01
Before I got married, my experienced relatives advised me to give up the marriage, saying that it would be miserable to marry a family of two sons.
I thought they were jealous and couldn't see me well, after all, my in-laws' family was not good, but my husband gave me a 100,000 bride price by himself.
Who knows, after my brother and daughter-in-law and I became pregnant and gave birth to a child, I deeply realized what partiality and patriarchy are.
02
When I married my husband, my parents were laughed at by relatives and friends, thinking that I was self-defeating and married to a phoenix man, or a phoenix man with two sons at home.
My parents once persuaded me to break up, but I was reluctant to have a 5-year relationship with my husband and insisted on getting married. My parents had no choice but to compromise with me.
In order to let me get married, my parents endured anger and grievances and prepared a wedding house and a dowry of 100,000 yuan for me.
As for the in-laws, they only gave 100,000 bride price, but there was no marriage room, and the 100,000 bride price was made up by her husband in his own name.
03
My husband and I have only been married for half a year, and my brother-in-law also brought his girlfriend home and said that he was going to get married. The in-laws happily gave him a marriage.
I thought that my in-laws would be like my husband marrying me, standing by and watching, without contributing money or effort. But who knows, the in-laws took out all the family funds, first to buy a house, and then to give a bride price.
is also a daughter-in-law, and the difference in treatment from my in-laws makes me very aggrieved and angry. Even if my mother-in-law bought a wedding house or gave a bride price, maybe I would feel more comfortable.
But as soon as I started complaining, my husband advised me not to worry about it, because his younger brother did not go to college and did not have any skills, and it was understandable that his parents were distressed.
04
Since I can't get justice for myself, I have to have less contact with my in-laws, there is no major matter, I usually don't take the initiative to go back to my in-laws' house, out of sight and out of mind.
It's just that what I didn't expect was that my brother and daughter-in-law and I were pregnant on the front and back feet, and the due date was also on the front and back feet. And my mother-in-law, who has never had any contact with me, said for the first time that she would come to my house to take care of my three meals a day.
My mother-in-law's reason was that she owed me a debt of money in the marriage room and the bride price. Now she plans to make amends when I am pregnant and have a child. Although I didn't want to accept it, my husband persuaded me to go down the stairs given by his mother, after all, it was also his mother's kindness.
I reluctantly accepted it, and began to endure my mother-in-law's nagging and discipline every day, which is not allowed and that is not allowed. When I resisted a little, my mother-in-law cried and grabbed the ground, saying that I didn't appreciate it.
05
I kept the baby until I was born. I thought that after the birth of the child and the mother-in-law finished serving the confinement child, she would definitely go back. It's just that I didn't expect that before my mother-in-law went back by herself, I couldn't help but drive her away.
After the double pain of going from natural birth to caesarean section, I finally gave birth to a lovely daughter. Looking at her little one, my heart is extremely satisfied.
The parents are also very happy that our mother and daughter are safe, but the mother-in-law's face is not very good, and she keeps talking about how to be a girl, I think Huaixiang is obviously a son.
I didn't pay much attention to it, and my mother-in-law didn't want to leave halfway, so I could only restrain my mind and take care of the confinement child. It's just that I can also see that my mother-in-law is absent-minded and stays by her phone every day, for fear of missing any important information.
06
My parents came to visit me several times, and saw that my knife was recovering slowly, and the whole person's qi and blood were not good, so they dragged my relatives everywhere to find me fresh ribs, which were 30 pounds, and specially sent them to my house, so that my mother-in-law could change the tricks to stew soup for me every day to replenish my body.
When my mother-in-law saw the 30 pounds of pork ribs sent by my parents, her eyes were shining. She took the initiative to take the ribs very diligently, and patted Xiong Po and repeatedly promised that she would raise me and my daughter for nothing.
After my parents left, my mother-in-law stewed pork rib soup for me twice. It's just that I can't bite because the ribs are stewed hard and woody. I tend to just drink some soup and throw the meat away.
I was a little puzzled, my mother obviously told me that she had specially found someone to pick the best and most tender ribs. I took advantage of my mother-in-law's outgoing grocery shopping and secretly opened the refrigerator to check it. As a result, when I opened the refrigerator, I was stunned.
07
Where is there any trace of the 30 pounds of pork ribs sent by my parents? I didn't give up, so I called the freezer again to see, but there was still no half of the ribs. At this time, the mother-in-law came back with a small section of pork ribs and a few side dishes.
I snatched the ribs, carefully identified them, and realized that the 30 catties of local pork ribs that my parents sent me had long been gone, and my mother-in-law bought me ready-made ones every day, but she was greedy for cheap, so she picked some bad pork ribs, and the stewed soup was naturally old, firewood and hard.
A few days ago, my brother-in-law gave birth to a big fat son, and my mother-in-law secretly ran to see it, and blamed herself for not being able to take care of it herself, so she could only give the 30 pounds of pork ribs sent by my parents to my brother-in-law to supplement her body, which was her compensation. And she herself goes to the vegetable market every day to pick up some cheap pork rib leftovers to make soup for me.
I think it's incredible, these are the pork ribs that my parents dragged their relatives everywhere to find in their hometown, how could my mother-in-law send them to my brother and daughter-in-law to replenish her body without saying a word?
08
The mother-in-law said disapprerovingly, "You haven't eaten anything good?" Your parents are in good condition, and the 30 pounds of pork ribs are gone, so they will naturally find a way to find you local chicken soup to replenish your body. What's more, you only gave birth to a daughter, so there's no need to eat so well. And your brother and daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, and she must make up for it so that my eldest grandson can be raised for nothing.
I told my husband what my mother-in-law said as it was, and let him handle it himself. After reasoning with his mother-in-law, the husband decisively sent his mother-in-law to his brother-in-law's house. Looking at the back of my mother-in-law leaving, I was greatly relieved.
My mother-in-law is partial and patriarchal, and I don't want to pursue it, but why did she give the 30 pounds of pork ribs that my parents worked hard to find to my brother and daughter-in-law to replenish her body?
Fortunately, my husband was able to carry it clearly, otherwise there would be no need for this marriage to continue.