Hello everyone, today I will bring you a topic: when the maternity leave is over, no one has to take the child, should I take the child at this time, or send the child back to my hometown to bring to my grandparents?
Now many families have such a confusion, after giving birth to a child, their own family has a source of happiness and happiness, but the maternity leave is only half a year, when the expiration of this half year, you will have to face a choice, whether to resign and take the child at home, or send the child back to the hometown for grandparents to bring?
If you quit your job, it means that the work you have worked hard for many years will be in vain in an instant.
Send it back to your hometown and let your grandparents take it. Then you will lose time with your children.
No matter how you choose, it doesn't feel like a perfect solution, but if it were, how would you choose?
Let my grandmother bring it, and every month, give my grandmother a certain amount of remuneration, so that the child can also be brought and reunited with the family.
Grandparents discipline children strictly, which helps children grow.
A woman must not quit her job because she has a child.
If you let your mother-in-law come over to take care of the children, it is likely that other conflicts will occur.
Indeed, it is better for your own family to take care of the children than to hire a nanny.
This method is also possible, ask an aunt to take care of the children during the day and bring it herself at night.
The days when the palms are up are the hardest, which is the sincere persuasion of those who have come over.
Don't give up on your job and society, it's hard to find a high-paying job after you get out of touch.
Grandma is more at ease with her grandchildren than outsiders, and she is also at ease in her own heart.
When a family lives in the same city, they are able to take care of each other.
It's also fairer to let your grandmother and grandmother take them alone for half a year, but in many cases it's limited to only children.
The last sentence says what many women are worried about, and their mother-in-law may say that she can't go to work and spend her son's money.
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If the living conditions are still passable, the children try to bring their own children, after all, the way the older generation takes care of the children is different from the young people now.
When children grow up with their parents, their relationship with their parents will become better.
If you really want to give it to the elderly, then try to take the elderly to live with yourself, so that you can accompany the elderly and your children, which is the best of both worlds.
What do you think about this?
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