In this noisy and impetuous world, gossip is like catkins in spring,
Flying all over the sky, everywhere.
Some people avoid it, for fear that this dirty thing will fly into their mouths and noses, but some people are happy to do it, as if life has found the true meaning of life in this endless chewing tongue.
Gossip is a thing that begins in the mouth of people and is in the hearts of people.
For example, those gossip that catches the wind and shadows will always use the so-called wind shadow as the reason, catch the specious "facts", and catch the shadow of "not my race", which seems to understand the truth, but in fact is to seek a spiritual partner who smells like me.
The next thing is to make something out of nothing, that is, to prepare to add oil and vinegar, cook a delicious dish that only your own people can eat, and those who can move chopsticks on the table must be "their own people".
Drinking is much more stimulating than alcoholic beverages.
The inheritance and sophistication of gossip is all aimed at satisfying the curiosity of the speaker and the gossip desire of the audience, and the tendency of "seasoning" is processed, so whether this dish is in the streets and alleys, or in the square alleys, or in a corner of the office building, it is more likely to appear in the "passionate moment when someone is not there".
Of course, it is impossible for people in the whirlpool to realize the disadvantages of gossip, far more than wasting time, confusing right and wrong, and engaging in the so-called "small circle culture", but also in its trampling on individual dignity and "ironic destruction" of interpersonal relationships.
Gossip is like a whirlpool, and there is no one outside it, but only "in the middle of it".
Looking at the depths of the fireworks in the world, Zhang San and Li Si quarreled over trivial matters, and the original trivial matter was solved after it was said, but it was exaggerated by the good deeds, adding fuel and vinegar, and instantly became a hot topic on the streets.
Zhang San and Li Si, who is the bully and who is the victim, all rely on the word "heard" to determine right and wrong, and only look at how the word "may" flips the facts around.
A little, a few rotten mouths, twitter, so unhappy.
If there was no peace, the two might still be able to shake hands and make peace, but due to the fermentation of gossip, the contradiction escalated, and finally "never died".
Such trivial matters, from the streets and alleys, to the company's workplace, dormitory campus, and then from large groups to small circles,
It's all over the place.
Gossip is like an invisible blade, cutting the bonds of trust between people, playing with the already fragile network of relationships, good friends become enemies, the original face-saving relationship becomes hostile enemies, unnecessary conflicts become increasingly intense, meaningless entanglement prevails, and finally the peaceful social community becomes a battlefield of rumors.
Looking at the "Internet Temple" again, the keyboard heroes insist on their own words, which seem to be the disadvantages of the times, but in fact they fan the flames, exposing their not high knowledge in a ridiculous way, and even using gossip as a weapon to attack each other and confuse the public.
The spectators are engulfed in it, or angry, worried, or confused, but they often ignore the real intention behind these gossip resorted to because of emotions: to provoke the relationship that originally stood together, there must be anxiety when there is opposition, and there must be entanglement when there is conflict, anxiety and entanglement occupy the core of people's attention, and the heat soars, but what they see is the joke like a clown, and the pathos under those blindness.
The gossip continues, life goes on, the sobriety that shouldn't be disturbed,
It's time to wake up, too.