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Through the exchange of words, a person's character and cultivation can be roughly judged.
Telling the depressed person not to be discouraged can give him strength, and saying to the questioned person that believing in him can give him hope.
A word that is just right is sometimes worth a thousand words and can soothe people's hearts.
The better the character, the more people know how to warm people's hearts through language.
They often say the following three sentences to others, if you have such people around you, you must be close friends!
01: It's okay, take your time
This sentence seems simple, but it actually contains the attitude of a person who is willing to give time to the other person and is willing to believe in the other person.
In the fast-paced era, most people attach great importance to efficiency, and they don't even have enough time for themselves, and they don't want to share it with others and let them hold them back.
However, there will still be some people who are willing to slow down for others and give each other enough patience and tolerance.
It is precisely because of their good character that we know that it takes time and opportunities for all people to grow and progress.
It's not always smooth sailing, and we've all had moments of questioning ourselves in the face of difficulties and twists and turns.
However, at this time, we all want someone to believe in us once, to give us tolerance and understanding, so that we can have the courage to stand up to everything.
However, some people are not happy to stop their steps for others, and even step on them because of the other person's slowness to enjoy it.
Such a person would rather hurt others than lose himself.
Therefore, with a good character, you will not ignore the feelings of others in order to pursue the ultimate speed, but are willing to listen and wait.
02: Don't worry, I'll wait for you
Waiting, need to waste your own time.
However, there are still some people who are willing to wait for others and work together to forge ahead.
Such a person knows how to give respect to others and also give them the time and space to catch up.
They know how to soothe the emotions of others, so that those who are in a hurry can temporarily let go of their anxiety and feel the care and warmth from others.
In today's society, there are very few people who are willing to give patience and care to others, thinking that such people will affect their own progress, and even hope that they will disappear from their own world.
In their perception, only the stronger ones are worthy of their pursuit, and the disadvantaged groups will always be eliminated.
However, people of excellent character do not think so.
They feel that everything in the world is equal, and even if some people are physically and mentally exhausted because they can't break through their boundaries in one area, they will slow down for a while, take into account the feelings of these people, and give them respect and wait.
True respect is always about giving the other person enough patience.
A person of good character will never ignore the feelings of others because of his busyness, nor will he sacrifice the rights and interests of others because of his own interests.
03: I understand, I understand
Empathy is a delusion, but there are people who are willing to try to do it.
These people will not force others to agree with their ideas because of some kind of attachment, and they will not stand on a high ground somewhere to accuse others of not being strong or brave enough.
They don't speculate and demand from others from a single perspective, they know how to empathize and are willing to listen to others.
Anyone has troubles, and these troubles may not be insignificant in the hearts of others, but they may be gaps that we cannot bridge.
A sentence of "I understand" may not solve the problem, but it deeply warms people's hearts and makes the other party feel the deep kindness from others.
At this time, we will feel a sense of understanding and acceptance, and hope will be born from the bottom of our hearts.
It's not difficult to get along with people, as long as you give each other real respect and sincere care, this kindness will be seen and appreciated.
Of course, when we decide to be kind to others, we will not be obsessed with reciprocation, but only hope that this positive energy can infect others and pass it on.
Therefore, by associating with such people, we will not only gain deep friendship, but also purify our hearts and make our lives bloom more brightly.
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