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Listening to my father, in fact, grandpa and grandma originally planned to have only one, because of family conditions, they were not allowed to have so many children, but grandma was unwilling, so she had to let grandma give birth, who would have thought that grandma would die because of this.
At that time, the fourth uncle had just been born, and he almost died because he had no milk to drink, and his mother couldn't bear to bring the fourth uncle over to feed.
In such a situation, the fourth uncle and I grew up together, and then the fourth uncle went out to work hard and rarely came home, until his mother was sick, he appeared in front of the hospital bed, as soon as he saw his father, he gave his father a hard punch, and began to scold, and everyone hurried up to stop the fight.
01
In the past, in rural areas, every family was born to several children, and if you dare to say that anyone is an only child, you will be gossiped about and feel like you can't have children.
My dad has four brothers, yes, brothers, my dad has no sisters in his generation, and my grandmother gave birth to four sons, which made my grandmother very happy at the time, but my father had a very stiff relationship with my grandmother because of this.
Dad told me that in fact, when I gave birth to the third child, my grandfather and grandmother didn't plan to have another child.
The family is not wealthy, and it is not easy to survive, and this time there are three more boys, not only to feed, but also to think about marrying a daughter-in-law when they grow up.
For this reason, the grandfather sighed at home, thinking about how the family should go down, but the grandmother couldn't smile from ear to ear every day, and showed off that she had three grandchildren everywhere in the village every day.
At that time, people were more or less patriarchal, not to mention that we were in the countryside, which was simply very important, so to speak, in our village, the more men in the family, the higher the status in the village, which would give people a feeling that the family was not easy to bully.
My mother told me that she was abandoned, and when my mother was born, my grandfather's family was immediately unhappy when they saw that it was a girl, and they turned around and left, completely ignoring my grandmother who had just given birth in bed.
Grandpa's family has never had a boy, before grandma gave birth to her mother, she had given birth to four girls, and her grandmother's age was not young when she gave birth to her mother, and her mother was likely to be the last time grandma gave birth to a child, who would have thought that she would still be a daughter.
Grandpa looked at the daughters in the family and had a headache, and immediately decided to give her mother away, but in that era, if you gave a man, every family rushed to ask for it, and even moved directly after it arrived, afraid that the person who sent it would regret it.
But when it came to sending his daughter, everyone almost avoided it, so after the grandfather turned around, he didn't find a suitable adopter, so he ruthlessly threw his mother in the grass on the side of the road.
Fortunately, the mother Jiren has her own natural appearance, and as soon as the grandfather left, the little uncle took his mother home, and pulled his mother with a handful of and urine, so he did not marry a wife and have children in his life.
At that time, the mother still had to drink breast milk, and the little uncle had no choice but to find a way to make goat milk for the mother to drink, so the mother was raised by the little uncle by stumbling.
Her mother said that she was lucky to have a little uncle who loved her, but the other abandoned girls were not as lucky as their mother.
At that time, there was a place called the Abandoned Baby Tower, which was originally intended to take in the babies who died young and had nowhere to bury, but for some reason, it slowly evolved into the Abandoned Baby Girl Tower.
Almost all the girls around Tarita were alive, and some were even alive, and I shuddered when I heard my mother tell me this, and my mother said that people of their time, even if the boy born was disabled, would not be discarded, no matter how good the girl was, if she said no, she didn't want it.
This kind of behavior is only because the boy can carry on the family lineage, so the mother said that she can understand the choice of her grandfather, and the family gave birth to five girls, and her grandfather is destined to not be able to raise his head in the village.
Therefore, the fact that grandma gave birth to several sons was worth showing off at the beginning, but no one would have thought that pain would soon befall this family.
02
Originally, my grandparents didn't plan to give birth, but my grandma was unexpectedly pregnant, and the whole family was caught off guard.
In addition, grandma was already an advanced maternal age at that time, and if she gave birth, there was a great risk, and grandma didn't want to cause trouble to the family during this period.
Grandpa didn't want grandma to give birth because grandma's health was not good, and he was afraid that grandma would have an accident, so the whole family was too grandma to support grandma very much.
After learning that my grandmother was going to beat the child in her belly, she kept making trouble at home, messing around every day, saying that the child was a gift from God, and if it was not easy to lose her life.
What else is said that it is more or less a life, we must conform to nature, he will come to the reason, no one can deprive him of the right to come to this world.
Grandma Tai is obviously a rural woman who has never read any books, but she is unreasonable, and what she says is the way of the head, and her father said that he admires Grandma very much, and can stubbornly say that what is wrong is right.
The grandparents said that they couldn't be grandma, and in order to make the house cleaner, they also followed the grandma, but because of this decision, grandma died.
When my grandmother gave birth to the fourth uncle, she had a difficult birth, and called the midwife to deliver the baby, and the midwife saw that the grandmother was bleeding profusely, and she was afraid of taking responsibility, so she ran away, and finally the grandmother herself gave birth to the fourth uncle with her many years of experience in giving birth to children.
But grandma didn't survive herself, and before she could be sent to the health center, grandma had no vital signs on the road, and grandpa was slumped because of this.
I asked my parents why they didn't go directly to the health center, and my mother said that at that time, there was so much attention in the village, and almost every family had a child, and they were looking for a midwife.
There are even some women who give birth too much, and they give birth at home, and the grandmother suddenly broke the amniotic water, and the distance from the village to the health center is a bit far, and there are too many uncertain factors on the road, so they give birth directly at home.
After grandma left, grandpa no longer had a smile on his face, grandpa and grandma have been married for so many years, and they have never quarreled, not even bickering.
As soon as grandma left, grandpa had to support his three sons alone, and when grandpa drank too much, he went to grandma's house to make a big fuss.
Grandpa resents grandma because she keeps letting grandma give birth, and grandma will die because of this.
"There are already three sons in the family, is there a difference between giving birth to the fourth one or not! If you don't raise them after birth, aren't you still adding a burden to this family and increasing pressure on me! You don't want anything, just wishful thinking! Now that you have given birth, you are happy! But I don't have a daughter-in-law! The child has no mother!"
Under the questioning of grandpa, grandma didn't say a word, just sat in the courtyard and cried, grandpa vented all his inner emotions, and left, and it was from this that the relationship between grandpa and grandma became stiff.
After the death of grandma, the most pitiful thing is actually the fourth uncle, who was born without a mother, how to survive and grow up has become a problem, grandpa doesn't like the fourth uncle very much because of grandma, plus the family is really about to open the pot, so I want to send the fourth uncle away, the boy must have a lot of people to want.
03
After my mother learned that my grandfather had this idea, she immediately decided to ask my father to take over the fourth uncle and raise him by our family, because I was also born at that time, and my mother happened to have milk, and the fourth uncle could also eat it.
Because my mother had been drenched in the rain, I wanted to hold an umbrella for the fourth uncle, who would have thought that my grandfather would directly refuse after learning of his parents' decision, "Ask my sister-in-law to feed my brother-in-law milk, and this will make people laugh out of their big teeth!"
At that time, the thinking was still very feudal, although this kind of behavior was not recognized by everyone, but it could keep the fourth uncle, and the parents did not care about other people's opinions.
Grandpa saw that his parents' attitude was so resolute, and he no longer persuaded him, and after thinking for a long time, he left the fourth uncle at my house and left, and after that, the fourth uncle was raised by my parents.
The fourth uncle is less than a month older than me, I don't say it's my fourth uncle when we go together, everyone still thinks we are brother and sister, we go to school together every day, and go to school together.
What I remember most clearly is that when I was a child, I especially liked to bully the fourth uncle, no matter what he had, I had to grab it, my mother didn't quarrel with me for this, and the fourth uncle especially protected me at this time, "Who made me her fourth uncle, it should be." ”
Later, as we grew up, I became more presumptuous, bullying the fourth uncle without fear, and whenever my mother saw it, she let the fourth uncle beat me and educate me.
The fourth uncle would always look at me with a smile and say, "Who called me her fourth uncle, and I was reluctant to fight." ”
In this way, I grew up under the pampering of my fourth uncle and my parents, went to college, got married and had children, my fourth uncle studied better than me, was admitted to a key university, and entered a good unit to work after graduation.
As we grew up, we gradually went home less often, and there was a lot less communication with my parents, and once I was on vacation, I wanted to go home on a whim, but I didn't tell my parents, I wanted to surprise them, but I didn't expect them to give me a fright.
When I got home, I found that there was no one at home, and when I called, I learned that my mother was sick, and she was now hospitalized after surgery.
Seeing my weak mother on the hospital bed, I cried directly, "Why don't you tell me about such a big thing!"
My parents were afraid that my fourth uncle and I would be worried, so they actually hid the news of my mother's illness, no wonder I wanted to play a video before, but my parents said that they were not available.
As soon as I stabilized my emotions, I saw the fourth uncle coming, and I saw the fourth uncle rushing towards my father and punching him hard, "Do you have such a thing? Don't say such a big thing! Do you know that my sister-in-law is as important to me as my mother!"
The fourth uncle scolded his father well, and the fourth uncle didn't stop until his mother spoke, and he took a fancy to his mother's appearance, and the fourth uncle said sorry again and again, he was a little busy recently and forgot about the house.
The mother touched the fourth uncle's head and comforted him, and kept saying that it was okay, everyone knew that the fourth uncle was blaming himself, and since then the fourth uncle has asked for leave from the company, and served his mother in the hospital wholeheartedly until his mother recovered and was discharged.
Under the care of the fourth uncle, the mother's body quickly recovered, under the repeated urging of the mother, the fourth uncle decided to go back to the company to work, the day of leaving, the fourth uncle said to the mother very solemnly, "The eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, I have always treated your biological mother as a mother, so you must tell me if there is anything." ”
The mother nodded and said, "I know, I really didn't hurt you in vain," and then explained to the fourth uncle some things like paying attention to his body, and asked the fourth uncle to leave quickly.
Until now, sometimes I don't care if the fourth uncle is called the fourth uncle, but directly call "brother!"
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