My colleague Yanyan is about to go home to give birth, and during the lunch break, several mothers who have given birth are chatting about "giving birth". Since Yanyan was producing for the first time, listening to the descriptions of her colleagues, I was very nervous.
In her words, before she gave birth, she had a few oolongs, and twice she slept until midnight, always feeling a slight pain in her stomach, as if she was about to give birth, and hurriedly ran to the hospital. As a result, the doctor saw that the child did not want to "leave the palace" at all, so I went home and continued to wait.
Pregnancy in October is both hard and happy for expectant mothers, but also accompanied by a little anxiety, especially after entering the due date, a little "movement", it feels like giving birth. In fact, in order for his parents to greet him better, the baby will give his mother some signals before deciding to "leave the palace", such as seeing red and breaking water.
My wife is a "Ma Daha" who doesn't touch the spring water with ten fingers, and when she is pregnant, she only cares about chasing dramas, and she doesn't know anything about pregnancy and childbirth. I remember that day when we came back from a walk, she felt a little tired and just lay down on the sofa. I was afraid that she would catch a cold, so I went over and helped her to lie down on the bed.
Just as she got up, her mother found that the place where she was sitting was a little soaked, and the experienced mother immediately said: Don't move, lie down, you are all broken, I am afraid that you are about to give birth.
As she spoke, her mother put the sofa cushion under her wife's buttocks, and at the same time asked Wenwen's father to start the car and quickly take her to the hospital. Along the way, my mother said: This water broke first, and she must be pregnant with a grandson.
After arriving at the hospital, the doctor heard that his wife had "broken water", and immediately arranged for her to lie on the hospital bed and not move, telling her not to get out of bed and walk around, so as not to flow out too much amniotic fluid and endanger the fetus.
In our subconscious, shouldn't we see the red before giving birth? Why do we break the water first? The obstetrician and gynecologist replied: Every pregnant mother's physique is different, and before giving birth, some are red and some are the first to break the water, which are all symptoms of giving birth to a baby.
"Is it true that my mother-in-law said that the water broke first and that she was pregnant with a boy?" asked the wife.
In the end, after a long contraction pain, my wife gave birth to a cute and cute daughter. It can be seen that there is no basis for "breaking the water first" to give birth to a boy.
So, before giving birth, what is the difference between "seeing red first" or "breaking the water first"? Wen Wen's father combined with the obstetrician and gynecologist to share the following:
(1) The seer is red, and the pregnant mother can not be in a hurry
In the words of doctors, if a pregnant mother has a "redness" phenomenon during the due date, it means that she is about to give birth, but it will not be born immediately. Therefore, pregnant mothers who see red seers do not need to worry.
Generally speaking, pregnant women will start contractions within 24 to 48 hours after seeing redness, during which time pregnant women can wash their hair, take a bath, pack up their necessary items for pregnancy, and then go to the hospital for hospitalization.
It is worth noting that if the amount of bleeding is large when you see redness, which is about equal to the usual menstrual flow, pregnant mothers should pay attention to it and beware of bleeding in the third trimester. At this time, you need to go to the hospital quickly, and in case of emergency, you can also call 120 for help, so as not to affect the health of the fetus.
(2) Break the water first, pregnant mothers should be cautious
About 95% of pregnant women in labor will see red before giving birth, and only 5% of women will break the water first.
When the mother has symptoms of water breakage, it is necessary to determine whether emergency admission is necessary according to the amount of water broken:
•If the water is low, the mother can move and walk for a short distance, such as washing her hair and bathing at home, and then choose to go to the hospital;
• If the water is broken, do not stand or sit, but lie down and raise your hips with a pillow to avoid the flow of amniotic fluid as much as possible.
Family members should call an ambulance or drive to the hospital as soon as possible, and if they are driving, let the mother lie flat in the back as much as possible, and raise her hips, and never sit again.
In the words of obstetricians and gynecologists, it is very dangerous for the mother to break the water first, if the water is too large and the amniotic fluid in the abdomen is less, the fetus will have the risk of hypoxia and premature birth.
In the opinion of obstetricians and gynecologists, the difference between red and water breaks first is quite big for the fetus, and there are two main ones:
(1) From the perspective of safety and health, the mother is more friendly to the fetus
Generally speaking, the mother's redness during the expected delivery period is very small, and the delivery is very safe, if the water breaks first, the fetus will have a risk of hypoxia due to the lack of amniotic fluid.
My friend Kobayashi broke the water before giving birth, because the production process was not smooth, and finally the child was born with severe hypoxia, and he stayed in the hospital for half a month before going home, but fortunately, the child's brain and intelligence were not affected.
(2) The seer red or the water breaks first, suggesting the different physique of the mother and the fetus
Some surveys have found that before giving birth to a baby, whether the mother sees the red or breaks the water first, implying that the mother and the fetus have different physiques. The red seer indicates that the mother's constitution is better than that of the fetus, and the first water break indicates that the fetus's constitution is better than that of the mother.
It is worth noting that whether the mother sees red or breaks the water first has nothing to do with giving birth to a boy or a girl, because the sex of the fetus is determined as early as the formation of the fertilized egg.
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