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My name is Lin Xue'er, and I am an ordinary rural daughter-in-law. It has been three years since I married my husband, whose surname is Liu, and he is a teacher at a local elementary school. My parents-in-law are farmers, and although the family is not wealthy, they are still passable. Although I didn't come from a big city, I have seen the world, because my parents work outside, so I have been independent since I was a child, and I know how to behave in the world. After I got married, I was also very respectful and respectful to my husband's family, getting up early every day to do farm work and housework, and wholeheartedly wanted to integrate into the family, so that my husband's parents were satisfied with me.
At first, I got along with my in-laws quite well. Although there are occasionally some small contradictions, such as cooking is not to the taste, cleaning the room is not clean enough, etc., but overall it is quite harmonious. However, this peaceful life was completely shattered in one afternoon.
It was a fine weekend, and my husband and I were working in the fields when we suddenly received a call from my father-in-law telling us to hurry home. When I got home, I saw a woman I had never seen before, she was sitting in the living room, with a noble temperament and a gorgeous dress, and at a glance I knew that she was not from this village. The father-in-law hurriedly introduced that this was his distant niece, named Liu Yaping, an executive of a large company in the city, who came back to visit her family. Hearing this, I felt a little apprehensive, because I knew that my father-in-law always had a special respect for people in the city, and he always felt that they had a sense of superiority that a rural daughter-in-law like mine did not have.
Liu Yaping looks very urban, dressed in a brand-name outfit, and looks high. As soon as she entered the door, she began to find fault everywhere, accusing the home of being too old-fashioned, and even saying that rural people like us are dirt buns and don't know anything about elegant life. When I heard these words, I felt very uncomfortable, but for the sake of family harmony, I endured it.
However, as time passed, Liu Yaping's true colors were gradually revealed. She didn't come to visit her family, but to plan for her father-in-law's pension. It turned out that although the father-in-law and in-laws were still healthy, they were old and had reached the age where they needed to be taken care of. Liu Yaping came back this time to bring them to the city and let them enjoy the city's life and medical resources.
When I heard about this plan, I was a little apprehensive. Although I know that my in-laws are old and need to be cared for, the cost of living in the city is too high for rural families like us to afford. Moreover, although my husband and I both have jobs, our income is only average, and we can't support such a burden at all. I couldn't help but say, "Sister, life in the city is indeed good, but the cost is also very high, and we may not be able to afford our current income." Moreover, my parents-in-law have lived here for many years, and if they suddenly move to the city, they may not be able to adapt to it. ”
Liu Yaping listened to my words, a trace of disdain flashed in her eyes, and she sneered: "You, a poor countrywoman, know how to talk about things with money." I'm telling you, I'm in charge of this, and you just have to listen to me. ”
When I heard her say this, my heart was even more uneasy. I know that life in the city is good, but our current conditions simply cannot afford such a change. What's more, Liu Yaping's high-minded attitude makes me feel a lot of pressure. But I also know that this is a problem that I must face when I marry into this family, and I must find a way to solve this contradiction so that everyone in my family can be satisfied.
After Liu Yaping heard my words, she pursed her lips disdainfully and sneered: "A poor country woman like you know how to talk about things with money. I'm telling you, I'm in charge of this, and you just have to listen to me. ”
I felt aggrieved and helpless in my heart, but in the face of this lofty attitude, I could only force a smile and say: "Sister, although our conditions are limited, we also sincerely want to help my parents-in-law." If there's anything we need to do, just ask, and we'll do our best to cooperate. ”
When Liu Yaping heard my cooperation, she slightly restrained her disdainful expression, nodded, and said, "Okay, since you all said so, then I will make a plan for you." ”
She began to pull out her notebook and draw a detailed plan on it. She said that she wanted us to send a certain percentage of money to my parents-in-law every month, and she would arrange shelter and medical care for them in the city. Hearing this, I was still a little worried, but I also felt that this was a temporary solution, after all, we can't afford to take them to the city right now.
A few days later, Ms. Liu began implementing her plan. She would call us on time every month and ask us to send her the money, and then she would take care of the life and medical issues of her in-laws on her behalf. At first, everything went well, and the parents-in-law were also satisfied with Liu Yaping's arrangement. However, over time, the problem also gradually became apparent.
The first is that Liu Yaping is putting more and more pressure on us. Every time she called to collect the money, her tone became tougher and even more aggressive. My husband and I work hard, but our income is limited, and sometimes it is difficult. But Liu Yaping seems to be merciless about these, urging me harshly every time, which makes me feel very pressured.
The second is that the life of the in-laws has gradually become unsatisfactory. Although Liu Yaping arranged good accommodation and medical security for them in the city, they were never comfortable with city life. My father-in-law often complained that he was bored in the city and missed the busy life in the fields and farming, while his parents-in-law were always worried about our financial burden and often called us to say that they wanted to come back.
My husband and I also had a headache about it. We know that my parents-in-law are not living well in the city, but we are also worried that they will not have access to good medical care in the countryside. Ms. Liu's plan seems to have solved a problem, but it has caused more trouble. I began to realize that this issue was not simply a matter of money, but of the lives and emotions of family members.
At this moment, an accident completely shattered this apparent calm.
That night, my husband and I were watching TV in the living room when we suddenly received a phone call. The anxious voice of my in-laws came from the other end of the phone, saying that my father-in-law was not feeling well, so let's hurry up and take a look. We hurried to my parents-in-law's residence in the city and found my father-in-law pale and panting on the bed, apparently in a state of physical condition.
My husband and I were so anxious that we immediately called Liu Yaping, hoping that she could help contact the hospital. But the voice on the other end of the phone was indifferent: "This is your family's problem, you can solve it yourself." ”
Hearing such an answer, I felt a pang of despair. We rushed my father-in-law to a nearby hospital, where he was found to have had a heart attack and needed to be hospitalized. My husband and I managed to raise some of the money, but the medical expenses were still a huge burden. Faced with this sudden predicament, I felt powerless and could only silently pray for my father-in-law to recover soon.
My father-in-law's heart attack left the whole family in a heavy predicament. We raised some of the money to pay for the medical bills, but still had a large debt. My in-laws were in the hospital to take care of my father-in-law, while my husband and I were anxiously thinking of ways to find a way at home.
At this time, Liu Yaping suddenly appeared at our doorstep. With a disdainful smile on her face, she said, "Looks like you still need my help." ”
I felt both happy and helpless, so I had to say tactfully, "Yes, I did encounter some difficulties this time." I don't know if my sister has any good solutions. ”
Liu Yaping laughed and said, "Of course I have! However, I need you to promise me one condition." ”
I was a little confused, but I still asked, "What conditions?"
A sly glint flashed in Liu Yaping's eyes, and she said, "I heard that your family has some land, and if you are willing to sell the land to me, I can help you pay off the debt this time." ”
Hearing her proposal, my husband and I glanced at each other, and we both hesitated. Land is one of the most important assets for rural families like us, and selling it means losing a stable source of income. But right now, there is a real need for money, and we can't find any other way to raise money.
I pondered for a moment, and finally decided, "Sister, we are willing to sell the land to you, but we hope you can give you a reasonable price." ”
Liu Yaping laughed and said, "Don't worry, I will give you a fair price." ”
So, we reached an agreement with Liu Yaping and sold the land to her to pay for her father-in-law's medical expenses and debts. Liu Yaping also fulfilled her promise and gave us a relatively reasonable price, which made my husband and I feel relieved.
However, it didn't end there. After Liu Yaping got the land, she began large-scale development and construction. She developed the land into a high-end villa complex, and built a commercial center and entertainment facilities around it. Soon after, the area became a bustling area of the city, and Liu Yaping became one of the richest people in the area.
And we, although we paid for my father-in-law's medical expenses and debts, lost our most important source of income. Life at home has become difficult, and my husband and I have to work harder to get through it.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, a few years have passed. After treatment, my father-in-law gradually recovered, and my mother-in-law adapted to life in the city. But the family's situation did not improve, but became more difficult because of the loss of financial support from the land.
At this moment, an unexpected news came that Liu Yaping was arrested by the police on suspicion of corruption and bribery. Her real estate project was also halted due to irregularities, which became a huge negative news in the local area. Hearing this news, although I was a little worried in my heart, it was more about her previous dissatisfaction and resentment.
All of this made me reflect on the past. I learned that wealth is not everything, and that family unity and happiness are the most important things. Although my husband and I have lost our land, we cherish everything we have even more. We work hard, we are thrifty, and although we are still not rich, we are full of warmth and happiness.
Perhaps, this is a lesson that fate has taught us. In a materialistic society, cherishing what you have in front of you is the most important thing. My husband and I decided to stop pursuing vanity and short-term wealth, but to pay more attention to the harmony and happiness of the family. This experience has made us more aware of the value of family.
Time flies, and we gradually adapt to the new way of life. Although we lost our land, my husband and I cherish the happiness in front of us even more. We work hard, we are thrifty, and although we are still not rich, we are full of warmth and happiness.
One day, my husband and I were talking at home about our previous experiences. I said, "Do you remember that time when my father-in-law had a heart attack, and we had to sell the land to Liu Yaping in order to pay for medical expenses and debts?"
My husband nodded and said, "Remember, it was really a lot of trouble during that time, but fortunately, I finally got through it." ”
I smiled and said, "yes, although we lost our fields, we got out of this situation in the end." Moreover, our current life is simple, but full of happiness. ”
My husband said with deep feeling: "Yes, although some things seem difficult, as long as we work together, we can always get through them." ”
We continue to talk about the importance of family and the true meaning of happiness. Just then, the phone rang suddenly. I picked up the phone and found out that it was my father-in-law calling. He said in a somewhat excited voice: "Children, your mother-in-law and I have decided, we want to go back to the countryside and live with you. ”
My husband and I were both surprised and delighted when we heard the news. I said, "Father-in-law, this is great! We have always missed you, welcome back!"
My father-in-law smiled and said, "Yes, although life in the city is good, it feels more intimate to go back to the countryside." We want to live with you and enjoy a plain and happy life. ”
My husband and I happily agreed to my father-in-law's request and prepared everything to welcome them back. Soon after, my father-in-law and in-laws returned to the countryside, and our family was reunited, and life was full of laughter and warmth.
In the process, I also have a deeper understanding of family. The family does not lie in material abundance, but in the love and support between members. We lost our land, but we reaped a more united and happy family. My husband and I decided that no matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, we will unite and face them together, because the power of family is infinite.
My husband and in-laws and I were reunited, and life gradually returned to its former peace and happiness. Although my parents-in-law are old, they are living a very nourishing life under our care.
One day, my husband and I were busy in the yard, packing up the crops. The parents-in-law sat next to them, basking in the sun leisurely and occasionally chatting about the trivial matters of the village.
My father-in-law suddenly said: "Xue'er, although we have lived comfortably in the city in the past few years, we always feel that something is missing, and it is not as comfortable as the time in the countryside." ”
I smiled and said, "Father-in-law, life in the countryside is indeed simple and beautiful, the air is fresh, and life is peaceful. ”
The in-laws continued: "Yes, when we came back, we felt that life in the countryside was the real happiness. The city, although bustling, is always rushed and tense. ”
My husband also chimed in: "Yes, in the past few years, Xue'er and I have felt the same way, life in the countryside is really reassuring." ”
My father-in-law smiled and said, "Then we have decided, we will live in the countryside in the future and enjoy a plain and happy life." ”
When my husband and I heard about this decision, our hearts were full of happiness and emotion. We all feel that family reunion is the most important thing, and no matter where we live, as long as we are together, it is the happiest thing.
Since then, we have lived together as a family in the countryside. The parents-in-law also gradually adapted to the life in the countryside, and lived a leisurely and nourishing life every day. We farmed and raised animals together, and occasionally held family gatherings to share our joys and sorrows.
Time passes, and the years are quiet. Although we do not have the prosperity and luxury of the city, we have the warmth and happiness of family. Every morning, the sun shines in the yard, the birds sing and the flowers are fragrant, and the family sits around to eat breakfast and share the bits and pieces of life, this simple and happy scene has become the best memory in my heart.
Looking back on that experience now, I feel blessed and satisfied. Although we have experienced many difficulties and setbacks, in the end we have all come out of the haze and ushered in a happy and beautiful life. Family unity and love are the most precious treasures, and I am willing to protect this happiness forever.
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