There are thousands of people in the world, and the way of life is also different, some people live happily, some people are as bitter as swallowing Coptis chinensis, and some people are plain.
To be honest, everyone has their own expectations for life, they want high quality, they want to be happy, they want to live comfortably. And these need to work hard and create by themselves.
As the old saying goes: if you don't suffer from life, you have to suffer from other hardships, and only by suffering from life can you move towards happiness.
If we want to live a happy life, we need to do the following:
1. Be self-disciplined and persistent
For the arrangement of life, we often have a plan, but it is only a plan, and the fewer times we take action, the fewer people who stick to it.
For example, we often shout that we are fat and want to lose weight, and we write a plan to exercise for an hour a day, three days a week.
But when I really waited to implement it, I found that I didn't think about it at all, and found all kinds of reasons for myself not to exercise, and in the end, weight loss and exercise were just words, but nothing happened.
For a person to have success, self-discipline is indispensable, and persistence is also indispensable. You don't give, you don't persevere, you retreat when you encounter difficulties, and you always want to wait, but time waits for no one. In the end, life is still the same, or even worse.
2. Calm down your mentality and don't be so strong
We need to work hard and pay for our own happy life, but we are also a person, we need to pay for life, we need to have a plan, but we must find our own position. Don't aim too high, and don't blindly pursue a high quality of life.
First of all, we need to understand where our abilities are, what we can change, and what kind of life we can do.
Instead, blindly wanting to be a millionaire, a multi-millionaire, thinking that you are a god, you can do it just by thinking about it.
Or pin your hopes on others, as long as you don't meet your own life desires, and your life is not as you want, that is, the other party is not working hard enough and can't do it.
You can do as much as you can, as much as you can, and even a little higher is no problem, but you must not be too ambitious and not correct your mentality, which will only make life more and more tired.
3. Have a plan to do things, and you must save
Many things in life are inseparable from money, and 90% of things can basically be solved with money, which shows the importance of saving money.
Only if you have a certain amount of savings, can you not panic and have confidence in the face of things. Why do poor couples mourn everything, because life is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, human contacts, and so on.
And these are all need money, when you have it, you can say anything, when you don't have it, you will care about everything, but if you want to be happy in life, you shouldn't be too careful.
For life, we must have our own plans, learn to plan in advance, think about some things in front, set a goal, and move towards this goal.
Even if it is just a little bit of progress, the heart at this time is also sweet, and happiness is not a little sweeter and less bitter.
Write at the end
Everyone's lifestyle is different, but the happiness of life is inseparable from these three points: do things with a plan, must save, treat life with a flat mind, be self-disciplined, and persevere.
Everyone's definition of happiness is different, but we must learn to take life seriously, only if you love life, life will love you.
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