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Zhang Wei and Li Na are an ordinary young couple who met and fell in love in Beijing, and both found their dream jobs after graduating from university. Zhang Wei comes from a traditional northern family and has been taught since he was a child to continue the incense and pass on the family lineage. Li Na, on the other hand, grew up in an open southern family, where her parents never imposed any traditional ideas, only hoping that she could live the life she longed for.
In the first few years of marriage, Zhang Wei did not deliberately mention fertility issues, and the two lived a 9-to-5 urban life, occasionally traveling to relax. However, as he grew older, Zhang Wei's parents began to frequently suggest that their son should have a child and carry on the lineage. As an only child, Zhang Wei felt unprecedented pressure.
"Nana, shouldn't we think about having a baby?" Zhang Wei plucked up the courage to ask one day.
Li Na is focusing on her work, she is a senior designer at a well-known company, and her career is thriving. She glanced at Zhang Wei in surprise: "We are still too young now, let's wait for me to work for a few more years and make my career bigger." "
Zhang Wei sighed, he knew that his wife was full of enthusiasm for her career, but the traditional concept in his heart made it difficult for him to let go of the desire to continue the incense.
Since then, Zhang Wei has spared no effort to persuade Li Na to have children. At first, he enlightened in a gentle way, hoping that his wife would understand his thoughts.
"Nana, we've been married for several years and it's time to have a baby. Zhang Wei said, "You see, our friends are all pregnant or have children. "
"But my career is on the rise now, can I wait a few more years?" Li Na frowned, "And we're still young, it's completely too late." "
Seeing that soft grinding and hard bubbles did not work, Zhang Wei began to take tougher measures. He invited his parents to do the ideological work, restricted Li Na's social activities, and even hinted that if she did not have children, their marriage would be rifted.
Faced with her husband's pressure, Li Na felt unprecedented pressure and anxiety. She loves Zhang Wei deeply, but she also longs to be able to realize her life ideals. The tearing of inner contradictions made her thinner and thinner, and she couldn't sleep at night.
"Viagra, are you going too far?" Once, Li Na's best friend Xiaohong couldn't stand it, "Nana is so good, you should support her career development, instead of always forcing her to have children." "
Zhang Wei shook his head stubbornly: "You don't understand, I'm for our future good." When she has a child, Nana will naturally put down her work. "
Xiaohong looked at Li Na helplessly, only to see that her eyes were gloomy, as if all her vitality had been taken away. In this way, a war on fertility began.
In order to maintain family harmony, Li Na reluctantly agreed to Zhang Wei's request. However, the pregnancy process was a huge test for her both physically and mentally. Due to the pressure of work, she often stays up late and works overtime, and her diet is also irregular. In the early stages of pregnancy, she often vomited and diarrhea due to overreactions, and her body deteriorated.
"Nana, you have to rest well and don't work too hard. Zhang Wei was very distressed when he saw this, but he couldn't hide a trace of pride in his tone.
Li Na nodded, but secretly swore in her heart that this was definitely her last pregnancy. She would rather divorce Zhang Wei than endure this torture again.
In this way, Li Na was pregnant for ten months and finally gave birth to a healthy boy. Watching the baby grow up, her motherly love makes her forget the pain of the past for a while. However, the good times did not last long, and Zhang Wei's parents soon began to urge them to have a second child.
"It's not okay for this one child in your family, if something happens in the future, the incense will be broken. Zhang Wei's father said.
Zhang Wei listened to his father's words and began to put pressure on Li Na again. The endless quarrels and conflicts made the relationship between the two almost break up. Once, Li Na couldn't stand Zhang Wei's persecution and took out the divorce agreement in front of him.
"Nana, don't be confused! We have children, why do you still want to divorce?" Zhang Wei was startled and hurriedly coaxed her.
"You forced me!" Li Na's eyes were red and angry, "I don't want to have any more children, if you force me again, let's divorce!"
In the face of his wife's tough attitude, Zhang Wei had nothing to do. He had to give up for the time being, but he secretly decided that one day he would let Li Na agree to his request.
The marital conflict became more and more acute, and finally Li Na made up her mind to divorce Zhang Wei. She began to secretly collect evidence that Zhang Wei forced her to give birth, preparing to accuse him of unreasonable behavior in court.
"Nana, are you really going to do this?" After Zhang Wei knew his wife's determination, he looked a little helpless, "Can we have a good talk again? Maybe I did go a little too far." "
"There's nothing more to talk about!" Li Na said categorically, "You don't respect my life pursuit at all, I've had enough of your torture!"
The two parties could not reach a settlement and had to go to legal proceedings. During the trial, Li Na produced audio evidence of Zhang Wei forcing her to give birth, accusing him of seriously harming her physical and mental health. After listening to the statements of the two, the judge finally ruled that the two were divorced and required Zhang Wei to pay a high amount of alimony every month.
Li Na, who finally regained her freedom, seemed to have been freed from prison. She focused on her career and soon took power in the company, and her quality of life grew. Occasionally, when she thinks about the past, she only feels that she was too naïve and blind to marry such a traditional and stubborn man.
And Zhang Wei is becoming more and more decadent. He lost his wife and children, and his career collapsed. Sometimes lying in bed, he would hate his stubbornness and complacency, but he could not do anything about it. Until one day, he suddenly realized that if he continued like this, he would have nothing.
In painful reflection, Zhang Wei finally realized his mistake. He began to reflect on all the harm he had done to his wife, and how ridiculous and selfish his obsession with continuing the incense was. Li Na is far more important to him than the issue of fertility.
After thinking about it for a long time, Zhang Wei made up his mind that he would sincerely apologize to Li Na and seek her forgiveness again. He understands that the road will not be easy, but he is willing to pay any price.
One sunny day, Zhang Wei came to Li Na's company with a bouquet of flowers. After not seeing him for a long time, Li Na's radiant appearance and outstanding temperament made him deeply attracted.
"Nana, I'm here to apologize to you. Zhang Wei plucked up the courage to say, "I was too stubborn in the past and caused you a lot of damage, and I sincerely feel sorry." "
Li Na looked at him in surprise, but she didn't expect Zhang Wei to take the initiative to come to the door.
"I know I've lost your trust, but I still hope to give me another chance. Zhang Wei continued, "As long as you are willing to forgive me, I will not hesitate to pay any price." "
In this way, Zhang Wei began to pursue Li Na again. He learned to respect his wife, support her career, and be considerate in life. Gradually, Li Na was also moved by his sincerity, and the two regained the sweet time of the year.
This experience deeply touched Zhang Wei, and he began to reflect on the obstacles of traditional ideas to personal development. In the past, he was so stubborn and paranoid that he did not hesitate to hurt his wife in order to continue the incense. In fact, whether born or not, children should not become a shackle to the relationship between husband and wife.
"Nana, I finally understand now. Zhang Wei once said to Li Na, "The most important thing in marriage is mutual respect and tolerance, not procreation." We need to work hard for each other's pursuits, not drag each other down. "
Li Na nodded and smiled slightly. She was glad to see Zhang Wei's transformation, which was exactly what she longed for most back then.
So, Zhang Wei and Li Na made up their minds to pour more love into their new relationship. They will work hard for each other's ideals, and they will also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Only on the basis of sincere love can their marriage be happy for a long time.
After a long time of communication and getting along, Li Na finally decided to forgive Zhang Wei and start a new married life. She saw Zhang Wei's change and sincerity, and believed that he had completely abandoned the foolish ideas of the past.
"Viagra, I forgive you. Li Na said on a date, "Let's start over and let the pain of the past go away with the wind." "
Zhang Wei hugged his wife excitedly and kissed her deeply on the forehead. He swore that this time he would cherish the happiness in front of him and never let Li Na be hurt again.
In this way, Zhang Wei and Li Na entered a new stage of life. They support each other, love each other, and have fruitful work and life. Sometimes Zhang Wei would joke: "Do you want to have another child?" But Li Na would always glare at him fiercely.
However, both of them knew that it was just a harmless joke. They are no longer bound by traditional ideas, but live in the moment and enjoy a free life.
The future is still long, as long as they hold hands and shoulder to shoulder, they will be able to work together towards a better tomorrow.
A cold winter day a few years later, Zhang Wei and Li Na sat in the warmth of their home, looking back on their tortuous life journey. The flames in the fireplace danced, reflecting the silhouettes of the two on the wall, shining brightly.
Li Na nodded, and a look of nostalgia appeared on her face: "Yes, I was really mad at you at that time." However, it was that quarrel that made me realize that there were too many differences and estrangements between us. "
"yes, if it weren't for what happened later, I might have been living in my own world and couldn't see your needs clearly. Zhang Wei said self-deprecatingly, "Fortunately, in the end, we all understood and learned to understand and respect each other." "
Li Na gently held her husband's hand and interlocked her fingers: "It's okay, let it pass." The most important thing now is that we have found the right way to get along. "
Yes, after a long run-in process, they finally learned to treat each other in an equal, tolerant and understanding way. Zhang Wei no longer rests on his laurels, but fully respects Li Na's professional pursuits; Li Na also learned to take care of her family outside of work, and the two of them reached unprecedented harmony in their lives.
"If we had more communication and understanding, we wouldn't have taken so many detours. Zhang Wei sighed.
Li Na smiled and kissed him on the cheek: "It's okay, haven't we found the right path now? Everything in the past is a process that makes us cherish the happiness in front of us even more." "
Yes, they have everything now: a successful career, a happy relationship, and a prosperous life. Zhang Wei is glad to see that his wife has achieved remarkable achievements in her career, and her designs have won many awards and are well-known in the industry. And he himself has done a good job in the company and won the appreciation of his superiors.
In the dead of night, Zhang Wei would thank God for bringing him and Li Na back together. If they had separated in the first place, he would have lost this amazing woman forever. And Li Na often silently said in her heart that if she insisted on divorce back then, she would miss the opportunity to rebuild her old friendship with Zhang Wei, so that she would never be able to experience such a sweet love.
Now, they have learned to treat each other with a tolerant and tolerant attitude, and even if there are occasional small stumbles, they can always be resolved quickly. After all, they've been through so much that they've learned what true cherishing is.
At this moment, thin snowflakes drifted outside the window, decorating the street with pure and flawless colors. Zhang Wei looked around, looking at the warm home, and an unprecedented sense of happiness arose in his heart. Yes, this is what the family he longed for the most back then, but at that time he couldn't see the essence clearly and was blinded by superficial concepts.
"Nana, I love you. Zhang Wei said affectionately, "No matter what happens in the future, I will always support you and love you." "
Li Na's eyes flashed with tears of happiness, nodded, and kissed her husband's lips deeply.
Yes, after so many twists and turns, they finally found the key to happiness. There is still a long way to go, but as long as there is the company of the other party, any difficulties will no longer be difficulties. Because they have long learned to heal all wounds with love and embrace every bit of this world.