In the well-known TV series "Do You Know", a sentence that is often mentioned comes from "Warring States Policy": "The love of parents is far-reaching". This sentence profoundly expresses the love and care of parents for their children.
This passage clearly shows that parents love their children, pay attention to long-term planning, and strive to plan for the future generations. Just looking at the present, it is too shallow. This means that parents' love for their children is never just superficial affection, the key is to consider the future.
For families with daughters, it is important to value their independence and autonomy in education. By nurturing children to be independent from an early age, they will be better able to face life's challenges and not rely on others easily. It is a responsibility of parents and the best gift for their children.
One of the reasons why many parents insist on raising their daughter rich is that they give her enough material support so that her mind does not become barren. This will also prevent her from easily falling for the kindness of others. The purpose of this educational philosophy is to enable the daughter to become self-reliant and create her own future.
When it comes to choosing a marriage partner, we should stick to our hearts and choose someone who is truly trustworthy. This is a critical decision that needs to be carefully considered.
If you have a daughter, I suggest you tell her that a man who is truly worthy of marriage is not necessarily good-looking or wealthy. However, they must be unique in three ways.
To become a woman worthy of marriage, you must do the following three things, which cannot be ignored. Don't get me wrong.
One: Although not rich, but self-motivated
We are born with no choice of family background and conditions, but we can choose how we want to spend our lives.
A man who can be trusted will not complain about the unfairness of fate, but will fight with his own efforts and hands.
When he meets the woman he likes, he will carefully plan the future of the two. Although he is not wealthy at the moment, he is extremely self-motivated.
Such men usually have latent abilities, and if a woman chooses to trust him, it is as wise as if she were investing in the future.
Many ladies do not hesitate to endure the hardships of life together once they have identified a man. This does not mean that they are stupid, but because they are convinced that he is trustworthy.
The commendable quality of a man lies not in the background of affluence, but in the spirit of daring to struggle and enterprising.
Two: The family background is not good, but it is warm and harmonious
Some people say that if you want to know what a man's character is, just look at his parents.
While this statement may be too absolute, there is some truth to it. After all, the impact of the environment in which you grow up on a person is huge and far-reaching. A good family ethos does not always mean wealth, but it is undoubtedly the most harmonious.
Growing up in a loving family will surely learn how to love.
Why do some people say that a family with harmonious parental relationships can make a good marriage for their children? This is because this invisible influence is deeply imprinted in the human heart, and it is difficult to completely change it. Therefore, we should focus on maintaining harmonious family relations, which will not only benefit us, but also leave a valuable legacy to future generations.
When a woman marries, she should not only pay attention to the family wealth behind the man, but also pay more attention to whether the family he comes from has a harmonious family style. This perspective requires not only foresight, but also wisdom.
Three: Good character and responsibility, can give women the sense of security they want
Moral character is the essence of human beings, and only a person with good moral character is worthy of friendship and trust. No matter how good the conditions are, if there is a defect in morality, it is not suitable to get along for a long time. Character is the most important personality trait.
Women who are under the responsibility of a man do not need to worry about "whether he really loves me" all the time, and can pursue what they want to do without fear and live their souls.
At this time, unlike money, the sense of security that comes with the warmth of your partner is more important and lasting.
Some women choose to marry rich men but they are not happy, and on the contrary, there are women who marry ordinary men and are loved like princesses. This essential difference lies in the love and responsibility of men. This proves once again that money cannot buy true happiness, but needs to come from the true love and responsibility of men.
A man's responsibility is closely related to his love for women.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Don't just love a good person, don't just love an excellent man, don't just love a talented man, please love a responsible man." ”
Many women take this statement as truth.
It was once difficult to comprehend this sentence, but now I understand: the word responsibility is better than a thousand advantages.
As my life experience grew, I came to realize that there is much more to a man than just those that are widely celebrated. However, only when he is responsible, can he show that he truly has a deep love for women. This is not only a reflection of personal qualities, but also shows that men not only love their women, but also can bear the burden of family and life.
Men spend their lives with a youthful passion, a desire for freedom and challenge. From the bottom of their hearts, they have always believed that wind and freedom are the most precious and fascinating things in life.
Only true love can make a person grow and be willing to take the initiative to share difficulties and pain for others. Because of love, people will have the courage to take on the responsibilities of men and be willing to become mature men. The willingness to transform himself from a boy to a man is also because of love. Love inspires the courage and strength within people to move them towards a better future.
Even a gold-worshipping girl like Yishu's Xibao will not hesitate to choose "a lot of love" and give up "a lot of money".
Some people believe that love is just an ethereal feeling, not as real as money. However, a man's rigorous sense of responsibility and responsibility is enough for love to take root and spread, allowing this feeling to permeate all aspects of our lives.
When we are young, we may think that money is the most important thing, but as we grow older, we will understand that it is more important to have a partner who can rely on you, know how to take care of you, and can love you deeply.
When a woman chooses to marry, she should pay attention to the other person's character, understand the family situation behind him, and also need to see if he is self-motivated and responsible. These factors are the most important guarantee for the days to come.
In fact, many couples will gradually disappear or turn into affection after many years of marriage. At this time, it is not emotion that maintains a long-term relationship between the two, but responsibility. After all, love is hard to last forever, but responsibility is a long-term commitment.