Let's take a look at a nearby example:
My little boy has always made a "mess" in his life and study. As soon as I woke up in the morning, I was anxious to find me: "Mom, where are my socks? Help me find them, I'm going to be late!" I always told him to change, but he just couldn't.
In fact, this situation occurs in many homes. Some parents think that boys are big and grinning, and it's not a big deal. But this kind of thinking is really wrong, and it is not good for the future of children.
It's important for everyone to have a plan for doing things. It is not only a habit, but also reflects a person's attitude towards doing things, and even a key to success.
The same is true for children. Doing things with a plan, they can handle things more organized and don't get in a hurry.
Think about it, if a person does things in a mess, how can he take care of his own life? If he can't even manage his own life, how can he study and work hard? Moreover, children who are not organized and have no plan will have a harder time than others on the road to success in the future. Therefore, parents really need to let their children develop a good habit of doing things in a planned way.
So, how to cultivate this habit? In fact, it is to start from an early age, so that children can learn to do things in an organized and planned way. In this way, it is really important for the boy's success.
My advice for young parents
Method 1: Teach boys to be organized from an early age
If you want a boy to be organized, you have to start from an early age. Qiuqiu, a child, used to do things without a beginning or an end, and after his mother found out, she decided to help him get rid of this habit. Every night before going to bed, Mom would ask Qiuqiu what he wanted to do tomorrow and help him make a plan. At first, Qiuqiu was not used to it, but her mother patiently guided her, and slowly, Qiuqiu began to make her own plans and became much more organized.
It's not hard to get a boy to develop this habit. Start with the little things you do, like keeping your room tidy, putting used things back in their place, and organizing your bag and clothes in advance for the evening. In this way, the boy will gradually learn to be organized. Of course, this requires the patience and perseverance of parents, and they must be good at seizing the opportunity to educate and guide.
Method 2: Once you've made a plan, the key is to execute it
Dongdong's father, Mr. Lin, is very busy at work, but he realizes that his son is not planned and decides to help him correct it. Mr. Lin helps Dongdong make a plan for the week every Sunday, but the key is to implement the plan after it is made. Dongdong used to always fail to do the plan for various reasons, and Mr. Lin told him that making a plan is to implement it, and not implementing it means not making it.
In order to better implement the plan, Mr. Lin also helped him refine and quantify the plan and check the implementation every day. There is a penalty if the plan is not completed, and a reward if it is done early. In this way, Dongdong's efficiency in doing things has been significantly improved, and he has also learned to cherish time.
In fact, learning to make and execute plans for boys not only strengthens their sense of time, tasks and responsibility, but also allows them to better organize their studies and lives. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the cultivation of this habit.
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