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My name is Li Hongmei and I am 50 years old. My husband and I have been married for more than 20 years and have never had children of our own. When we were younger, we also thought about having a child, but after a few years of no good news, my husband and I gradually accepted this fact and quietly looked for other pleasures in life. Over the years, we have walked through an ordinary and stable life, supporting each other and taking care of each other. However, the peaceful life has changed imperceptibly.
The husband has two children among his siblings, a nephew and a niece. Their parents died in an accidental car accident, leaving behind two young children. The young brother and sister lost their support for a while. As their aunt, my husband and I felt a responsibility to help them.
Since then, we have taken care of them and tried our best to give them a warm family. My husband and I agreed early on that we would do our best to help the children without expecting anything in return, just hoping that they would grow up well. We even made the decision to divorce so that I could better handle the issue of raising them. It was a difficult decision, but I knew it was the best option for the kids.
As time passed, the nephews and nieces grew up, and they had their own dreams and hopes. The nephew has a strong interest in music and wants to become a musician, while the niece has a passion for science and dreams of becoming a scientist. I try my best to support their dreams and provide them with opportunities to learn and develop. The husband is also silently helping them to build a solid foundation for their future.
However, the challenges of reality have not gone away. As the nephews and nieces grow up, their personalities become different. My nephew is more introverted and not good at expressing his feelings, and he is often reticent, which worries me. The niece, on the other hand, is bubbly and cheerful, but seems a little impulsive when it comes to pursuing her dreams, sometimes making decisions that are reckless. These questions have complicated my life even more.
Despite this, my husband and I are still firmly supportive of their choice and strive to create a good living environment for them. I am confident that such efforts will ultimately lead to a bright future for them. However, fate is always full of uncertainties, and my life has inadvertently changed dramatically.
During a routine physical exam, I was diagnosed with a serious medical condition. This was undoubtedly a huge blow to me, and it also made me reflect on my past choices and future direction. The arrival of the illness made my life more fragile, and I began to worry about whether I could continue to take care of my nephews and nieces and how they could continue in the future. My inner struggle and confusion intensified.
At the same time, my relationship with my husband was also tested because of my illness. He still cared about me, but I could feel his helplessness and powerlessness. The distance between us seemed to be growing, which made me feel lonely and helpless.
After my illness, I found myself in a situation of isolation and helplessness. My nephews and nieces also started to show dependence on my care at this time, but I couldn't give them as much care and support as I used to. This feeling of powerlessness makes me feel hopeless.
Despite the difficulties, I tried to remain optimistic and hope to find a solution to the problem. However, I know that this is just the beginning of the challenges in my life. I need to face my illness and re-examine my life, while also continuing to help my nephews and nieces have a better chance in the future.
In the days to come, I will continue to work hard to find a way out and fight for the future of myself and my nephews and nieces. I hope that no matter what challenges I face, I can stay strong and provide them with a solid support. However, I also know that such a road will be full of bumps and will require more effort and determination.
Since my illness, my physical condition has gradually deteriorated, and the daily routine of taking care of my nephews and nieces has become more difficult. However, my niece Xiaoying's care and care for me made me feel a little comforted. She would take the initiative to take care of my daily life, and at the same time work part-time after studying, trying to lighten my burden.
One night, as I was resting on the sofa, Xiaoying came over and handed me a cup of hot tea. She smiled and said to me, "Auntie, don't worry about me and my brother, we'll all be fine." Her tone was firm, and her eyes revealed confidence in the future.
I nodded and stroked her hair: "Xiaoying, you have to remember that no matter what difficulties you encounter, your uncle and I will try our best to help you." After hearing this, Xiao Ying's eyes showed gratitude.
Although my nephew Xiaohao is introverted, he has been silently supporting me. One day, he suddenly walked up to me and handed me a piece of paper: "Auntie, this is a letter I wrote to you, I want you to know that I will always work hard to learn music and become the pride of you and my uncle." ”
I took his letter, my eyes moistened slightly: "Xiaohao, you are really a sensible child." You have to remember that we all support your dreams, and as long as you work hard, we will always be there for you. ”
Xiao Hao smiled and nodded, his eyes revealing firmness and confidence.
However, the days did not change smoothly because of my efforts. My condition gradually deteriorated, leaving me unable to take on more family responsibilities. At this point, my husband started to take on more of the household chores, but I could see that the pressure was mounting on his shoulders. He's still trying to stay optimistic, but I know he's trying to hide his concerns.
Once, my husband and I were talking in the kitchen, and I asked him with concern: "Lao Li, you seem to be tired lately, you need to pay attention to your body." ”
My husband nodded and poured me a glass of water: "Don't worry about me, I can hold it." But you, are you okay?"
I sighed, "I feel more and more strained, but I'll try my best to take care of myself." You also need to rest more and don't overexert yourself. ”
He smiled and patted my hand: "Don't worry, I will." Let's get through it together. ”
As the days passed, my condition made my mental state worse and worse. I was worried that I would not be able to continue to take care of my nieces and nephews and that I was worried about their future. I started thinking about whether I should seek more help to get better care for.
One day, I discussed with my husband: "Lao Li, I was thinking, maybe we should consider finding some professional institutions to help take care of Xiaoying and Xiaohao." They need a stable environment, and I'm sick now and probably can't do that. ”
The husband pondered for a moment and nodded: "Your suggestion is very reasonable. We can look and see if there is a suitable agency that can help them. ”
I gratefully shook my husband's hand: "Thank you for your continued support, we work together to find the best solution for them." ”
And just like that, we started looking for ways to help our nephews and nieces in the hope that they would have a better future. But it also complicated my feelings, I wanted them to be better cared for, but I didn't want to be separated from them. All this made me feel tangled and uneasy.
In the coming days, we will continue to work hard to find a suitable institution to provide a stable living environment for our nephews and nieces. At the same time, I will continue to pay attention to my condition, try to stay optimistic, and create a warm family atmosphere for them. I believe that as long as we are united, we will be able to overcome the difficulties in front of us and give hope to the future of our nephews and nieces.
Over the next few months, my husband and I searched around for the right agency, trying to find a place for our nephews and nieces that would provide a stable living environment. We visited several nursing homes and care facilities, but we never found an option that satisfied us. Many of the institutions are good, but they charge a lot of money, which is very stressful for ordinary families like us.
One day, we received a phone call, it was my friend Sister Wang for many years. She found out about my situation and offered to help take care of me and the children. Sister Wang is a kind person with a lot of experience in taking care of me, and she has a close relationship with me, which makes me feel extremely grateful.
When Sister Wang came to our house, she brought a lot of daily necessities and prepared rich nutritional products. She smiled and said to me, "Hongmei, I'm here to help you." Don't worry, I'll take good care of you. ”
Her presence was a relief for our whole family. She skillfully helps with household chores, takes care of the children's daily life, and often chats with me to relieve boredom. The children gradually became familiar with her, and Xiaoying even treated her as close to her grandmother.
One night, Xiaoying sat next to Sister Wang, excitedly talking about what was happening at her school. Sister Wang listened with a smile, and encouraged Xiaoying from time to time: "You are so good, you have to continue to work hard, grandma believes that you will get better and better." ”
Xiaoying smiled happily and nodded: "Thank you grandma, I will continue to work hard!"
At the same time, Xiao Hao gradually began to communicate with Sister Wang. He was originally more introverted, but Sister Wang's warmth and care made him gradually open his heart. He began to ask Sister Wang for advice on music, and although she was not familiar with music, she always encouraged him to pursue his dreams.
One day, Xiao Hao and I talked about his future with music. He looked at me with anticipation in his eyes: "Auntie, I really want to learn music well and become a musician." Do you think I can do it?"
I held his hand and said firmly, "Xiaohao, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to realize your dreams." We will always support you. ”
Sister Wang heard our conversation on the side, and added with a smile: "Xiaohao, you have to believe in yourself, your aunt is right, you will definitely be able to do it!"
Sister Wang's arrival has brought a lot of warmth and hope to our family. However, my condition still bothered me and prevented me from fully relaxing. One night, my husband and I talked about our plans for the future.
"Lao Li, I've been thinking recently, maybe we should consider letting Xiaoying and Xiaohao live independently and let them choose their own future paths. I spoke.
The husband nodded: "Hongmei, you have a point." The children have grown up, and we can't protect them all the time. It's also a good thing for them to have them independent. ”
I felt relieved, but also a little reluctant. After all, we have developed a deep bond with our children over the years. It's not an easy thing to leave the kids, but I know it's part of their upbringing.
In the days that followed, my husband and I started talking to our children about their future. Xiao Ying and Xiao Hao both showed their longing and expectation for the future. Xiao Ying said that she wanted to continue to pursue her scientific dreams, while Xiao Hao wanted to continue studying music.
We respect their choices and encourage them to pursue their dreams. Sister Wang also expressed her blessings to the children and said that no matter where they go, she will always care about them.
As the children became independent, my husband's life and I began to change. I try to stay positive and try not to let my illness affect them. I know that taking care of them over the years is my most important responsibility, and now that they are about to embark on their own path, I have to learn to let go and let them develop freely.
As the children become more independent, the atmosphere in the home begins to change. Sister Wang still stays in our house to help take care of my daily life, but my husband and I are also adjusting our mentality, we have to learn to let go and let our children freely pursue their dreams.
One night, Xiaoying and Xiaohao sat in the living room and talked to my husband and I about their future plans. Xiaoying said excitedly: "Aunt, uncle, I have decided to continue my scientific research. I have applied to a graduate program at a university and they are willing to accept me. ”
My husband and I were very happy with Xiaoying's news. I smiled and said, "Xiaoying, this is really good! We are proud of you, you must make good use of this opportunity." ”
Xiaoying nodded gratefully: "Thank you, aunt and uncle, your support is very important to me." ”
Then, Xiao Hao also expressed his plan: "Auntie, I decided to study abroad and continue to study music. I have applied to a prestigious conservatory and they have accepted my application as well. ”
My husband and I are both happy for Xiaohao's decision, but we are also a little worried. The husband asked, "Xiaohao, are you ready? When you are alone abroad, you have to take care of yourself." ”
Xiao Hao smiled and nodded: "Uncle, I'm ready." I'll take care of myself and don't worry you. ”
Sister Wang listened from the sidelines and gave some encouragement to the children: "Xiaoying and Xiaohao, you are all excellent, you have to believe in yourself." Studying abroad is a great opportunity, and you should cherish it. ”
We sat together as a family and talked about our children's plans for the future, full of hope and longing. As much as I was reluctant to let them go, I knew it was part of their upbringing.
In the next few weeks, we made a lot of preparations for Xiaoying and Xiaohao to go abroad. We help them pack their luggage and prepare the required documents and documents. My husband and I also gave them some advice on how to live and remind them to stay safe.
On the day of parting, our whole family came to the airport to see off Xiaoying and Xiaohao. Xiaoying hugged me, tears flashing in her eyes: "Auntie, thank you for taking care of me all the time." I will study hard and live up to your expectations. ”
I stroked her hair, smiled and said, "Xiaoying, remember, you will always be our pride. No matter what difficulties you encounter, you must face them bravely. ”
Xiao Hao also said goodbye to us, with a trace of reluctance in his eyes: "Aunt, uncle, thank you for your care and support to me." I will study hard abroad and try to come back as soon as possible. ”
My husband and I hugged Xiaoying and Xiaohao one by one and sent our blessings. Sister Wang also said goodbye to the children and wished them all the best abroad.
After seeing Xiaoying and Xiaohao leave, my husband and I became quieter. Sister Wang continued to take care of me at our house, which made me feel a little comforted. Although her husband is a little disappointed, he has always maintained an optimistic attitude.
In the days after my children left, I started to pay more attention to my health. I try to take my medication on time and go to the hospital for regular check-ups. I also started discussing my treatment options with my doctor to find the best treatment.
Sister Wang has always been by my side, cooking nutritious meals for me, and often walking with me. Her care and care made me feel warm and gave me more confidence to face my condition.
After Xiaoying and Xiaohao went abroad, the life at home became much quieter. Sister Wang continued to accompany my husband and me and helped us through a difficult time. Her presence reassured us and allowed me to better manage my condition.
One day, Sister Wang and I were walking in the garden, and the sun shone on us, making me feel a burst of warmth. Sister Wang smiled and said to me, "Hongmei, you have to be optimistic. The kids are working hard and they will be back soon. ”
I nodded: "Yes, Sister Wang." Your care has made me recover well. Thank you. ”
Sister Wang shook her head: "You're welcome, I admire your dedication to the children." Now it's time for them to repay you. ”
In the months that followed, Xiaoying and Xiaohao called us one after another to report on their life and study abroad. Xiaoying told us that her research is progressing well and that she has already published a paper. She excitedly said, "Auntie, I published an article in the magazine! ”
I was very happy to hear the news: "Xiaoying, you are so good! Keep working hard, we are proud of you!"
Xiao Hao also called us and told us about his progress at the Conservatory. He said: "Auntie, I attended a concert at school and won an award! This is the first time I have won an award abroad. ”
I am pleased with their achievements and encourage them to keep up their efforts. Their growth has made me see that my efforts are worth it, which has strengthened my belief in facing my own illness.
One night, my husband and I were chatting in the living room. My husband asked me with concern, "Hongmei, how are you doing?" Tell me what you need, and I will do my best to help you. ”
I smiled and replied, "Lao Li, I'm much better now." Sister Wang's care made me recover well. You also need to take care of your health. ”
The husband nodded: "Don't worry, I will." We have to take good care of ourselves and wait for the children to come back. ”
In the days since the children left, my relationship with my husband has also become closer. He continues to support me and provide me with every care I need. I know that we have been through a lot of difficulties together, and that has made our relationship even deeper.
Sister Wang's company made me feel no longer lonely. She talked and laughed with me and told me interesting stories from time to time, which eased my mood. She also calls the children from time to time and cares about their lives, which makes me feel warm.
One day, Sister Wang suddenly proposed: "Hongmei, do you think we should organize a family reunion and let the children come back to have a look?"
I was touched by this idea: "Sister Wang, this is a good idea! We haven't been together as a family for a long time." I will contact the children to see when they have time. ”
At Sister Wang's suggestion, my husband and I started planning a family reunion. We reached out to Ying and Hao to ask when they would be back. They all expressed their willingness to go home and be together, which made me extremely excited.
On the day of the reunion, our family was finally reunited. The children brought lots of gifts and made us a great dinner with their own hands. Xiao Ying and Xiao Hao's smiles made me feel the happiness I hadn't seen for a long time.
Sister Wang also shared this happiness with us, she said: "I am also very happy to see your family reunited. Hongmei, you are so happy!"
I looked at Sister Wang gratefully: "Sister Wang, thank you for your continued care." Without you, we would have really struggled through this period of time. ”
After that day of reunion, I felt like my life was more complete. Although my illness is still ongoing, with the love and support of my family, my mentality has become stronger. I believe that no matter what the future holds, I will find strength in it and persevere.
Whether it is the difficulties of the past or the unknown of the future, I firmly believe that with the company of my family and friends, I will be able to overcome all challenges and meet a better tomorrow.
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