There is a saying that "good men are trained", some flowery men have broken the hearts of countless women, and suddenly for a moment they feel that they have "had enough", and they have become a good husband and father in the eyes of someone. There are always some girls around me who are very mindful of becoming someone else's "first love", all because they don't want to spend all their time making Mu Ne's boyfriend romantic and intimate, but in the end they have to "give up" to the second one. Some girls will deliberately choose a "weathered" man to be their other half, all because they don't want to help someone teach their boyfriend or husband.
In fact, from another point of view, a "good woman" may also be trained, initially stumbling on the road of love, and starting vigorously, but the heat of love is fleeting. After a few drags, I gradually understand the wisdom of maintaining relationships, understand that no matter how intimate a lover is, they must have their own space, learn to speak frankly and sincerely about their feelings, learn to understand their lover and self-love at the same time, each relationship is like a lesson, and gradually lead you to the next happy relationship. How many love practice questions have you completed? Will your next relationship break your heart or be full of happiness? Take the following psychological test to find out.
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When you are misunderstood by your boss and the other person publicly scolds you in front of other colleagues, what is your first reaction?
A. Direct resignation
B. Pretending to be okay on the surface, scolding inwardly
C. Pretending to be in a hurry and fleeing the scene
D. Try to clear up the misunderstanding
A. Direct resignation
Happiness index 20%
If you choose A, you have a fiery personality and will often "go head-to-head" with your partner, and your next relationship may be full of quarrels. It's good to have something to say, but if you speak out of your mouth in a moment's anger, it may not not only express your feelings, but also hurt your partner, and sometimes it is not bad to learn to "take a step back".
B. Pretending to be okay on the surface, scolding inwardly
Happiness index 60%
You are very rational and pursue equality in everything, and the same is true in relationships, you will never give more than the other person, and you are afraid that you will be the injured party. You get along well with your partner, but because of "calculating", sometimes the other party will not feel your sincerity, if you have observed that the other party is serious, you might as well let down the defense for her.
C. Pretending to be in a hurry and fleeing the scene
Happiness index 40%
If you choose C, you love the feeling of being in love, so you can't wait to start a relationship before you know whether the other person is suitable for you. Therefore, whether your next relationship is happy or not depends on luck, if you happen to meet a compatible partner, it is good, but there is also a chance to meet a mismatch.
D. Try to clear up the misunderstanding
Happiness index 99%
If you choose D, you are mature and reliable in the eyes of others, and the same is true in love, once you meet the right person, you will cherish each other very much. You know that the relationship needs to be run in, and you will not hurt the other party because of your will, and if you separate because of a misunderstanding, you will feel very unworthy.