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Preface
Recently, a video of "my daughter-in-law being slapped 9 times by my father-in-law" was uploaded on the Internet, which attracted the attention and anger of many netizens.
However, just when the emotions of netizens were high, the truth suddenly became blurred, because of the intervention of the police and the inside story revealed by insiders, there seemed to be an unexpected reversal.
What's going on here? Isn't it really as simple as it seems?
Domestic violence daughter-in-law?
A few days ago, a video of "daughter-in-law slapped by her father-in-law's domestic violence" appeared on the Internet, and this video quickly attracted the attention of netizens.
Judging from the voice in the video, the topics of quarrel between them are all from the child, it seems that the woman is holding the child and wants to bring it herself, not let her father-in-law bring it, so it caused the quarrel, but this is not to blame the father-in-law, as the child's grandfather, what is the matter with not letting himself take the child.
But I don't know if there was a contradiction when I took the child before, when the woman said that she wanted to take the child by herself, her father-in-law said: You bring it yourself? The words were full of ridicule, and then said that he was not worried about his daughter-in-law's words.
It's a little strange here, people are the mothers of children, what's wrong with taking their own children, even if the father-in-law likes his grandson, he can't interfere with the child being taken by the mother, isn't that vexatious?
After hearing her father-in-law's mocking tone, the woman's attitude began to become tougher, and she kept emphasizing to her father-in-law that she wanted to take care of the children by herself, and even expressed that her father-in-law was not at ease with herself, and she was not at ease with her father-in-law.
I didn't know that the woman's words poked the sadness of his father-in-law, he stepped forward directly, without caring about the identity between them, and regardless of the child being next to him, he raised his arm and gave his daughter-in-law a mouth, that posture was like fighting an enemy.
The child in the woman's arms was directly frightened and cried by this slap, but the father-in-law still didn't stop, the arm was like a hot wheel, and he slapped his daughter-in-law 9 times before stopping.
Even the father-in-law was beating and scolding, saying that I was going to beat you today, and the daughter-in-law there could only be passively beaten because she was holding the child, crying while being beaten, and finally she couldn't stand it and began to beg for mercy, but the father-in-law did not bypass her.
As soon as he made his hand, there were three loud slaps, and the daughter-in-law was directly stunned, and after reacting, she shouted: Dad, I was wrong, trying to wake up the angry father-in-law, but it was useless, the father-in-law did not stop the violence, but did not stop until the ninth slap.
Not long after the incident, this video appeared on the Internet, and quickly appeared on the hot search, netizens were shocked after watching it, and then began to crusade against this father-in-law on the Internet.
rollback
No one thought that in the current society, there would be father-in-law who committed domestic violence against his daughter-in-law, even if there were different opinions between them, and it was not as harmonious as imagined, it would not be reduced to beating his daughter-in-law.
At the bottom of the video, the comments of netizens showed a one-sided trend, all of them were condemning the father-in-law's behavior too much, and if you disagree, you can sit down and discuss it, why do it.
Some people even said that the daughter-in-law should not be so honest, she should resist directly, how her father-in-law beat her, she should fight back, otherwise it will not be a loss in vain.
In addition to helping to condemn the father-in-law and make the daughter-in-law call back, there was another remark in the comment area, they suspected that the video was a pre-arranged script, or a trap set by the daughter-in-law to kick the father-in-law out of the house, after all, it was captured by the camera at their home.
As the matter intensified, the local women's federation and the police have also intervened in the investigation, and some "insiders" have come out to tell some different things, the netizen said that he is from the same community as the family, saying that the father-in-law cannot be blamed for this matter.
They have a total of two children, and over the years, it has been the father-in-law who has helped take care of the children, and the eldest in the family is brought up by the father-in-law, and now that they have the second, they want the father-in-law to take it, but the father-in-law also wants to take a break, and the most important thing is that this daughter-in-law is a special thing, and has been calling the old people in the family to drink.
The father-in-law was always thankless and had been suppressed for too long, so this time he completely broke out, beat his daughter-in-law hard, and let out a sigh.
Judging from what this insider said, this daughter-in-law only cares about giving birth to children, no matter whether they take the children, the old people help them bring the eldest one, and now that the second child is born, let the father-in-law take it, isn't this a proper squeezing?
And the most important thing is that this daughter-in-law doesn't seem to know how to respect people, and greeting her father-in-law may be like greeting a nanny, and her reputation in the community is particularly bad.
Some people think that the daughter-in-law is too much, they don't respect the old man, and they deliberately provoke the old man, and after being beaten, they package themselves as a victim, trying to use the power of the Internet to blow up their father-in-law.
From the perspective of the old man, he has also suffered a great grievance, even if he brings up his children and is not grateful to himself, he always calls himself around, and he doesn't feel any respect at all, and even has to be posted on the Internet by his daughter-in-law to make people condemn him.
There are also some people who think that whether it was the daughter-in-law's fault or the old man's fault before, they should not do it, and now that they have done it, the father-in-law has to be kicked out.
For a while, netizens insisted on their own words, no one could convince anyone, the impact of the video was further expanding, and the local women's federation had also noticed, and soon found the family, according to the content of the video and multiple verifications, the time of domestic violence was around nine o'clock in the evening on the 17th.
But the strange thing is that at half past nine, the police station had already received a call from the police, and went to the house, and asked the father-in-law in the video to leave, but according to the time of the video, the daughter-in-law released the video only after the matter was dealt with by the police.
On the second day after the video was released, the local sub-district office had also joined hands with the Women's Federation, and a psychological counselor came to the woman to conduct psychological counseling, and the matter will be further verified.
Against domestic violence
There is no way to know what will happen next, but whether it is the father-in-law's real domestic violence, or the daughter-in-law's painstaking work to kick the father-in-law out of the house, this incident reminds us that the problem of domestic violence still exists in our lives, which is a very serious and worrying problem.
What is disturbing is not this one incident, but the whole microcosm of domestic violence, which is supposed to be a warm and harmonious place, but has been made unbearable by the violence of some people.
As the elder of the family, the father-in-law should be a role model in the family, and should not be the perpetrator in any case, and the daughter-in-law is the same, as the mother and daughter-in-law of the child, she has a dual identity and should lead by example, so as to better educate and guide the younger generations, and solve the conflict in a peaceful way, rather than using a conspiracy to solve the problem.
And the most critical thing is that in the video, only the father-in-law, daughter-in-law and children were found, where was her husband, he did not appear when his wife was subjected to domestic violence, and he still did not appear when his father and wife were cyberbullied.
Maybe it was his absence that led to this contradiction, after all, between the daughter-in-law and the in-laws, it is necessary to rely on the husband to reconcile in the middle, if he is indifferent, the family will definitely not be good.
The affection between families should be a soft bond, but it has become distorted and painful because of violence, and the most chilling thing for netizens is that when there is a conflict between his daughter-in-law and his father-in-law, as their most important person, he did not appear, and he could have prevented all this, but he chose to stand by.
epilogue
The cause of the incident has yet to be investigated, and the timely intervention of the police has ensured that the woman will not be harmed again, and has also issued a serious warning to the violent father-in-law.
What is even more touching is that when domestic violence occurs, many people bravely stand up, and their bravery is not only the power of justice for the victims, but also a warning and counterattack to the society against domestic violence.
Sources of information
Luzhong Morning News reported on April 19 that the video went viral! she was slapped 9 times in a row!
Qilu Evening News reported on April 19 that "Daughter-in-law was slapped 9 times by her father-in-law, official notice".
Metropolis reported on April 18 that it had zero tolerance for domestic violence!#官方通报女子因带娃问题被公公连扇9巴掌#