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My name is Li Xiaolin, I am 4 years old in Chinese New Year's Eve, and I am an ordinary office worker. My husband and I have been married for eight years, and we have been living in Ming's hometown with his parents since we got married. I always felt that my mother-in-law was not kind to me, but for the sake of family harmony, I chose to tolerate it. Until one day, everything changed completely.
That day, I was busy doing housework as usual, when I suddenly heard my mother-in-law's voice coming from the kitchen: "Xiao Ming, you can taste this dish, I don't think it tastes right." "I knew in my heart that another conflict with my mother-in-law was about to begin.
Xiao Ming walked into the kitchen, his voice was a little impatient: "Mom, why are you here again?" This is made by Xiaolin, she has always had no problem cooking. ”
"Hmph, you can say, you are not at home every day, how do you know if the dishes she cooks are good?" said the mother-in-law reluctantly.
I chuckled in my heart, such quarrels were commonplace. Xiao Ming tried his best to ease the atmosphere: "Mom, don't be like this, Xiaolin has worked hard all day, don't find fault anymore." ”
"You're still talking for her! Look at her cooking, it's a mess. The mother-in-law's voice was getting higher and higher, and she was about to make a fuss.
I couldn't bear it anymore, so I went into the kitchen and said to my mother-in-law: "Mom, you are too much, I tried my best, you always pick and choose, how do you want to be satisfied?"
My mother-in-law's eyes widened, she didn't seem to expect me to resist: "You, daughter-in-law, dare to talk back to me!"
"I didn't mean to, I really tried my best. "I'm a little excited, I've been putting up with it for so many years, but I also have my own bottom line.
"Listen, my daughter-in-law is simply ignorant, and she can't do anything!"
"Mom, calm down!" Xiao Ming hurriedly came over and grabbed his mother-in-law, his voice was a little anxious, "Xiaolin, you go out quickly, I'll deal with it." ”
I looked at Xiao Ming, my heart was full of grievances and helplessness. I know that even if Xiao Ming helps me speak, my mother-in-law's attitude will not change. I turned and walked out of the kitchen, tears rolling in my eyes. I began to reflect on why I had to endure such treatment all the time? I am also a human being, and I have my own dignity and bottom line.
I wiped tears from my face, my heart still heavy. I sat on the couch in the living room and listened to the sounds in the kitchen gradually subside, knowing that this quarrel was just a minor episode in the family. My mother-in-law always expressed her dissatisfaction with me in her own way, and I always chose to tolerate it, hoping to maintain family harmony.
After a while, Xiao Ming walked out, he looked at me and said distressedly: "Xiaolin, I'm sorry, my mother is like this sometimes, she has a short temper, don't take it to heart." ”
I shook my head: "It's not your fault, I'm also responsible, I should learn to deal with this situation instead of blindly putting up with it." "I know this won't be solved overnight, but I don't want to stay silent either.
Xiao Ming held my hand: "Let's face it together, I will try my best to help you." His eyes were full of determination, and I felt a hint of warmth.
Just then, the phone rang. Xiao Ming took the phone, and his face became solemn: "What? Okay, I'll go over right away." ”
I looked at him with some concern: "What happened?"
Xiao Ming frowned and said, "Mom fainted, the doctor said that the situation is not optimistic, I have to go to the hospital to see." ”
My heart instantly tugged, and I immediately rushed to the hospital with Xiao Ming. On the way, I silently prayed that my mother-in-law would be safe.
The corridors of the hospital were full of people, and I saw Xiao Ming anxiously asking about the condition of the nurse's mother-in-law. The nurse told us with a solemn face that my mother-in-law had been admitted to the ICU and was in critical condition and needed to be treated as soon as possible.
I went into the ICU with Xiao Ming and saw my mother-in-law lying on the bed, pale and breathing weakly. My heart ached, I never thought that my mother-in-law's health problems would become so serious. At this time, I no longer think about the previous conflicts and quarrels, I just hope that my mother-in-law can get through this hurdle safely.
In the waiting room of the ICU, Xiao Ming and I anxiously waited for the latest news from the doctors. Time seems to have become incredibly long, and every second seems to torment our hearts.
Finally, the doctor walked out, his face a little solemn: "Are you a family member of the patient?"
Xiao Ming and I nodded hurriedly.
The doctor pondered for a moment and said slowly, "Your mother is in a critical condition, she suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, which caused extensive brain damage, and now she is in a coma. We are doing our best to save the day, but the situation is very unpromising. ”
Hearing the doctor's words, Xiao Ming and I both felt a huge blow. My mother-in-law suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, and such news caught us off guard.
Xiao Ming's voice trembled a little: "Doctor, is there any other treatment?" she will definitely survive, she must survive." ”
The doctor shook his head: "We have done our best, but the damage caused by the cerebral hemorrhage is very serious, and it is difficult to predict her chances of survival." ”
I held Xiao Ming's hand and silently transmitted his strength. At this moment, the only thing we can do is wait and pray.
While waiting, I kept recalling all kinds of conflicts and quarrels with my mother-in-law, and I regretted my previous willfulness and impulsiveness. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely be more tolerant and understanding, and try to get along with her.
Time passed slowly, and every minute felt like a year. Finally, the doctor came to us again.
His expression was still heavy: "Your family?"
Xiao Ming and I immediately stood up and waited anxiously for news from the doctor.
The doctor said heavily, "I'm sorry, we did our best, but your mother has ......"
When I heard this, my heart felt like I was stabbed by a sharp blade. Mother-in-law, she actually left us. I felt a great wave of sadness welling up in my heart, and tears flowed uncontrollably.
Xiao Ming was also at a loss and couldn't believe it: "Doctor, you must still have a way, there must be a way to save your life, right?"
The doctor shook his head slightly: "I'm sorry, we have tried our best, but her condition is irreparable." ”
Xiao Ming and I looked at each other, and our eyes were full of endless sadness and loss. We didn't expect that my mother-in-law would leave us under such circumstances, everything came too suddenly, too suddenly.
In the face of the doctor's words, Xiao Ming and I both felt a deep despair. Mother-in-law, our expectations and wishes for her have been shattered in this way. I couldn't help but close my eyes and try to control my emotions, but the tears still welled up.
Xiao Ming hugged me tightly, his voice trembling: "Xiaolin, what should we do? How can this be ......?"
I shook my head, my heart filled with helplessness: "I don't know, I really don't know......"
We both hugged our heads and cried, and the news of the loss of my mother-in-law was too shocking for us to accept the fact at all.
After spending a long night in the hospital, Xiao Ming and I barely closed our eyes. Whenever I close my eyes, the image of my mother-in-law leaving comes to mind, and my heart is like a knife.
The next morning, we decided to tell the rest of the family about my mother-in-law. We need to face this fact and need each other's support and comfort.
Back at home, Xiao Ming and I told my mother-in-law the news of her death. The atmosphere in the house became solemn and silent, and everyone was shocked by the sudden news.
The father-in-law silently lit a stick of incense and prayed that his mother-in-law would rest in heaven. His eyes filled with tears, but he tried to suppress his emotions and not let himself break.
The mother-in-law was sad and helpless, she held the photo and cried silently, as if recalling the bits and pieces of her mother-in-law's life.
The atmosphere in the house became heavy and oppressive, and everyone fell into their own grief. The loss of my mother-in-law made us feel extremely sad and painful, and we did not know how to deal with this sudden change.
After the departure of her mother-in-law, everything in the house became strange and silent. The quarrels and quarrels that my mother-in-law used to have become incomparably precious at this moment. I began to regret my previous willfulness and impulsiveness, and I hope to be able to start over and be more tolerant and understanding of my mother-in-law.
We cremated my mother-in-law's body and then placed her ashes in the family's ancestral grave. In the process of farewell, Xiao Ming and I silently vowed to cherish everyone in front of us and never let any quarrels and conflicts affect our relationship.
The departure of my mother-in-law has taught us a profound lesson about the importance and preciousness of family. We no longer want to be awkward because of some small things, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding, and work together to create a warm and harmonious family.
In the midst of grief and pain, we gradually come out of the haze and face the challenges of life again. The departure of my mother-in-law makes us cherish everyone in front of us even more, and we must cherish each other well and face the challenges and difficulties of the future together.
Although my mother-in-law has left us, her spirit will always be in our hearts, inspiring us to face life bravely.
In the days following my mother-in-law's death, our family slowly got used to this feeling of loss. Although my mother-in-law has an eccentric personality, her existence is part of our family, and her departure has brought us irreplaceable emptiness and regret.
The atmosphere in the house became heavy and oppressive, and everyone silently suffered the pain in their hearts. Especially the father-in-law and mother-in-law, they can't let go of the mother-in-law's departure, and often cry silently at night, which makes us feel distressed.
Xiao Ming and I strive to play the role of the pillar of the family, trying to bring warmth and comfort to the rest of the family. We often accompany my father-in-law and mother-in-law for walks, chat, and try to share their pain and loneliness.
Gradually, the atmosphere at home became warmer. Although we can't fill the void left by our mother-in-law, we are willing to fill this void with our love and care, so that the family becomes more harmonious and warm.
One day, a year after my mother-in-law's death, our family decided to go to her grave to pay our respects to her and express our thoughts and nostalgia for her. We bought some flowers and paper money and drove to the cemetery together.
In the pine forest next to the cemetery, there is solemnity and silence. We went to my mother-in-law's grave, placed flowers and paper money in front of her grave, and then knelt down together and kowtowed.
A trace of tears flashed in his father-in-law's eyes, and he said in a trembling voice: "Mom, you must be well in heaven, don't worry about us anymore." ”
The mother-in-law held the photo and cried: "Mom, I miss you so much......"
Xiao Ming and I also knelt on the ground and silently prayed to my mother-in-law. Although we are saddened by the loss of my mother-in-law, we still love her deeply and hope that she will rest in peace in heaven.
After the service, our family sat down in a quiet place in the grove next to the cemetery and began to talk about my mother-in-law's past.
My father-in-law told the story of my mother-in-law when she was young, which made our family feel very emotional. It turned out that her mother-in-law was a warm and cheerful girl when she was young, she bravely pursued her dreams and worked hard, until she met her father-in-law, she slowly let go of the obsession in her heart and lived an ordinary and happy life.
The mother-in-law also shared the moments between her and her mother-in-law, and she recalled the happy times they spent together, which made us feel the gentleness and kindness of the mother-in-law.
Xiao Ming and I also shared various memories between us and my mother-in-law, and we recalled the principles and life experiences that my mother-in-law taught us, which benefited us a lot.
In the process of chatting, we gradually let go of my mother-in-law's departure, we felt her warmth and love, and felt the power of her prayers for us in heaven.
Although my mother-in-law has left us, her spirit will always be in our hearts, inspiring us to face everything in life bravely. I believe that she in heaven will always watch over us and bless us forever.
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