Wang Po came to Jiangxi from Kaifeng, and heard about the sky-high bride price before she came, so she observed the local social phenomenon, and she had a deeper understanding of the relationship between the high bride price and the divorce rate. She saw that the bride price custom here was like a huge whirlpool, involving everyone, man and woman, married and unmarried. The bride price is as high as 380,000, which is undoubtedly a huge expense for many families.
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However, people don't seem to care about this, they are more concerned about whether they can show their financial strength through the bride price, and whether they can ensure the stability of their marriage through the bride price. However, Wang Po found that this seemingly stable marriage actually hides a huge crisis. The soaring divorce rate made Wang Po wonder if there was a deeper reason behind this.
She found that many people often lack true understanding and respect when faced with marital problems, and they simply see marriage as a transaction, one that can be measured by the bride price. This mentality undoubtedly exacerbates the fragility of marriage, making divorce a common phenomenon. What surprised Wang Po even more was that many divorced ladies walked on the blind date stage again after a short break.
They don't seem to care about past failures, but instead see divorce as a kind of capital to raise the price of their bride price. Men also need to pay a high bride price again when facing the problem of remarriage. This phenomenon undoubtedly exacerbates the utilitarian nature of marriage and makes people ignore the essence of marriage even more. Wang Po saw that this vicious circle between high bride price and divorce rate has penetrated into people's daily life.
She couldn't help but lament that if people could change this mindset and see marriage as a real emotional exchange, rather than a transaction, then perhaps the divorce rate would be effectively controlled. However, changing this mindset is not easy to say. It requires people to reflect from the depths of their hearts and re-understand the value and meaning of marriage.
It's a long and difficult process, but it's the only way to really solve the problem of high divorce rates. Wang Po's experience of traveling in Jiangxi gave her a deeper understanding of marriage. She hopes that through her observation and thinking, more people can pay attention to marriage issues, and more people realize that marriage is not a transaction, but an emotional relationship that needs to be managed with heart. Only in this way can we avoid the misunderstanding of marriage and find the happiness that truly belongs to us.
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