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In 1985, a classic movie "Garland Under the Mountain" introduced people to a young and gentle actress - Gaike. In fact, she became an actor as early as after graduating from middle school (admitted to the Central Experimental Theater), but in her early years, she only participated in drama performances, and it was not until 1981 that she appeared on the screen with her first movie "Su Xiaosan".
Gaik
After becoming famous, Gaike did not stay in China to develop, but chose to study overseas. This kind of behavior inevitably sparked some discussions at the time, some people said that she was famous and forgot her roots, and did not want to stay in her own country, and some people said that she was too utilitarian to marry a rich man who was famous...... Many years later, when the reporter interviewed the female star, she said very calmly: "If you want to survive, you can't avoid utilitarianism." Gaick admits that there was a utilitarian element in her decision to study in the United States, but she also has her own credo, which is that she must not base her success on the interests of others. This is also reflected in a little-known relationship she once had.
One night in the early 80s, a ball was held at the Great Hall of the People in Beijing, attended by leading comrades of the Central Committee and some literary and art workers, and Gaike was among them.
As the dance music played, a tall, well-mannered young man walked up to Gaik's side and politely invited him to dance. The man in front of him, showing his superiority with his gestures, should not be from an ordinary family, Gaike thought for a moment, stood up, and danced with the man.
Gaik
The opponent's dancing posture is not skilled, and his movements are at a glance, like a soldier boxing. Through the chat, Gaike learned that the other party was a communication soldier, and they talked about a lot of topics. As he was leaving, the man stuffed Gaik with a note with his address and phone number written on it—yes, the name was curious.
Many people who are familiar with history may have guessed that this "it" is actually the fourth son of the founding general Luo Ruiqing - Luo Yuan.
The hearts of young people are easily touched by small things. After watching Gaike's drama performance, Luo Yuan released a signal of love to this agile girl.
On this day, the two of them were walking in the mountains, and Gaike finally asked what he had been curious about for a long time, why Luo Yuan's nickname was "It"?
Luo Yuan explained that the name was given by his mother, because after giving birth to him, he didn't want to have any more children, so he gave a nickname "了", which means "了liǎo", and it was over.
Luo Ruiqing
When talking about his father Luo Ruiqing, Luo Yuan couldn't help but shed tears. When his father went abroad for treatment and unfortunately passed away, he often thought of his father's appearance when he was sick, and his heart couldn't stop feeling uncomfortable......
In this way, the two talked about life from work, from family to ideals, and before they knew it, it was getting late. At the time of separation, Luo Yuan sincerely invited Gaike to his home to meet his mother, Hao Zhiping. The first time she went to the other party's house, Gaike was inevitably a little timid, but under Luo Yuan's sincere invitation, she still stepped into the door of Luo's house.
After this time, Gaike, who thought she had seen her parents and could formally interact with each other, waited for a sad fact.
Luo Yuan told Gaik that his mother had a good impression of her, but he also said that in a family like theirs, there were many girls who pursued him, so why should he choose between the corners? Luo Yuan said that his mother cried when she said this...... Although he spoke lightly about his mother's attitude, it sounded undoubtedly a shock to Gaick. She began to seriously consider her relationship with Luo Yuan.
Gaik
After going back, Gaike thought about it, on the one hand, she felt that the other mother's words were not unreasonable, after all, they were people from two classes, and the huge disparity between families and the psychology of self-indulgence made her unable to muster the courage to break through the shackles of traditional concepts. On the other hand, she felt that her self-esteem had been hurt, "Do we who act have to be looked down upon by those superior people?" (although Luo Yuan's mother didn't mean it.) "I have to do my work to prove my worth!" She is a haughty girl who can't tolerate the slightest contempt for her. Perhaps it was based on this "inducement" that Gaike finally made the difficult decision to break up with Luo Yuan.
A few years later, when Gaike and his American husband David (Chinese name Zhou Siren) were having dinner at a Beijing restaurant, they miraculously saw their former lover Luo Yuan, and the other party did not find himself. At this time, she wanted to go over and say hello to him, but she still didn't go after all.
Now, Gaike is over the age of six, and her husband David died of illness many years ago, although she also stepped into the river of marriage again, but she still chose to live alone after all.
Gaik
Finally, I would like to quote the lyrics from a song as the ending emotion:
"Later, I finally learned how to love,
It's a pity that you have long since disappeared into the sea of people.
Later, I finally understood in my tears,
Some people, once they miss it, don't ...... anymore"
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