mother loves Baoqin, but that it is for Baochai to see, Baoqin, who has only been here for a few days, can "talk about marriage" with Baoyu, but Baochai, who has been in Jiafu for so many years, has not been mentioned by Jia's mother, and the reason for this has to make people think: Does Jia's mother like Xue Baochai or not.
The most obvious expression of disgust with the Xue family's refusal to leave is Jia Mu's famous lie:
To give birth to a young lady must be love like a treasure, and this young lady must be well-informed and knowledgeable...... As soon as I saw a handsome man, whether it was a relative or a friend, I remembered the major events of my life, my parents forgot, I forgot the book ceremony, the ghost is not a ghost, a thief is not a thief, that is a beauty?......
Since it is said that all the young ladies of the eunuch scholars know the etiquette and study, and even the lady knows the etiquette and etiquette, that is, they tell the old man to return home, so naturally there are many people in this way, and there are many people who serve the young lady and the maid, why are there only the young lady and a maid who follows closely in these books? You think about it in vain, what are those people in charge of, but they don't answer the preface and the afterword?" When everyone heard this, they all laughed and said, "The old lady's statement is a lie, and it has been approved."
Jia Mu is sarcastic, it is the entire Xue family!
In the environment of Rongguo Mansion, who is the one who is sarcastic in Jia's mother's mouth, whether it is a relative or a friend, the girl who remembers the major events of her life?
The only directionality is naturally Xue Baochai.
Several girls in Rongguo Mansion, Sanchun is the granddaughter of Jia's mother; Xiangyun already has a mother-in-law's family; Daiyu is the granddaughter of Jia's mother who raised herself under her knees; she does not avoid suspicion, and has raised Daiyu Baoyu under her knees since she was a child, "sitting together during the day, and resting together at night", "the two of us eat at the same table, sleep in the same bed, and grow so big", it is not someone else who does not avoid suspicion, it is the ancestor! So this will never be Daiyu.
In Rongguo Mansion, only Baochai is a relative who is not related to Jia's mother, only her family advocates "golden and jade good fate", and only she has the condition of "whether it is a relative or a friend, she will think of lifelong events".
Baochai often goes to Baoyu's room in the early morning, evening, and noon, does Jia's mother not know? Even embroidering Baoyu's belly pocket must know, Jia's mother even said clearly, "As soon as I see a handsome man, whether it is a relative or a friend, I will think of lifelong events, my parents have forgotten, I have forgotten the book ceremony, the ghost is not a ghost, the thief is not a thief, so is it a beauty?" Who forgot everything when he saw a handsome man, and called him a beauty?
This is Jia Mu's heaviest counterattack to the Xue family. rose to the height of the lady's character. Doesn't this scold Jin Yu Liangyuan and Baochai's initiative?
Xue Jialai didn't leave in Rongguo Mansion, and took the initiative to hype up the golden and jade good relationship, in the ancient times of men's and women's defense, is there anything more out of the ordinary than this?
After talking about Mother Jia, let's look at Mrs. Wang's generation, will they like Xue Baochai?
# 02
The true opinion of the elders of Rongguo Mansion on Xue Baochai
Mrs. Wang is Baochai's aunt, and Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue are in the same interest camp, so Mrs. Wang's opinion of Baochai is not reliable at all.
Even if Baochai doesn't do anything, Mrs. Wang will also like her;
And Daiyu is like a flower, and she will only be disliked by Mrs. Wang.
Other people's opinions on Baochai are the best proof of whether Baochai has good popularity.
But it's a pity that most of the elders of Rongguo Mansion have no feeling for Xue Baochai.
Obviously, Jia Zheng, Xue Baochai's brother-in-law, chooses his daughter-in-law to prefer girls from scholarly families.
Jia Zheng married the daughter of the country's son Jia Zhu for his eldest son, Jia Zhu;
The intimate correspondence between Jia Zheng and Lin Ruhai, the brother-in-law of Tanhua, can also prove this.
How the Xue family entered Beijing, Jia Zheng couldn't understand it better.
After the Xue family entered Kyoto, Jia Zheng left Aunt Xue's family to live in Rongguo Mansion.
Is that because you value the Xue family? Of course not.
Jia Zheng's meaning is also very clear, that is, to restrain Xue Pan. Let Xue Pan never bring the style of a tyrant in his hometown of Jinling to the capital.
The wealthy and nobles in the capital, Xue Pan can't afford to provoke anyone!
Jia Zheng looked down on the Xue family, who was born in business, at all.
Let's look at Mr. and Mrs. Jia Yu.
For Jia Yu, an old gentleman, even Aunt Xue is dispensable. Jia Yu and Xue Pan basically have no intersection.
In Jia Yu's eyes, there is no need to entertain Xue Baochai at all.
Mrs. Xing, Jia Yu's wife, what does she think of Xue Baochai?
From the perspective of safeguarding her own interests, if Jia Baoyu marries a wealthy lady, it will not be of any benefit to Mrs. Xing, and it will only make Mrs. Xing's status in the family drop again and again. Therefore, Mrs. Xing really has the possibility of supporting Xue Baochai, who was born in a merchant family.
But if Baochai is really a lady who conforms to feudal etiquette, then she will definitely take the initiative to say hello to Mrs. Xing, reflecting a good tutor for the younger generation.
Unfortunately, this never happened!
The tradition of the Xue family's merchants has made the Xue family's behavior always be based on the word profit.
At the beginning, Mrs. Xing's room was not shameful, so the Xue family was too lazy to wait for Mrs. Xing.
But as time went by, when the Xue family was still unable to promote the golden and jade relationship, they thought of Mrs. Xing again.
At that time, the Xue family took the initiative to choose to marry the Xing family and let Xue Zhen get engaged to Xing Xiuyan.
But is Mrs. Xing so easy to fool?
What kind of family the Xue family is, Mrs. Xing already knows in her heart.
Although Jia's mother was a matchmaker, Mrs. Xing could only agree to this family business.
But even if Xing Xiuyan was engaged to Xue Zhen, she didn't see any closer contact between Mrs. Xing and the Xue family.
Mrs. Xing slapped the Xue family in the face, it really hurt!
In other words, in Rongguo Mansion, except for Mrs. Wang, no elder really took Xue Baochai seriously.
Then the reader's opinion that Baochai has good popularity can only be a misunderstanding.
The rest is only to see how popular Baochai is among the little sisters of the same generation.
It's a pity that the power of the little sisters of the same generation is too small, even if Baochai has good popularity, I'm afraid it will be useless.
But even this kind of useless popularity, Xue Baochai does not have it.
# 03
The relationship between Xue Baochai and the sisters of Jiafu
In Rongguo Mansion, there are only two people in the same generation who have a real blood relationship with Baochai.
One is Baoyu, Baoyu is a flower messenger, and he has a good relationship with any girl, so he will be excluded first.
And the other person is Wang Xifeng, the grandmother of Rongguo Mansion.
Wang Xifeng is Xue Baochai's cousin, and according to common sense, this pair of cousins who are related by blood should get along well.
But looking through the entire "Dream of Red Mansions", I couldn't find a separate dialogue between Wang Xifeng and Xue Baochai.
This has to make the reader wonder, what happened to the relationship between the two cousins?
In fact, Wang Xifeng never trusted Xue Baochai, but was on guard against Xue Baochai.
Wang Xifeng chose to guard against Xue Baochai, and only one reason was enough: that is, the golden and jade relationship.
When Wang Xifeng is the only one of his peers who marries into the Rongguo Mansion, Wang Xifeng is the link between the Jia family and the Wang family, and Wang Xifeng will get the trust and full support of Mrs. Wang.
But once Xue Baochai also marries into Rongguo Mansion, the situation will change immediately.
Wang Xifeng married Mrs. Wang's nephew, but Xue Baochai wanted to marry Mrs. Wang's own son.
The importance of the son and the nephew, it is very clear to anyone!
Wang Xifeng will not like Xue Baochai at all, she will only do her best and try her best to prevent the golden and jade relationship from becoming a reality, so as to ensure that her status is not shaken.
Let's talk about Li Kun again:
Rongguo Mansion is nominally the second room of Mrs. Wang. Theoretically, Mrs. Wang is in charge, who should be the grandmother in charge?
The answer is obvious, and it should be the eldest daughter-in-law, Li Kun.
But Mrs. Wang just excluded Li Kun and let her niece Sister Feng be in charge.
Wang Xifeng and Li Kun, after all, are just cousins, and there is still the possibility of mutual restraint between them.
This possibility of mutual restraint gives Li Kun room to survive.
But if Mrs. Wang's daughter-in-law is Baochai, with Mrs. Wang's selfishness and stupidity, she will definitely use Baochai to squeeze Li Kun's mother and son to the point that there are no bones left.
This is the last thing Li Kun wants to see, so it is impossible for Li Kun to like Xue Baochai.
Therefore, the man in charge of Rongguo Mansion, and the real noblewoman, except for Mrs. Wang, no one likes Xue Baochai.
So where did Xue Baochai's so-called good popularity come from?
From the little girls of Rongguo Mansion?
According to age, let's start with Jia Yingchun.
Yingchun is a simple, kind, cowardly girl, and never forms a gang.
Yingchun has a good relationship with any girl, and at the same time, no one can enter her heart.
Between Yingchun and Baochai, it can only be the so-called gentleman's friendship as light as water.
Speaking of Tanchun, Baochai is the niece of Tanchun's mother, so Tanchun needs to entertain Baochai.
But later Tanchun slowly discovered that the girl Baochai was too shrewd and sleek.
In the days when he was in charge of the house with Baochai, Tanchun will find that when he can do favors, Baochai does it himself:
Baochai smiled: "According to me, there is no need to return the account inside, there is more of this and less of that, but there are more things." It is better to ask them who will receive this portion, and he will take a matter of things.
Tanchun racked his brains to come up with a contract system, and naturally hoped that the elders and subordinates could see the credit of his hard work.
But Bao Chai snatched all the credit with a single sentence - at least on the surface, the money that the servants got was won by Bao Chai for them.
This point definitely made Tanchun dissatisfied, and he was helpless.
When the Daguanyuan embroidered spring sac incident really needed to be managed and someone to take responsibility, Baochai immediately smeared oil on the soles of his feet and slipped away.
It's no wonder that Tanchun sighed at the end:
"Exactly, there are people who are called, it is better for me to pick them up first. Relatives are good, and you don't have to live dead......"
Let's talk about the four girls cherishing spring.
Xichun, this girl is the real lonely and self-proclaimed, dustless person under her eyes.
There is an unvirtuous brother in the family, which makes the girl Xichun too precocious;
The loneliness in nature,Let Xichun not care about the friendship between the little girls.。
Even for his sister to welcome spring, explore spring, cherish spring, there is little sisterhood.
So for Xue Baochai, Xichun doesn't care much.
So where did Xue Baochai's apparent good popularity come from?
can only be like Jinyu Liangyuan, which is the result of the Xue family's own propaganda.
There is also Baochai's little fan sister, Shi Xiangyun's publicity.
It's a pity that Xiangyun is not from Rongguofu;
It's a pity that even Xiangyun, a little fan girl, finally said something like this:
Hate Sister Bao, sister every day to say that the kiss is hot, I have already said that this year's Mid-Autumn Festival wants everyone to enjoy the moon together, it is necessary to start a club, everyone joins the sentence, but today she abandoned us and went to enjoy the moon by herself. ”
The perfect Xue Baochai has always been regarded as an idol by Shi Xiangyun.
Every time she appears in the first half of the story, she will praise Baochai to the sky, and every sentence is from the bottom of her heart, without any deliberate flattery.
If you don't believe it, "These sisters, none of them are better than Sister Bao." It's a pity that we're not a mother. If I have such a sister, even if I don't have parents, there is no hindrance. ”
Once quarreled with Daiyu, and said openly: "You dare to pick on Sister Bao's shortcomings, even if you are good." I'm not as good as you, why is he not as good as you? ”
It can be seen that in Xiangyun's heart, Baochai is sacrosanct.
Even when she saw Baochai overstepping the rules and embroidering in front of Baoyu's bed while taking a nap, she hurriedly pulled Daiyu away, lest Daiyu, who was unforgiving, would talk nonsense and ruin Baochai's reputation.
Shi Xiangyun's psychological activities are clearly described in the original work," ...... suddenly remembered that Baochai had treated him kindly, so he hurriedly covered his mouth. Knowing that Lin Daiyu didn't let him, he was afraid that he would make fun of him, so he hurriedly pulled him over......"
She really wants to be a good sister with Sister Bao, praise her all the time, maintain it everywhere, and be determined to get closer to this good sister. even asked to live with her in Wuyuan, and I can't wait to stick together all the time.
Perhaps, this is related to Shi Xiangyun's life experience.
Her parents died, and she lived with her uncle and uncle, and she needed to do some needlework from time to time, and she was very tired at home. When Xue Baochai chatted with her about family life, her eyes suddenly turned red.
Xue Baochai said: "Thinking about its appearance, it is natural that children do not have the suffering of their parents since childhood. I looked at him and didn't feel sad. ”
This kind of care must have touched the softest corner of Shi Xiangyun's heart.
She has an innocent temperament and is very arrogant, but deep down, she still longs for family affection and care, and longs for a sister like Xue Baochai who knows cold and hot and cares about people.
Since there is no innate bloodline, it can be cultivated through getting along with each other.
So she supports Xue Baochai everywhere, eager to exchange sincerity for sincerity, and get a girlfriend who is not a sister but a sister.
After all, girlfriends are relatives who are not related by blood of our own choosing.
However, Xue Baochai did not give much response to Shi Xiangyun's enthusiasm.
She didn't even take Shi Xiangyun's gift too seriously.
That time, Shi Xiangyun came to see the attacker and gave her a ring. Unexpectedly, the attacker said, I already have one, and it was given to me by Miss Bao.
The red stone ring is not worth much, but Shi Xiangyun's heart is priceless.
As soon as she got the good things, she remembered the sisters in Jiafu, and first sent someone to send a batch to the sisters.
When it was time for him to come to live in the house, he wrapped four more in handkerchiefs and prepared to give them to the four maids in the house with heads and faces, including the attackers.
This plot has been watched by many readers.
Because it is quite rude to give gifts to others.
For the giver, this is blatant neglect and contempt, evidence of not being taken to heart.
Xue Baochai turned around and gave this stone pattern ring to his subordinates, and quietly borrowed flowers to offer Buddha, which not only attracted people's hearts with small favors, but also did not need to pay substantially.
Or, she didn't expect that Shi Xiangyun also specially prepared a gift for the attacker, and shook out his small movements in front of the gong.
But at that time, Shi Xiangyun didn't care.
Unlike Daiyu, she is not a sensitive girl. Baochai's behavior was not interpreted and thought by her over and over again, she only felt that this was one of the manifestations of Baochai's "generosity".
However, the two did not become good friends after all.
This point is also clearly pointed out by others, "Look at Miss Bao, how much is it deserted when you go out of a Xiangling? ”
As soon as Xiangling left, Shi Xiangyun was left alone?
But there is obviously Xue Baochai in the Wuyuan!
The meaning is deep, and the officials can chew it carefully.
It can be seen that although Shi Xiangyun lived with Xue Baochai as he wished, he did not really get close to him, and he did not become a good sister with a caring heart.
From beginning to end, it was just wishful thinking on her part.
At the moment when even Xiangyun, a little fan girl, was lost, Xue Baochai was really a "female classmate without friends" in Rongguo Mansion.
Write at the end
Grand View Garden is a veritable "daughter country".
Except for Baoyu, almost all of the gardens are young girls. They love to play, write poems, love to laugh, all of them are innocent and romantic, quite a bit of a middle school campus.
It stands to reason that Baochai, who is "only worried about everyone and missing out on what to expect", should have a group of girlfriends, talk to all the sisters, and get along with everyone like sisters.
But the opposite is true.
Xue Baochai, who is very popular, does not have a girlfriend in the real sense, and even Daiyu, who is "Jinranchi and Jinlan" with her, can only be regarded as half a good sister.
In the chapter "Golden Ranchi", Baochai ran to send warmth to Daiyu, and Daiyu was so moved that she couldn't even say the words "I am the most thoughtful person, only when you hide a traitor in your heart".
However, why does Daiyu, who "has more heart than work," feel that Baochai is "hiding a traitor"? What kind of adultery is hiding? Perhaps the key is not in "adultery," but in "hiding."
"Golden Ranchi" This time, Baochai's performance towards Daiyu can be regarded as considerate and benevolent, but after saying a car of words that concern the other party, she still covers herself tightly, and does not involve half a word in her heart--what does she think of Daiyu? There are so many bits and pieces of words on weekdays, is she a little dissatisfied? There is no love for no reason in the world, Baochai is not a saint, Daiyu is her biggest rival in marriage, why is she so affectionate and friendly to Daiyu?
Except for the time when she gave Daiyu bird's nest, Baochai rarely opened her heart to others, and rarely resonated with others, and smiled because of her common interests and three views.
It seems that he is close to everyone, but in fact he is estranged from everyone.
Xue Baochai's intimacy is treated equally, which makes people unable to detect the distance between half of the relatives.
So this good is the same, but it seems raw and polite.
Such interpersonal relationships are superficial, just a strengthened version of politeness and routines. If you look closely, there is not much sincerity to speak of.
Because Xue Baochai himself is a person wearing a mask.
A girl like Baochai, who is both talented and well-versed in the world, has a deep understanding of the weaknesses of human nature and the complexity of human feelings at a young age, can figure out every subtle fold of the human heart, and can avoid all the contradictions that may be involved, but she does not know what sex and spirit are.
Baochai's whole person is a "cold" word. I eat the "cold incense pill" that suppresses human nature, and I live in an empty and deserted house like a "snow cave".
Baochai, this girl, no matter how much you look at her in the world, talented, gentle and considerate, but you can't know what she likes and dislikes, who is close to whom and who is estranged? What are the joys and sorrows in her heart? She is like a super intelligent puppet, with all the goodness, but her heart is a bunch of circuits and pipelines, and no one can solve it.
Who wants to be close to a perfect person who has no emotions and six desires?
No matter how much praise is on the lips, the real thought in people's hearts is: only around the flawed and honest people can they feel safe, don't they?
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