Seven years ago, a beautiful graduate student from Vietnam met an elderly rural guy from Yunnan, China, on the Internet. At that time, the man was unmarried and the woman was unmarried, and they began to get along as friends on the Internet.
A Rou family in Vietnam
But between men and women, there will never be pure friendship. This Chinese guy has a fierce pursuit of a Vietnamese girl. He took out all his savings to express his sincerity to his girlfriend, and flew to Vietnam with his old father to propose to his Vietnamese father-in-law.
Not surprisingly, the two got married after less than a year together. After marriage, they settled in Yiwu, China, and gave birth to a son, a daughter, and two middle-aged and old mixed-race babies. Now that many years have passed, how is the marriage of the two?
Arou and 2 children
The most popular character in this issue will take you into the love story of a Vietnamese Arou and a Chinese guy Yanzi.
Vietnamese girl Arou
In 1990, an ordinary family in rural Vietnam welcomed their third child. This is a cute-looking and intelligent little girl. Her parents named her Arou, which means that they hope that she will grow up to be a gentle girl.
She was the youngest girl in the family and had three older brothers. Arou has been loved by her family since she was a child.
Arou
Although the family is not wealthy, parents try their best to give their children the best environment to grow up.
My brothers didn't like to study, so they left home after graduating from junior high school to work in other places. Arou likes to read very much, and she can read obsessively all day with a book.
Sometimes Arou thinks: Why don't I go out to work early to reduce the burden on my parents?
But her parents insisted on saying that Arou would go up if she wanted to, and she would support her no matter what. The brothers also persuaded Arou: You are a girl, it is always good to read more books.
So that you can find a good job in the future. Unlike most Vietnamese parents, Arou's parents are reluctant to leave their daughter with just one way to get married.
In 2008, 18-year-old Arou was successfully admitted to a well-known university in Vietnam. In school, she saw a wider world.
Arou
At the suggestion of her teacher, Arou taught herself Japanese, English and Chinese. The teacher told her that only by learning the language can she have the opportunity to study abroad.
The teacher told Arou: You are very talented and study hard. If you have the chance, be sure to go abroad to see it.
Arou thought to herself: If there is such a day, I must go to China to see. Since she was a child, she had heard that things made in China were of good quality and low price. Studying business administration, she really hopes to start her own career in China.
Meet the Chinese guys
After graduating from university, she obtained a graduate degree in business administration.
Arou
This degree is simply a highly educated talent in Vietnam. With an excellent resume, Arou quickly landed a decent job in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.
But Arou, who graduated from graduate school, is already in her twenties, and there are almost no suitable people of the opposite sex around to get along with. It turns out that the average age of marriage in Vietnam is early. Many girls are married and have children before eighteen, and those who are still looking for a partner in their twenties are almost all divorced girls with babies.
Arou
In this way, the boy you find will not be a good marriage.
Arou, a young beauty with a graduate degree, couldn't find a suitable candidate for marriage in Vietnam.
Some people say that she is too demanding, and some people persuade her not to rush and wait slowly.
At this moment, a heavenly destined marriage quietly came to her side.
In 2016, Arou browsed dating information on the Internet once. A Chinese man named Yanzi came into her sights: Yanzi, born in 1986, was born in rural Yunnan.
Arou and swallow
He was 4 years older than Arou, and he was almost 30 years old at the time.
Yanzi's family is poor, and her parents depend on farming to make a living. When he was a child, his mind was not on studying, and he wondered who to go to to watch TV after school every day.
Without the support of his parents, he carried his luggage after graduating from junior high school and went to Yiwu, Zhejiang Province with his fellow villagers to work.
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This guy can't learn, but he's a good hand at dealing with people. Within a few years of coming to Yiwu, I made a few big brothers who did business. Yanzi has an honest personality and works hard, and is appreciated by his eldest brother and is willing to take him to try the perfume business together.
In this way, by doing business, Yanzi saved the first pot of gold in his life.
However, Yanzi has not been able to find a girlfriend because of her busy work. Finally, I had some money in my bag, but my age came up again.
originally thought that he would have to be single for a few years, but he didn't expect fate to come quietly.
He accidentally registered a dating profile on the site and uploaded a photo of himself in a formal attire. It looks like a successful person, but unfortunately not many girls take the initiative to leave a message to ask.
He doesn't have high requirements for his other half, as long as he is empathetic. Of course, on this basis, there must be some common topics, and they must be in line with each other.
On this day, a message popped up on his phone.
"Hello, I'm Vietnamese Arou, can I make a friend?" Swallow nodded to the first picture, a little girl with a bright smile and a young age.
The two added contact information and talked about the famous attractions in China and Vietnam from their respective fields of work.
"Then I'll go find you!" said Swallow. At this time, the two of them had only known each other for less than 2 months.
"Okay!" Ah Rou's eyes lit up when she learned the news. She's betting on whether this Chinese guy is interesting to her or not.
The two met
In late 2016, Yanzi had just met Arou, a graduate student girl from Vietnam. In just 2 months, he fell in love with this girl through the Internet.
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He chose to fly to Ho Chi Minh City to meet this girl. None of them officially said, "I love you." But they all understood each other's intentions.
When Vietnamese Arou first saw the Chinese Yunnan boy Yanzi at Ho Chi Minh Station, her heart chuckled. I didn't expect this man to really be able to ride the train alone for so long for her. As if they had known each other for many years, they naturally walked the streets of Ho Chi Minh City arm in arm.
Arou
Arou took her Chinese boyfriend back to her hometown. She wanted to introduce the boy to his parents. She hopes to have the blessing of her parents. But the Lao father-in-law is not optimistic about this relationship.
Arou
Arou's father said: "I see from the TV news that China is not safe at all. Even if you know Chinese, it's hard to find a job if you go. Why don't you take a look at it again and find a local Vietnamese person to marry? It doesn't matter if you're poor, ugly, or older.
Arou disagreed, Arou said: I want to marry a Chinese!
Arou
The Lao father-in-law couldn't help it, so he had to compromise.
After getting the approval of the old man, Yanzi did another thing. He handed over all the property he had accumulated by starting a business to Arou for safekeeping. Then he returned to China and called his old father to go to Vietnam with him to propose marriage.
Arou and swallow
At this time, the old man was already moved by the sincerity of the Chinese son-in-law: "I also specially called the elders to propose a relative, and it will not cost much more to come and go." ”
When proposing, Yanzi took the initiative to mention the bride price: Mom and Dad, you see, I need a lot of money for marrying Arou. The Vietnamese old man smiled so much that he couldn't see it: no bride price, no bride price.
In this way, a young man from Yunnan, China, married his highly educated Vietnamese daughter-in-law home with zero bride price.
Returning to your home country to live
At the end of 2016, after Arou and Yanzi got married in Vietnam, they returned to China to live together.
After holding a wedding in her hometown in Yunnan, Arou got up again and went to work in Yiwu, Zhejiang. After all, if you have a daughter-in-law, will the baby be far away? It's time to make more money and provide a better life for your family.
Arou
But he didn't worry that Arou was home alone, so he took his daughter-in-law to work outside.
From the beginning, Arou was responsible for cleaning, laundry and cooking in the rental house. But after a long time, Ah Rou felt bored: after all, she was also a graduate student from the National University of Vietnam, and now being a full-time wife is really a bit humiliating.
So she took the initiative to ask Yanzi: Can you let me also participate in the business?
Arou
Of course Yanzi is happy! I fell in love with Ah Rou because she was independent and capable, and if someone could help him do business together, then they would definitely be able to buy a house and a car earlier.
So, the two worked together to build their own small family. What makes them even happier is that in 2017, Arou gave birth to their first child, a handsome boy.
Immediately afterwards, she gave birth to a second child, a lovely little girl.
Over the years, their perfume business in Yiwu has become bigger and bigger, and Arou has also started a self-media business.
The status quo of the two
It can be said that since she met Arou, Yanzi's life has been smooth sailing, and she has opened a smooth mode. From an older single rural youth, he has become a successful person with a successful career and both children.
Arou and son
The Vietnamese father-in-law, who had always been worried about his daughter's insecurity in China, gradually let go of his prejudice against China. I hope to have the opportunity to visit China.
So in July 2023, Yanzi funded a trip to China with his Vietnamese father-in-law. Originally, when he heard that his daughter was renting a house to live in, the old father was still upset. But looking at his daughter's luxurious rental house, the old man sighed: China is so developed!
Arou
Then Yanzi took her husband to Chengdu, Sichuan to see pandas, went to Hangzhou West Lake to taste tea, and went to Beijing to visit the Forbidden City. After a set of tours, the old man no longer said that China was very dangerous.
Arou
It would be nice if I could have the opportunity to live in China permanently! Then I thought about it: As long as my daughter and son-in-law develop well, won't I have the opportunity to come and play more often in the future? The little old man hurriedly took a sip of wine.
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When the Vietnamese husband returned to China, he met his relatives and neighbors, and he always described the scene he saw in China over and over again. Of course, it is inevitable to mention China's subway and high-speed rail, which is called a speed!
When everyone dispersed, the old man was still alone on the chair and reminisced: Hey, if I hadn't insisted on Arou going to college, I would have let her find such an excellent Chinese son-in-law. It seems that in the future, we must tell future generations to learn Chinese well.
Arou in Vietnam
Not only the little old man thinks so, but even the little cousin to be married at home also thinks so. She took the initiative to call her cousin Arou: Sister, how do you say I can marry to China? I really want to marry a Chinese like you.
Arou
Ah Rou didn't know how to tell her little cousin, so she could only advise: At least you have to learn Chinese, otherwise how can you communicate with Chinese?
Arou
Today, Arou and Yanzi's family of four have settled in Yiwu, China, and are living a very happy life.
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