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My husband asked me why I didn't serve my mother-in-law? Me: Your mother set the rules, and your parents serve by themselves

author:Warm winter in the sun

Who can solve the intertwined grievances? What kind of karmic reincarnation is hidden behind a family dispute?

In the far north border, there is a family surnamed Chen, and there is a tough woman named Chen Jinyu in the family. The turmoil ten years ago still lingers in her heart.

On a snowy winter day ten years ago, Chen Jinyu's mother suddenly received bad news from her hometown - her father was seriously ill. The mother hurried back, leaving only Chen Jinyu and her five-year-old son Xiaoxuan, and their mother-in-law, Li, who had not gotten along well with them.

Chen Jinyu originally wanted to ask the Li family to help take care of Xiao Xuan, after all, the child was young and needed someone to take care of him. However, Li refused indifferently, and she said sharply: "Whose child is raised, I am not obliged to bring you a child." At that moment, Chen Jinyu's heart was like being covered with ice and snow, she gritted her teeth and took on the responsibility of taking care of her father and children alone.

My husband asked me why I didn't serve my mother-in-law? Me: Your mother set the rules, and your parents serve by themselves

As the years passed, after Chen Jinyu's father passed away, her mother fell ill and was hospitalized. Her husband Chen Hao, because of his busy work, rarely asks about the changes in the family. Chen Jinyu travels between the hospital and home, physically and mentally exhausted, but no one asks about her hard work.

A few years later, Li suffered hemiplegia due to an accidental fall and needed to be cared for. At this time, she is no longer the domineering mother-in-law, but a patient who needs to be taken care of. However, Chen Jinyu chose to watch from the sidelines. She looked at her husband and sister-in-law busy in the hospital, but there was no trace of turmoil in her heart. She remembered Li's words back then, remembered the days she had survived alone, and there was only endless sadness in her heart.

Relatives persuaded Chen Jinyu to take care of the Li family, but she firmly refused. She said: "I am a daughter-in-law who abides by the rules, and I still remember Li's words clearly. The relatives were speechless and could only shake their heads and sigh.

The story spread in the town, with some accusing Chen Jinyu of being unfilial, and some sympathizing with her plight. But no matter what the outside world says, Chen Jinyu sticks to her bottom line. She no longer worries about Li's affairs, and just lives her life silently.

My husband asked me why I didn't serve my mother-in-law? Me: Your mother set the rules, and your parents serve by themselves

Time flies, Lee's condition is good and bad, and the atmosphere at home has become tense. While taking care of his mother, Chen Hao also has to deal with the pressure of work, and his temper becomes more and more irritable. However, he never got angry with Chen Jinyu, because he knew that everything Chen Jinyu went through was unimaginable to him.

Now, Chen Jinyu is standing in front of the window, looking at the snow outside the window, but her heart is not shocked. She remembered the hardships and dedication of those years, and remembered the indifference and ruthlessness of the Li family. She didn't know what the future would hold, but she knew that she was no longer the weak woman who was slaughtered by others.

Who is right and who is wrong in this family dispute? There may be no absolute answer. But we can see the complexity and multifaceted nature of human nature. Sometimes, in order to stick to our bottom line and dignity, we have to make some seemingly cold decisions. And behind these decisions, there is often endless bitterness and helplessness.

Chen Jinyu's story continues, what will happen to her future? But what we can be sure of is that no matter how many difficulties and setbacks she encounters, she will continue to move on firmly. Because she is the tough woman who once survived the wind and snow alone, she has a strength and bravery that others can't understand.

My husband asked me why I didn't serve my mother-in-law? Me: Your mother set the rules, and your parents serve by themselves

Dear readers, what do you think of Chen Jinyu's choice? Do you support her perseverance or do you think she should let go of her past grievances? Please leave your views in the comment area! At the same time, if you feel that this article has touched your heartstrings, you may wish to like and share it with more people! Let's explore the complexity and beauty of family, family affection and human nature!