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My name is Sister Liu, I am 59 years old this year, and my family lives in a small city in the south. My husband and I have always lived a simple and uneventful life, and although our marriage is not too romantic, it is full of tacit understanding and understanding.
My husband's surname is Wang, and he is a serious and down-to-earth person, he has a pair of serious eyes and can always see the essence of things. We have been married for 35 years, and we have adhered to the AA system during this time. For a lot of people, this may be an uncommon practice, but for us it is a natural thing.
I remember when we first got married, the financial situation was not very good. Wang and I are both ordinary salaried people, and we don't earn much every month. In order to live a better life, we decided to implement the AA system, which can balance the family expenses and better manage our income and expenses. At first, it may be a little uncomfortable, but gradually, we develop this habit.
In our married life, the AA system is not only an economic arrangement, but also a manifestation of mutual respect and trust between us. We have never had any conflicts or disputes over money and property, because we know very well that only by supporting and understanding each other can our marriage last.
However, everything changed after my husband's sudden illness. It was early one morning three years ago, and I woke up to find my husband unconscious, completely paralyzed. The doctor told me that he had a brain stem hemorrhage and that there was not much hope for treatment.
When I heard the news, I couldn't believe my ears. I think of the thirty-five years we've walked together, and when I think of our promises and promises, tears flow involuntarily. But I know that now is not the time to cry, I have to be strong because my husband needs me, he needs my support and love.
Since then, I have been a full-time caregiver for my husband. Every day I had to bathe him, feed him, and help him turn over and change his sheets. Sometimes he would make some muffled sounds, and I knew he was communicating with me, and although I couldn't hear them clearly, I always tried to understand.
Sometimes I feel tired and helpless, but just thinking about how good my husband used to be to me makes me feel that everything is worth it. There is no AA system between us, but I have never complained about it. I know that now it is my turn to take care of him, and it is my duty and obligation.
Even though life has become difficult and hard, I have never regretted it. I know that as long as I keep going, everything will be fine. I don't know what the future holds, but I believe that as long as we are together, we can overcome all difficulties.
After I became a full-time caregiver for my husband, our lives changed drastically. Every day is full of challenges and trials, but I never thought of giving up.
In our family, in addition to my husband and me, there is also a young grandson named Xiao Ming. Xiao Ming is my son's son, and since my son is busy with work and often works overtime, I am responsible for Xiao Ming's care most of the time. Although it is a little difficult at times, I feel that everything is worth it when I see Xiao Ming's really cute smile.
Xiao Ming and I have a special tacit understanding, we often play, learn together, and accompany each other. Sometimes, he would help me when I was taking care of my husband, although it was just a small thing, but I knew his heart, and my heart was warm.
In addition to Xiao Ming, we also have an old neighbor at home, named Aunt Zhang. My aunt Zhang lives in the same building as our family, she is a warm-hearted and kind person, and she often comes to my house to help me with some housework, or bring some fruits and snacks to visit us. Every time I see her, I feel very grateful and warm, because her help has given me a lot of support and encouragement during this difficult time.
In this environment, my relationship with my husband has become even deeper. Even though he couldn't speak, I knew he knew in his heart because whenever I was around him, he would always look at me with a smile with squinting eyes and a look full of gratitude and love.
Although our lives have become difficult, we have maintained our faith in the future. I know that as long as we are together, we can overcome all difficulties. I believe that with love, there is hope, and as long as we are connected by our hearts and hands, we can go through every hurdle in life.
As time went on, the chemistry between my husband and I grew deeper. Even though he couldn't speak, I could feel his love and gratitude for me. Sometimes, I'd tell him stories about our past, or sing some of his favorite songs, and even though he couldn't speak, I knew he could understand them, and that seemed to be the way we communicated.
While I am taking care of my husband wholeheartedly, Xiao Ming is also constantly growing. He is intelligent and a good learner, always able to grasp new knowledge and skills quickly. Once, I watched him do his homework seriously and couldn't help but sigh, "Xiao Ming, you are such a good boy." ”
Xiao Ming raised his head and said to me with a smile: "Grandma, I want to be a doctor when I grow up, so that I can help grandpa." ”
When I heard him say that, I was so moved that I almost cried. I know that although my husband can't speak, he will also feel Xiao Ming's care and love. This kind of family warmth and harmony makes me feel that no matter what difficulties we encounter, we can face them together and overcome them together.
In addition to Xiao Ming, there is also Aunt Zhang who often comes to visit us. Every time she came, she would bring some fresh fruits and snacks, and she would chat with me and share my worries and worries. Once, she said to me: "Sister Liu, you are really a good person, and I am very touched by your dedication and persistence." ”
I smiled and shook my head: "Auntie Zhang, it's not a big deal, I'm just doing what a wife and a mother should do." ”
Aunt Zhang shook her head and sighed: "Sister Liu, not everyone can do what you pay. I was very touched to see the mutual support and love of your family. ”
My heart warms and I feel very happy and satisfied to know that I have such a friend by my side. Being able to have their support and encouragement at this difficult time makes me feel that everything is worth it.
Even though life is still difficult, I still have faith in the future. I know that as long as we are together, we can overcome all difficulties. I believe that with love, there is hope, and as long as we are connected by our hearts and hands, we can go through every hurdle in life.
The days in our house were uneventful and happy. Although my husband could not speak, the tacit understanding between us allowed us to communicate with our hearts. Xiao Ming is also thriving, he is smart and clever, and he can often bring us joy and surprises.
One day, I was feeding my husband when I suddenly heard the doorbell ring. I put down the dishes and chopsticks in my hand, walked to the door, and opened it to see that it was Aunt Zhang.
"Auntie Zhang, you're here. I smiled and welcomed her in.
Aunt Zhang smiled and said, "Sister Liu, I brought you some fresh fruits today, I heard that this fruit is very good for health, you can try it." ”
I took the fruit and said gratefully, "Thank you, Auntie Zhang, you are so nice." ”
Auntie Zhang smiled and shook her head: "This is nothing, what your family needs most at this time is care and support." ”
I nodded and said with emotion, "Yes, I feel very happy to have a friend like you by my side." ”
My aunt took my hand and said gently: "Sister Liu, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must be strong, and I believe that you will be able to get through it." ”
I looked at her deeply, and my heart was filled with gratitude and emotion. I feel how blessed and blessed I am to have such a friend by my side.
In the days that followed, my husband and I continued to live busy and fulfilling lives. Although my husband's condition has not improved much, I still do my best to take care of him, hoping to bring him a little warmth and comfort. And Xiao Ming is also constantly growing, his academic performance is getting better and better, and he has become a leader in the school. Whenever I see him studying seriously, I feel very relieved and proud.
In this family, although we have encountered many difficulties and challenges, we still maintain our confidence and hope for the future. I know that as long as we are hand in hand, we can get through every difficult time in life together.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, five years have passed since her husband's illness. Although he still needs my full-time care, I have gradually adapted to this life.
One day, I was changing my husband's bed sheets, and Xiao Ming suddenly ran in and said excitedly, "Grandma, I got a perfect score in the exam!"
I put down what I was doing, turned around, and said with a smile, "Great, Xiao Ming! ”
Xiao Ming raised his chin proudly and said triumphantly: "Of course, I am grandma's good grandson." ”
I touched his head with a smile and said with emotion, "I feel very relieved to see you so good." ”
At this moment, Aunt Zhang also walked in and said with a smile: "I heard that Xiao Ming got a full score in the exam, so I specially came to bring him some rewards." ”
Xiao Ming happily accepted the gift handed by his aunt Zhang and thanked her. My heart warmed and I said with emotion, "I feel so blessed to have friends like you by my side." ”
Auntie Zhang patted me on the shoulder with a smile and said gently: "Sister Liu, your family is so strong and brave, I believe you will be able to overcome all difficulties." ”
I nodded and said with emotion: "Yes, there is love, there is hope, as long as we are connected by our hearts and hands, we can go through every hurdle in life." ”
In this warm family, we support each other, care for each other, and go through the ups and downs of life together. Despite the difficulties, we remain optimistic and believe that tomorrow will be better.
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