As far as material conditions permit, parents are eager to send their children to the best quality institutions to provide them with richer educational resources and opportunities.
Unfortunately, the reality is often harsh. Most families are not financially well-off enough to provide top-notch educational resources. Despite this, parents have spared no effort to create a good learning environment for their children.
There is a consensus on the importance of early education. As a result, many parents choose to send their children to kindergarten when they are three years old. It's not just about learning textbook knowledge. It is more hoped that children can feel the atmosphere of collective learning in kindergarten, learn to integrate into collective life, and cultivate good behavior habits to prepare for primary school in the future.
Some private kindergartens seem to ignore the original vision of education, and teachers are secretly secretive when assigning homework. It seems to be a battle of wits and courage with parents, but they don't know that smart parents have already seen everything.
Some kindergartens investigate the "family background" in disguise, but the parents have their own countermeasures: no one can play with them. Some assignments require students to write down their parents' occupations, which seem understandable on the surface, but are actually a side investigation of the student's "family background". Parents are unhappy because they fear that teachers may have an unfair view of their children.
In view of the disgust of parents, some kindergartens have begun to assign homework that seems to be no problem, but in essence, they are still "finding out".
Some people complained online that the current kindergarten homework is too unbearable. There was an assignment that asked students to introduce their family's car and take a photo, saying that it was "me and my family's car".
In fact, there is another attempt behind this. The parents did not compromise on this, and directly took photos of their children's toy cars, saying: "You can't get our way".
When the student completes such an assignment and takes it to kindergarten, the teacher is a little unhappy when he sees it, but he also realizes that it is not good to say anything, after all, the homework has been completed. I have to say that the parents' way of coping is really clever.
In addition to photographing the home's vehicle, some kindergartens also set up a "parent-child questionnaire", asking students to introduce their families in the form of pictures and texts, and even write down the price per square meter, which is an incredible requirement.
In this regard, some parents directly drew the earth in the column of the house plan, because the earth is the home of all mankind, and its value is immeasurable. Such an answer was impeccable, and the teacher could only smile reluctantly when he saw it to hide his embarrassment.
The high fees of private kindergartens, as well as the conduct of similar surveys, require stricter management. Although private kindergartens occupy an important position in mainland education, the high fees and hidden family investigation behavior of some private kindergartens are indeed worrying.
Faced with this situation, parents have the right to firmly refuse. After all, the main responsibility of the kindergarten is to educate the students, not to investigate the financial situation of the students' families, and they should not take unfair measures towards the students.
This situation exists in private kindergartens, and the relevant management departments need to be more strictly supervised and managed. Whether it is public or private kindergartens, they should keep in mind their original intentions and strive to improve the education model, instead of spending energy on these "improper means", so as to promote the better development of education in the mainland.
Private kindergartens need to adjust their mentality "Thousands of teachings teach people to seek truth, and thousands of studies learn to be real people." The core meaning of this sentence is that the teacher's educational goal is to guide students in their pursuit of truth, and the student's learning goal is to become virtuous people.
As an important part of early childhood education in mainland China, teachers in private kindergartens, as the most direct educators, should focus more on teaching and devote themselves to teaching, so as to cultivate more excellent students.
Early childhood education may seem simple, but it is not. The teacher's responsibility is not only to impart book knowledge, but also to guide students to integrate into collective learning and life.
Kindergarten education is not an easy task. Teachers need to help students develop correct values, good habits, and common sense and moral awareness, which is far more important than imparting book knowledge.
It is hoped that all private kindergartens will take this mission right and cultivate better students. Parents should be cautious when choosing a kindergarten, avoid blindly believing in some kindergartens with high fees and do not live up to their name, and be more considerate.
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