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Let's take a look at the distress of netizens first:
The parents bought a car for his younger brother to buy a house for decoration, and prepared a bride price for him, but my grandfather gave him 60,000 yuan, only gave me 10,000 yuan, and the air conditioner installed in my hometown was more than 3,000 yuan, and my grandfather wanted to move it to my younger brother.
They often say that I am sensible and win glory for them. I've been wanting to buy a car since last year, but I've been rejected because they want to wait for me to get married, and pay some money plus my savings to buy a car as my dowry.
It's not that I can't afford it, I can buy it in full at the end of the year, and I always hope that my parents will help me, and I feel a little chilled when I learn about their plans.
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Everyone says that families with children and daughters are really good, but as everyone knows, many sisters or sisters in families are heartbroken by this special treatment from their parents.
Netizen 1:
There are no shares in several houses in the family, there is no dowry for marriage, and the bride price has to be given to a part of the family.
My younger brother has two suites, and the family helps him marry a wife and have children, without regrets, just for the future pension.
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Netizen 2:
I have an older brother who is an unemployed vagrant, and he got married and emptied his family, and I told my parents not to look for me in the future.
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Netizen 3:
My parents bought several houses and luxury cars for my younger brother, but my sisters had no dowry, and the bride price was all taken away.
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Netizen 4:
My brother and brother each have a few suites, hundreds of thousands of cash, and they don't give me anything, and their sons are not around, and they look for me for everything.
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Netizen 5:
After I worked, I sent the money back, saying that I had saved it as a dowry, and when I got married, I didn't have anything.
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Netizen 6:
My parents added a car to my brother's two apartments, and I didn't even have a dowry, and later said to buy me a second-hand car, but I haven't bought it yet.
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Netizen 7:
My mother bought all kinds of big-name goods for my younger brother, and she saved seven figures in the card, as well as a factory storefront house, and bought me bargains, and it seemed like a great gift to have a room in the house.
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Netizen 8:
My grandparents' attitude towards my mother and uncle: I have money for my son, and I look for my daughter when I am sick.
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Netizen 9:
My dad is the same, he thinks his daughter is useless, he doesn't have a penny of dowry, and his sister-in-law has surgery and asks me to say that the key is not his own son.
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Netizen 10:
I saw it through, I didn't spend a penny on my family for 10 years of work, and I returned it to the family, and my brother's marriage and house were all arranged by the family, and my parents helped unconditionally.
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Netizen 11:
The family conditions are not good, and the parents' abilities are limited, I choose to understand, but it is also painful.
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A netizen said it well: Don't suffer from widowhood but unevenness. It's not that the sisters don't know how to be grateful, they have the ability to make money and still want to gnaw at the old and ask for their parents' money. Instead, I have seen a lot of parents' extreme preference for their sons, and all the family property is given to their sons, but when they do their obligations, they think of their daughters first, and it is not comfortable to change anyone.
There are sisters who persuade me to open a point:
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No one can solve thousands of years of problems. And the man also enjoys the peace of mind that his parents have prepared for him.
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Actually, I thought a lot about this when I was writing this, and I don't know how you feel about it, but for me, today's topic is indeed a bit heavy.
Since the day I graduated, my family has never given me a penny, and my parents are sometimes simply scary - they always think that if you graduate, it means that you have no worries about food and clothing in the city.
When you are poor, you can't make ends meet, and your peers who have just come out of society should have a deep understanding that their jobs are unstable, their income is thin, and they have to rent a house to eat, and they have to go around for interviews in the car. Renting a house is a few hundred yuan, and the salary is only more than 1,000 yuan, and I often think of the days when I hid in a dark rental house and had nothing to do, and I don't know where to go to make more money. I was at a loss!
My parents have always taught me to be self-reliant and to get rich by hard work with my hands, so I am embarrassed to continue to ask them for money after graduation, and it is even more impossible to borrow money from my classmates, because I have a little self-esteem and don't want to be looked down upon by my classmates.
Fortunately, I didn't get sick, but I really don't know how I survived in the end.
Later, my husband said an incident, which greatly stimulated my fragile nerves, he also had a period of unlucky days, his leg was broken in the year of his birth, and his grandmother sent him food every day when he lay at home, and his legs and feet were itchy again, and he asked his mother to take 2,600 yuan to play mahjong.
After all, people are different, and if it were my mother, it is estimated that they will meet with a knife.
I have a vague feeling that parents give more to boys than girls. He has no regrets about boys, and he cares about girls. After all, I think that if a girl wants to get married, the money will be lost in vain, and the boy will be different, and what is given out should be stored there.
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