Hello everyone, I am Sister Dimples, a 40-year-old second-child working mother.
I saw a picture recently that really shocked my jaw.
Let's guess first, what is the relationship between the lady in the picture below and the little boy in her arms?
Some netizens may say: Do you still need to ask? The child's mother, the two are mother and son!
Ahem, if it was a mother and son, then Sister Dimple wouldn't be so boring, right?
You see this lady, wearing a pink striped top and strappy jeans. With smooth black shoulder-length hair, delicate makeup, and this high-value look, the whole person looks stylish, young, and energetic, right?
But don't sigh yet: this mom is so beautiful!
Because, people are not the child's mother at all, but the child's grandmother!
This young grandma instantly became popular on the Internet, and netizens were also shocked: This grandma is too young, right?
In fact, there are many people who still look young after becoming grandparents and grandparents.
You look at the picture below, don't look at the subtitles, just look at the looks, do you also recognize them as mother and daughter, in fact, they are children's grandmothers, only 49 years old.
There is also the one below, two braids are black and dense (which makes many young mothers ashamed), and then look at the figure of others, it is really amazing!
At the age of 52, she stood with her grandson and said that she was a mother and daughter, and there was no sense of disobedience.
The most powerful grandmother is here, she was interviewed by CCTV, and the host mistakenly thought she was the child's mother.
Come, let's guess first, how old is she?
You see she has a baby face, fleshy, red, and almost no wrinkles on her face.
Netizen Xingxing said: Younger than my 38 years old!
Hmm~ This grandmother is 58 years old!
In fact, in addition to looking young, this grandmother's physique is also very good, and the difficult movements are coming, which stunned the host and the audience!
You see, standing on a semi-circular tumbler, this grandmother is quite calm, and her balance is very good.
What are the benefits of "young" elders with babies?
With the improvement of material conditions, people's quality of life is getting higher and higher, people are not worried about food and clothing, and they are happy, which makes many people look or dress up very young.
I am especially envious of those "young" elders, especially in terms of raising babies, compared with the old elders, they are too powerful!
1. The body is healthier and more energetic
As the saying goes: there is nothing wrong with anything.
Yes, if there is an elderly person who is sick, let alone bringing you a baby, it would be good not to drag down the whole family.
And those "young" elders are generally around 40-50 years old, they are healthy, energetic, when taking the baby, go to the park, go to the playground, can keep up with the pace of the children, accompany them to play games, play in the sand are also at ease.
In addition to the hardware conditions of good health, the most important thing is that they have the spare energy and heart to accompany their children to constantly try new things.
My friend's mother-in-law not only knows how to raise children, but also how to educate them. Reading picture books to her children every day, doing puzzle games, and accompanying her children to nearby parks and playgrounds to exercise can save her a lot of worry as a mother.
2. Keep up with the development of the times and constantly update the concept of parenting
Regardless of whether they look young or dress up young, in general, they are willing to follow the trend of the times, not only in terms of dressing and dressing, but also in the concept of parenting is no longer stuck to the original old ideas, but especially willing to learn and accept new knowledge.
They will learn how to guide children correctly, how to encourage them, and how to educate children of different ages.
3. There are common topics and communication is smoother
I remember when I was in college, my roommate said that she was very willing to talk to her grandmother because she was very funny and had common topics with them.
For example, she and her cousin wore the same brand of sneakers, and when her grandmother saw it, she didn't say that the shoes were expensive, but said: We are all good friends, give me a whole pair of a certain gram to wear!
I just like old people like that.
Watching movies, drinking milk tea, chatting about TV series, any topic thrown out, she can catch it for you, not only will she not talk about it coldly, but she will also discuss some of these topics with you in depth.
We know that whether we are close to a person depends on whether we can talk together, right? After having a common language, the relationship between two people will be enhanced.
My sister-in-law is one such person.
She brought up 2 granddaughters and 1 grandson. These 3 children are very close to her, and they are willing to share any worries with her. When I was bullied at school or had someone I liked, my parents didn't say anything, but they would confide in my sister-in-law without reservation.
As for my sister-in-law, after listening patiently, she will also give constructive suggestions and help the children answer their questions.
Sometimes I silently think in my heart: when I become a grandmother or grandmother, I will also become an interesting person, an elder who is loved by children.
What about you? Are there such young "elders" around you?
(The picture comes from the Internet, and the invasion must be deleted)
Hi, I'm Sister Dimple:
A 40-year-old second-child workplace mother, a former TV media reporter, and now a university teacher. Advocate of lifelong learning, advocate raising a baby through emotional guidance, not anxious, not irritable, grow together with the baby, focus on parenting knowledge and women's personal growth sharing.
The challenge day is more than 365 days, and it takes a year to deepen the hard skill of writing.
Nice to meet you.