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No, there is a fellow countryman's son who fell in love with Zhang Xiaoman, and asked someone to be a matchmaker to come to Zhang's house to propose marriage. When the Zhang family heard about this family business, they were overjoyed. It's just that there are differences between the in-laws and the Zhang family on some old customs and etiquette, so there are some gaps.
Zhang's mother said: "We are honest people, and we don't pay attention to those stereotypes. As long as you give enough bride price to your daughter, we don't care about the rest. "
The matchmaker waved his hand and said: "Our township has been this rule since ancient times, and you can't deviate too much." "
When Zhang's father heard this, he was also interested: "That's the rule in your township, and we have our own customs." If you want to marry my daughter, you have to respect us, right?"
The matchmaker of the in-laws frowned: "You guys are a little too much." We can respect your rules, how can you be so dirty, are you trying to blackmail us?"
As soon as the conversation turned, the two sides were tense. Zhang's mother began to scold: "You poor and sour Adou still want to take advantage of us! Our daughter is the treasure you can't ask for!"
The matchmaker of the in-laws didn't bother to be polite: "Phew! You are just some poor and sour people, and you still open your mouth! My son is not worthy of your daughter!"
The dispute between the two sides was out of control. Uncle Zhang watched from the sidelines and sighed. He secretly slandered himself: You are buying and selling your daughter as a commodity! But when you think about it, they are also out of good intentions. When men and women are married, the family background is naturally necessary to inquire clearly. It's just that the two families are too serious, and they have to worry about these subsections, which makes them a little petty.
Just when the two sides were tense, Zhang Xiaoman came back from outside. She was startled when she saw the mess in the room, and hurriedly stepped forward to ask. Uncle Zhang told her what happened.
Zhang Xiaoman's face changed greatly, and he shook his head again and again, looking at the helplessness and sadness on everyone's faces. She stepped forward and reprimanded everyone: "Why do you bother? The marriage event should be the newlywed's own business, so why bother so much?"
Everyone listened to Zhang Xiaoman's words and was a little ashamed. Zhang Xiaoman continued: "Marriage is a matter of two people, and it should not be decided by parents. We should choose according to our own wishes and not be bound by old habits. "
Zhang's mother was a little unconvinced: "But daughter, our customs are like this, you can't be completely disrespectful, right?
Zhang Xiaoman smiled and said, "Mom, don't worry." I will communicate well with him, and as long as we respect each other, we will definitely be able to get along. She turned to her matchmaker, "Uncle, you don't have to stick too much to the bad habits in the township. Times are advancing, and we should keep up with the times, keep the good traditions, and get rid of the old. "
The matchmaker nodded, and his expression softened a little. Zhang Xiaoman continued: "The foundation of marriage is mutual understanding and tolerance, rather than blindly insisting on one's own opinions. I believe that as long as we communicate with our hearts, we will be able to find the best of both worlds. "
Zhang's father was persuaded by his daughter's words and nodded yes. The matchmaker also smiled and said, "Xiao Man is very reasonable. Since the newcomers are so insightful, we, as elders, should naturally give support and blessings. "
In this way, under the mediation of Zhang Xiaoman, the dispute between the two sides finally showed signs of easing.
Zhang Xiaoman said happily: "Look, as long as everyone has a tolerant heart, we will definitely be able to find the best solution." Marriage is a matter of two people, but it also requires the understanding and support of both families. I believe that with your blessings, I will be able to live a happy and fulfilling life. "
Zhang's father and mother were extremely relieved to see their daughter so virtuous and refreshed. They said to their in-laws, "We are already content to have such a good daughter." As long as she is happy and healthy in the future, we will have no regrets. "
The matchmaker smiled and said, "Your daughter is indeed very knowledgeable, and we are also very relieved to hand over our son to her." We are like a family, we will have a grand and traditional wedding. "
Everyone, you and I say a word, and the atmosphere is harmonious and warm. Uncle Zhang looked at this joyful scene, and his heart was extremely gratified. He secretly thought that although marriage is important, the most important thing is that both parties can understand and tolerate each other. As long as we have this sincere heart, we will be able to resolve differences and create a better future together.
In this way, with the joint efforts of everyone, Zhang Xiaoman's marriage is gradually getting better. The consensus reached by the two sides not only resolved the previous estrangement, but also made the relationship between the two families more intimate.
The wedding date was set for three months later. In order to prepare for this grand wedding, the two families can be said to be very busy.
The Zhang family and their in-laws have to meet every few days to carefully discuss every detail. From the tailoring of the wedding dress to the choice of dishes, from the amount of the bride price to the line of the dowry, everything is carefully scrutinized.
Sometimes there will be some small disagreements, but everyone is tolerant and can quickly reach an agreement through friendly communication. Zhang Xiaoman, as a party, tried his best to coordinate and ensure that everything was in order.
"The embroidery on this dress is so simple that we need to add some colored threads. Mother Zhang took a closer look at the wedding dress.
The matchmaker smiled and said: "The custom in our hometown is that the simpler the embroidery on the wedding dress, the better, representing the purity of the newlyweds." But since you're from the city, let's do what you want. "
Zhang Xiaoman nodded again and again: "Mom is very reasonable, our wedding dress should indeed be embroidered with more flowers to be more joyful." "
In this way, the people at the table said a word, and soon reached a consensus on the embroidery of the wedding dress.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, it is Zhang Xiaoman's big day. On this day, relatives and friends of the Zhang family and their in-laws came to witness the couple's tie together.
The wedding is naturally held in accordance with the method agreed by both parties, combining Chinese and Western styles, which has the charm of traditional customs and the atmosphere of the times. The scene was full of friends and lively.
According to custom, the groom's official must personally go to Zhang's house to "catch relatives". I saw him holding a big red bouquet in his hand and greeting him with a smile on his face. Zhang Xiaoman was dressed up brightly and movingly, and what rippled on her face was joy and happiness.
"The groom is majestic and majestic, and the bride is beautiful and moving!" Friends and family clapped their hands and laughed.
This was followed by a link where the newlyweds knelt down to worship their parents, and the scene was solemn. Zhang's father and mother hugged their daughter tightly, their eyes slightly moist. The family also gave sincere blessings to the newlyweds.
After three rounds of drinking, the guests were infected by this festive atmosphere and came forward to congratulate the newlyweds on their happy marriage. Some laughed, others burst into tears. Everyone's laughter and joy came and went in the banquet hall, filled with a strong festive atmosphere.
Uncle Zhang looked at this happy scene, and his heart was extremely gratified. He remembered the previous quarrel and just sighed. Now it seems that those disputes are no longer important, but the important thing is that the two families finally reached a consensus with an inclusive mentality, creating a happy start for the couple.
Watching his daughter marry into the cave house amid the noise of gongs and drums and fluttering colorful flags, Zhang's father and mother had mixed feelings in their hearts. They recalled the bits and pieces of the past, and they couldn't help but burst into tears.
It was a cold winter many years ago, and Zhang Xiaoman was born in a shabby small family. At that time, Zhang's father was just an ordinary worker, and Zhang's mother was doing housework at home, and her life was poor but not poor.
Xiao Man has been a smart and clever child since he was a child, which makes his parents feel very gratified. They did their best to create a good environment for her to grow up under limited conditions.
"Manman, although Mom and Dad don't have much money, they will do their best to let you have a good future in the future. Zhang's mother often admonished her daughter like this. Xiao Man nodded, his eyes innocent and firm.
In this way, Xiaoman gradually grew up under the careful care of his parents. She lived up to expectations and was admitted to a major university, with a bright future.
"Manman, you have been the pride of your parents since you were a child. Now you're finally an adult and ready to start your own life. "
"In the past, we were always worried about working hard, and we wanted to give you all the good things in the world. But now that I think about it, those disputes were superfluous. "
"You already have a life of your own, someone who loves you. As parents, the only thing we have to do is to give you our most sincere wishes. "
Mother Zhang took the wine glass, her eyes were slightly red: "Yes, Manman, you must be happy! No matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, you must face them bravely and never give up." With someone who loves you by your side, you're not fighting alone. "
The family members also raised their glasses one after another, wishing the newlyweds to grow old together and fall in love forever. Everyone either burst into tears or laughed loudly, sending their best wishes to the couple.
Zhang Xiaoman bowed deeply, and his eyes moistened: "Thank you parents, thank you parents, and every relative and friend here." With your blessings, I will definitely strive to create a happy and fulfilling life. "
The groom also hugged his wife affectionately and whispered in her ear: "We will definitely be happy, and after today, we will have a more brilliant tomorrow." "
Uncle Zhang looked at this lively scene and was extremely relieved. He remembered the disputes in the past, and he just felt how petty he was. Now it seems that those quarrels are not worth it. Importantly, the two families eventually came to a consensus with an inclusive mindset that created a great start for the couple.
He believes that with the blessing of relatives and friends, and with the understanding and support of both families, Zhang Xiaoman and her husband will be able to support each other and work together to create a happy family. Although marriage is only the beginning of love, it is the most important starting point in life. With this good start, we will be able to move towards a brighter future together.