Marriage is one of the most important contracts in life. Recently, there has been an astonishing initiative in the marriage market: to treat marriage negotiations as a deal! What is even more shocking is that boys have made an unprecedented demand -- to make the results of the girls' marriage examinations the first condition! Is their demand really not excessive? Let's explore together.
First of all, we have to say that this request has indeed sparked widespread controversy in society. Some people believe that marriage is a matter for two people and should be built on mutual trust and true love, and it should not be turned into a cold transaction. On the other hand, there are also those who support the position of boys, arguing that marriage needs to take into account factors such as health and family genetics, and that there is nothing wrong with the marriage examination as a guarantee.
However, we cannot simply look at this issue in black and white. Marriage is a complex process that involves many factors. First of all, the significance of marriage examination is not only to ensure the health and good inheritance of genes of both parties, but more importantly, to have a frank and transparent communication environment for both parties. After all, no one wants to find out about some hidden disease or genetic defect in the other person only after marriage.
However, does taking the marriage examination as the primary condition of marriage negotiation place too much emphasis on the material factor and ignoring the emotional factor? Marriage is a journey of two people who go through a lifetime together, in which mutual trust, understanding and support are crucial. If marriage is treated as a business in the first place, then it loses its romantic and emotional essence. Can such a relationship still last and be happy?
Perhaps, we can find a balance. As a necessary option, a premarital examination can help both parties better understand each other's physical condition and reduce conflicts and disputes in the future. However, on top of that, we also need to pay attention to the emotional communication and inner resonance of both parties. Marriage is not just a transaction, it is a commitment and responsibility.
Finally, from both a boy's point of view and a girl's point of view, we need to think about the question: is marriage for the sake of satisfying individual needs, or is it for growing and being happy together?
To sum up, the practice of marriage negotiation for sale has indeed sparked a wide range of discussions in society. We can understand the considerations and concerns about the first condition for boys to ask girls to undergo marriage examinations, but we cannot ignore the emotions and responsibilities involved in marriage itself. When building a marital relationship, we should pay more attention to trust, understanding, and affection for each other. In this way, we can go through a happy and fulfilling marriage together.