In recent years, school bullying incidents have occurred frequently, how to eliminate school bullying is not only a concern for parents, but also a concern for the whole society, if asked how to reduce school bullying, people often say that the school, parents and society need to work together, in the past for a long time, this answer is indeed the standard answer, but at the same time, it is also an answer that cannot achieve significant results.
However, recently, there seems to be a new way to solve the problem of school bullying, this method is generated, first of all, thanks to a parent of a student in Xinxiang, Henan, this parent is a father, his daughter was bullied by the boys in the same class at school, the parent first took a civilized solution after this, and communicated with the school and the other party's parents, but the result was that his efforts did not achieve any results, his daughter continued to be bullied by the boy, and finally, the parent could not bear it, blocked the school gate, and beat the boy who bullied his daughter at the end of school, and beat the other party until he fell to the ground bleeding, and his eyes were almost blind。
As an adult, this father actually did something to a nine-year-old child, if it were changed to the past, this father would definitely suffer moral criticism, however, today, the reality is that after the incident, the Internet is full of praise for this father's approach.
At the same time, the father's approach also provides a new way to solve school bullying, that is, if their children are bullied, parents can beat up the bully who bullied their children, whether school bullying can be eliminated.
Before we get into that, let's analyze why this parent is so impulsive.
Perhaps in the past, parents were just angry when it came to school bullying, but since the brutal murder of a classmate by three junior high school students in Handan, Hebei Province, when people mention school bullying, in addition to anger, they will also have worries and even fears in their hearts. When parents learn that their children are being bullied at school, they do not only think that their children have been physically and mentally harmed, but they are even more afraid that their children's lives are threatened.
With the change of people's concept of fertility, there are more and more single-child families, it can be said that many children in primary school are the only bloodline inheritance of a family, in this case, how can parents not pay attention to the safety of their children, and it is understandable that bullies are beaten for their children.
This parent was so ruthless that he actually beat the bully to the point of almost blindness, which does seem a bit excessive. However, as netizens said, there is such a person, when you reason with him, he will play a hooligan for you, and when you play a hooligan with him, he will talk to you about the law, such a person, you have no way to persuade him with reason, only by using your fists to make him remember the lesson, he can change.
The father was quickly controlled by the police after beating the nine-year-old bully, and before he beat the nine-year-old boy, the father knew what the end was, but I believe that even now that he has been detained, he has not regretted his decision, and we should all praise this father, he is an excellent father, and his daughter will be proud of him.
Although the father's impulsive behavior has paid a great price, he has successfully protected his daughter and made the bully realize that the child may be vulnerable, but behind every child, there are parents who love him, even if the school and society have no way to deal with the school bully, it does not mean that the parents of the bullied will not take action. I believe that the nine-year-old boy who was violently beaten will definitely learn a lesson after this incident and will never dare to bully other classmates in school again.
The fundamental reason why school bullies dare to bully other students in school is that they feel that there is no one to restrain them, however, sadly, this seems to be the case.
It is often said that solving the problem of school bullying requires the joint efforts of the school, the parents of students and the society, but the efforts of these three aspects are often as follows: the school will only carry out the so-called criticism education for students, the parents of the bully will only say two words about their children without pain, and the masses and netizens in the society will only criticize the bully after the school bullying incident, but they have not made much effort to prevent the occurrence of school bullying.
Although Xinxiang's father's actions were impulsive and violated the law, they were widely supported by society, and even some large media judged the father's behavior, believing that although the father's behavior violated the law, it was not wrong. At the same time, the father's efforts have had the results he wanted, not only to protect his daughter, but also to teach the nine-year-old boy who bullied his daughter and other classmates to learn a lesson and reduce the number of school bullies in his daughter's class and school.
Judging from the father's deeds, his daughter was bullied at school, so he took action to beat up the school bully who bullied his daughter, and since then, his daughter's school has one less bully. If this practice is promoted, it is not impossible to eliminate the problem of school bullying completely. But in fact, this method is not feasible, violence can indeed eliminate violence to a certain extent, but the harm caused by violence to others cannot be ignored, at the same time, not every parent, after the child is bullied, will be like this father, reckless when it should be action.
At the end of the day, to reduce or even eliminate bullying in schools, we should start with the law, and the law should indeed protect minors, but protecting them does not mean shielding them. Now, more and more people are realizing that even minors should pay for some of their excesses, and in some cases, the law should not be an umbrella for minors. It is hoped that the state will soon introduce relevant laws to reduce school bullying and juvenile delinquency.